r/DecidingToBeBetter 1d ago

Seeking Advice Words of advice appreciated

I'm trying to get out of a nasty relationship. Some kind words of strength would be very nice right now. I feel like I'm falling apart. I'm pretty sure he has narcissistic tendencies and I'm just a vulnerable sap who let's him walk all over me.

I've been trying to tell him I'm not happy and I wanna work on it. He's ignoring me. We've been sharing my second car bc my main car won't start. I've been dumping money into it but no luck. I got in my car this morning to come to work after he used it for work last night and the gas light was on. We live 20 miles from town and about 30 from where I work. The whole way to work this morning all I've thought about is telling him he can no longer drive my cars. I'm so done feeling like this. I want him out of the house. I feel like he needs to go instead of me bc I have the children and he's not even on the lease.

Thank you for letting me rant. Hope you guys have a wonderful Friday!

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u/No_Experience3839 1d ago

I told him again to get out. I still have to face it all but I feel a bit better. I'm putting my foot down. No more chances. No more explaining how I feel