r/confidence 7d ago

This may seem shallow…

But I was reflecting on what would truly give me confidence and I came up with a weird answer, abs. I’ve always been in mostly decent shape but I just decided that I’m going to shoot for a fully visible 6 pack. Seems like a good goal for the new year. Thoughts?

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u/lvl39champion 7d ago

Makes sense. I'm 25 and in good shape, I gym 4 times a week and eat healthy. I feel good about my body but I don't have a six pack. It's something I too strive for. But 6 packs are made in the kitchen and I'm a hungry guy.

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u/kundaliniredneck1 7d ago

Made in the kitchen- so true!!

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u/w4rf4c3x 7d ago edited 7d ago

Might want to work on everything else people can actually see while you're at it.

Sounds like a good plan until you realize people can't see abs underneath your clothes.

Edit: LMAO. Warm-Cow pre-emptively blocked me. 💀Can't talk about confidence when you block people you reply to. Weird AF.

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u/Warm-Cow22 7d ago

Fairly sure that not thinking about whether people will see is confidence.

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u/kundaliniredneck1 7d ago

I can’t argue with your logic but I’m butt ass ugly😅. Not much I can do about that!

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u/w4rf4c3x 7d ago

That's fine. Same advice applies - here's a bit more. Work on it all.

Biceps, Triceps, Chest, Back, Shoulders, Legs

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u/kundaliniredneck1 7d ago

Yes, agreed. That’s the plan.

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u/w4rf4c3x 6d ago

I'm proud. Let's fucking go.

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u/BlusterStuffed 7d ago

If it works it works. I certainly enjoy having them lol.

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u/ez2tock2me 6d ago

Did you know that even if you were Brad Pitt, you’d have insecurities because it’s all INSIDE OF YOUR HEAD.

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u/kaleba1992 5d ago

I have abs and a great body zero confidence

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u/Dependent_Cheek8575 5d ago

Same homie same

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u/x86pg 5d ago

Why

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u/kaleba1992 5d ago

Idk

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u/kaleba1992 5d ago

I have anxiety, and I'm sweaty all the time. I think that's what ruins it

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u/wearealllegends 4d ago

Yea no one cares about your abs except other insecure ppl.. work on your mindset. Abs aren't forever

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u/HealifyApp 2d ago

ABS are a solid goal! It’s not just about looking good, it’s about feeling strong and proving to yourself you can do it. To make it happen

-eat clean: grilled chicken, veggies, and less sugar
- add in planks, Russian twists, and some cardio

Stick with it, and you’ll be flexing in no time.