r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST ANY $ helps- rent assistance

0 Upvotes

Hi all. I hate to have to ask for help here. I have requested help from all local assistance groups and government resources in my area, but am continuing to get denied.

Amount Requested: $740, which would only cover January rent so I don't get evicted. No, I am not expecting strangers to send me hundreds of dollars. I am just trying to be transparent.

My story: I am 23yo, recently divorced, and struggling a lot with my finances. I live in a 2bd apartment with my roommate and we split rent each month ($370 per person). I have 2 cats that are my whole entire universe and my roommate has a 4 month old puppy. My roommate is having some health concerns, making them unable to work at the moment. This came out of nowhere; unfortunately it happened at the same time that I lost my student loans from school. These loans have helped me to 'comfortably' pay my rent for the past 4 years. For the first time in my life, I am about to get evicted. As I'm sure you can imagine, my anxiety is through the roof. Because of the circumstances, all of the finances are falling onto me. I am paying for twice my portion of rent, utilities, and food costs. I am paying for all 3 pets and caring for them full-time. I am urgently seeking a job that I am able to do as a disabled person. I am killing myself donating plasma twice a week and spending all day every day applying, looking, and interviewing for jobs.

Every penny you send is appreciated! Each donation will bring me closer to getting back on my feet. Thank you for even just taking the time out of your day to read this. I truly appreciate each and every one of you!

As per sub rules, message me for my payment tags! And let me know what your preference is. I have a couple apps and am willing to create more accounts. Thanks!


r/Assistance 3d ago

THANK YOU Just wanted to say thank you

22 Upvotes

Hey all

So if you check out my post history you'll see that back in November I damaged my ACL and had gout flare ups out of control. I went three weeks with barely eating and drinking and pulled off an awesome 1 legged Easter bunny impression getting from my room to the washroom.

I made a post here and a lot of people offered to help, especially u/Difficult-Orchid-985 who purchased me a Brita filter and some food, which helped me get through the week and gave me the physical energy/strength to get my knee medically looked at.

My knee is still a week or two away from being good enough to use normally but I just wanted to say thank you to Difficult-Orchid-985 and this community overall for the help and support.

I genuinely hope everyone here has a merry Christmas/happy holidays and a safe, improved and healthy new year.

All the best, stay safe wherever you are Cheers


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Need 20 formula

0 Upvotes

I had money taken out of my account I didn't have much to begin with and my breast milk has dried up slowly due to stress of sick baby in need of formula for her I don't know how long it will take to get my milk supply back and I'm running out of the free formula I got at the hospital I GOT HELP I DON'T KNOW HOW TO CHANGE FLAIR


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST Need help getting rent paid

0 Upvotes

I am a single mom with a disability. My 2 kids also live with challenges. I work part time and have multiple meetings per week regarding my kids and myself. Which makes working more even harder. I've been behind in rent for months and have applied for every assistance available in my area and been denied (mostly due too lack of funds in my area). In order to stay housed, I agreed to a court order splitting my back rent over 6 months on top of my regular monthly rent, nearly doubling it. What a solution right? I know. But I'm in dire need of help by the 29th or my building will proceed with eviction. I just need to make it until tax return season, then I will be able to pay it all off and start fresh.


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Unexpected lay off and bills piling up

1 Upvotes

My husband was laid off last month we were able to pull through but not able to pull through this month. I’ve called 211 and contacted all the communities around me and a lot are not giving rental or utility assistance appointments till Jan.2nd. There was one place I had luck with but they wanted us to get evicted first … we can’t do that we have kids that’s not an option . We had more in savings but car issues took that . Unsure what to do next . We already live beneath our means as we are a family of 5 all living in a small place and recently got approved for food stamps which helps a lot. Everything we own is second hand and even for Christmas we just got our kids one gift each . We don’t crazy spending . Just unsure where to go for now as this is our first time in this position . Hopefully last as we are both in school trying to better our future and our kids . I even called a few places today but due to the holidays they are closed. Any ideas would help. Yes we’ve been applying for jobs just a non stop no . Lots of layoffs everywhere unfortunately. If anyone can just please help us with this months utility bill which is 126.89, please we would appreciate it and just with advice on where we can general rental assistance please as it’s been a struggle as our rent is 1300 and our first unemployment check was 378 that’s not including the other bills we have like diapers wipes , insurance , and etc . I contacted my energy company and they just tell me to call 211 or that they don’t currently have any programs.

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I made a wish list after being recommended for baby needs . Thank you in advance .


