Sexual repression + adherence to a shame culture. They constantly think about sex but have no way to publicly let out these thoughts without being shunned by their peers, so they use politics as a vehicle for that. Fascism is based in male sexual insecurity.
That also explains their obsession with interracial relationships in media (racism aside). Whether theyâre watching âBBC pornâ (bc you know itâs not us black dudes watching that, itâs dehumanizing and weird) or getting mad when white women date black (or any nonwhite) men, itâs all rooted in an obsession with perceived sexual inadequacy.
Not only do they think other (often black) men are physically superior. They perceive us as morally degenerated when we do engage in what are, in reality, healthy sexual practices. But, and this is crucial, their shame at their own actual, hidden sexual depravity makes them project a twisted morality on others. Thatâs why it seems every accusation they make is actually a confession.
In their minds, all of life is a zero sum struggle to outcompete other men for limited resources. But their sexual inadequacy creates a fundamental challenge to their masculinity. And rather than developing a healthy understanding of manhood, theyâd simply destroy (read: ruin, cast down, kill) the competition.
Ok so, now I donât feel silly thinking it was the British Broadcasting Company. I had to check that a couple of times trying to figure out how they were involved.
I love this; excellent breakdown. Racializing in porn has always made me uncomfortable because I can kind of feel that energy and it's a little uncomfortable (I'm white btw). Crazy how just allowing yourself to have fun with sex and explore it in a healthy way is SO discouraged in this culture. At times by both sides.
Example: As a young teenage liberal, I felt like I was a problematic chauvinist for feeling attraction to women. It was the protestant shame mixed with my consumption of rape culture/patriarchy discourse. Took a long time for me to not feel like a POS for having a sex drive.
Iâd, personally, not see an issue with watching Asian porn, unless either of the following are true:
Thatâs all you ever watch.
You ask your GF to act like they do in porn (as a fair amount of Asian porn (produced in the West, intended for those who fetishize it) would be the stereotypical stuff, like school girls, or anime characters).
If the race is not the focus of the video, it should be ok.
But of course, if you feel bad, And donât want to watch it shine anymore, you donât have to.
Same, I was thinking I know tripping the velvet and bodies were a bit âracyâ back in the day, but I didnât think it was that bad. Or did they mean frank in his bow tie?
Fr. Black people aren't watching videos labeled "Black breeding savage tribal bull with a wild BBC terrorizes sweet innocent white girl." And they're all named like that. Like who's always been obsessed with shit like that since the 50s when saying hi to a white woman would have you accused of being a rapey king kong. Like so many of them have this fantasy about us coming in like an animal and taking away white women. Why do YOU, have OUR DICKS in YOUR mind more than your girl does!?!? That shit bothers me ngl it's fucking weird.
Great Ted Talk! Side comment: Iâm not gonna look it up âcause Iâm afraid of what Iâll find, but I guess âBBC pornâ has nothing to do with the British Broadcasting System? đ
âWe are responsible for our own ignorance or, with time and openhearted enlightenment, our own wisdom. We are responsible for ourselves and our own deeds or misdeeds in our time and in our own space and will be judged accordingly by succeeding generations.â
Excerpts from: Isabel Wilkerson Caste: The Origins of Our Discontents
Those very insecure guys are constantly holding on to their masculinity by a thread. They feel threatened by everything, so they want a world where they are top of the sexual food chain by law because they know they can't compete. They would be happy with everyone pretending that these guys are the pinnacle of masculinity. There's actually guys that are so afraid of people thinking they're gay that they won't even wipe their own ass because it's "gay:
That explains a lot of men who remain âin the closetâ all their lives. It wasnât that long ago that you could be outed right out of your job, denied security clearance etc.
I guess my point is itâs not biological. They could have healthy, mutually enjoyable sex lives. The dysfunction or inadequacy is in the mind and behavior.
I did a search on the internet but only found sites dealing with the dark web or the British Broadcasting Corp. Could you give a brief and simple explanation of what BBC porn is? I've never heard of this. Just curious.
Which is funny because dick size has little to do with sexual adequacy. I could use only my hands and mouth and do an amazing job. All you have to do is care and put effort in learning how to do it.
Interesting. Shaming someone while being sexually repressed is an aspect of fascism. I'll try to remember this the next time someone tries to shame me for having sexuality. Lol, sex is so taboo and people are still afraid to admit they are sexual in nature.
In their day, you could destroy a man's reputation by implying they were gay. A lot of the hyper masculinity stuff is a preemptive defense against such accusations.
A student of Freud (who later became a pseudoscience style crackpot) wrote a whole book about it called The Mass Psychology of Fascism. They don't know how to cum is the basic problem, and it makes them sex crazy and weird and repressed and then lash out at others cuz even when they get off their pathological psychophysiology won't let them get off to the point of real relaxation.
Because we haven't had a non-patriarchal form of fascism. The ideology is seen through a male lens, women are just brood mares and child carers, they don't have much say outside of matters of the family.
Women have always been in higher numbers (majority) since man is sent to war. Females had a large part in convincing their majority to conform. They used womenâs sexual insecurities to get that conformity. Itâs not a one sided coin.
I would argue it happens for both male and female. Females are whores if they have too many partners and males who donât have enough partners are shy losers. Itâs not a one sided coin for females only
Sorry meant male thing. Women prey on sexual insecurities as well. Itâs not just a male insecurities thing. Women call each other whores and call men losers for being virgins. Itâs not all manifested from males. People prey and try to control others on sexual insecurities, not just âmaleâ insecurities.
Itâs not one sex insecurities that are preyed upon and itâs not one sex doing the preying. Male sexual insecurities should be just sexual insecurities. Itâs not sex biased.
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Sexual repression + adherence to a shame culture. They constantly think about sex but have no way to publicly let out these thoughts without being shunned by their peers, so they use politics as a vehicle for that. Fascism is based in male sexual insecurity.