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST Up crap creek

3 Upvotes

I am desperate for 50 dollars to make it to Friday until my unemployment finally starts. I’ve been furloughed since Nov 1 and have made it off savings up until this point. I have cancelled all holiday plans and plan on seeing family for new years, but I’m needing something for fuel and hopefully a few bucks for food if I have any leftover. I’m trying to sell things on my local Facebook marketplace but not having any luck. I would be eternally grateful and send positive energy out toward you for the rest of my days! And someday pay it forward! This is my first time asking for a handout and I’ve done “borrow” but can’t right now in good faith because any repayment would be almost impossible until I start regular work again. Happy Holidays to those who celebrate. Thanks for considering me.


r/Assistance 3d ago

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT Holiday sick and alone

12 Upvotes

So this year I am spending the holidays all alone because I am very sick and can't go to my grandparents house with the rest of the family and also because I have to prepare for a very important exam that might help me actually get a decent job. I have barely done anything to prepare. I feel like a cold corpse from the outside from the severe influenza, and my lungs are so tired from coughing (but it's starting to get better now at least). and the anxiety is eating me away from the inside because if I fail this, I don't know what stable option I have for the future. As we are on the verge of a new year, I got sick because I have been pushing myself so hard, and it feels burdening to complain about it to the people i know with these problems.


r/Assistance 2d ago

ADVICE Downloads on Spotify

3 Upvotes

I had to force reset my Samsung Watch Active 4, therefore I couldn't undo downloads on Spotify. So when I started my watch again, Spotify asked me to undo downloads on other devices so I can download on it. The problem: only my computer, personal cell phone and work phone have Spotify downloads; and the limit of devices that can download is 5, right? Is there any way to solve this? For example, reset downloads in every device?


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Trying to make it through on gig work alone and need to pay car insurance. I screwed up and need $125.

0 Upvotes

Hello all!

First of all, I know $125 is a lot to ask, but that is what I need. I will gladly provide proof if requested.

With the stress of this season, the moving parts of 4-5 apps, some health issues with my kiddo, and the cherry on top of recovering from autistic burnout, I completely spaced reserving the proper amount for my bills.

I have reached out to my support system for future preventative measures but I urgently need to pay this so I can keep my income (personal vehicle based delivery) legal and safe.

Thank you so much for reading. If anyone has resources for financial assistance programs for Waste Management trash bills, that's my next struggle, but I'm trying to find programs to utilize. I'm literally 2 blocks outside of the range for my nearest city's assistance program. Ooof.

(Note: I can use most standard apps like paypal/venmo/zelle/cashapp.)

Thanks again and Happy Holidays! :)


r/Assistance 3d ago

REQUEST Help Me Leave a Toxic Home Environment

6 Upvotes

Hi all, I’m posting anonymously for privacy reasons and to keep my family from discovering this. I’m 20 years old, and I’ve grown up in a single-parent home, and while my mum isn’t physically abusive, her words and actions have had a lasting impact on my mental health, that’s gotten worse over 2024. She often uses my dad’s absence against me, makes hurtful comments, and guilt trips me constantly. She’s the definition of a narcissistic mother to a T.

Lately, it’s become unbearable for me. The negativity and constant belittling have made me cry almost every night these past couple of months. I’m working hard to improve my future—I’ve just got a job offer with the NHS and will earn £24,000 a year. Still haven’t been given a start date mind, but hopefully it will be no later than Feb. My goal is to move out by March and rent a small, safe place away from this environment.

I’m reaching out for help to make this happen. If you’re able to donate or even just share my campaign, I’d be incredibly grateful. Any support, even upvotes or kind words, would mean the world to me. So really, thank you for taking the time to read this. And I hope everyone has a great Christmas and even better new year.

Link: https://gofund.me/3769ada5


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Need help with Electric bill

2 Upvotes

As the title says, we just need a little help with our electric bill for this month, which is $164.76.

We have a current payment arrangement and can't add more to it. We have already asked.

If we don't pay, we'll owe the entire amount of $521.00 that's left to keep the lights on.

We're behind on rent and have an eviction hearing on Dec 26th. The complex is willing to work with us, but require just over $2000 for rent and court fees every two weeks, beginning the 26th in order to avoid eviction.

My husband started a new job this month, and his first full check is the 26th, so we'll just have enough to not kicked out, but nothing left over for electric. I work from home, so if our electric gets shut off we're completely screwed because I'm the bread winner.

We were DoorDashing for extra cash but had to stop when our car died. We'll have a car again starting this weekend, but that's too late to pay the electric.

I have Venmo and that's it.

I appreciate anyone that can help us get the $164.76 we need.

I hope you all have Happy Holidays.


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED $20 for a meal PayPal

0 Upvotes

Just asking kindly for $20 for a meal tonight… I ditched my car yesterday night from icy roads and had to pay a lump sum for a tow truck… no groceries. I gotta go visit family tomorrow for Christmas so just need something to hold me over.

Bless you all and happy holidays! Hope you all have a Merry Christmas.

I only can do PayPal as venmo, cashapp aren’t available in Canada.


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED A warm room for the night

0 Upvotes

As many whi have followed my story may already know, my family lost our home after a workplace accident and permanent disability cut off funds for our home.

We've been living out of our SUV, myself, my wife and two young kids ages 4 and 19 months.

It's cold out here, and very depressing as we see Christmas eve upon us. I'd like help to pay for a hotel to have a proper bed to lay in, let my children watch Santa on TV and have some joy in their lives.

I just need $79 for a night's stay and it would mean the world to my family just for the night.


r/Assistance 3d ago

CLOSED OFFER [OFFER] Holiday Dinners

54 Upvotes

Hello my friends,

I'm back to offer a few special Holiday meals to those in need. If you're in legitimate need and experiencing food insecurity, I'd love to spoil you and your family with a special Holiday meal.

Please briefly describe your need, what type of food you're after, and include either a story of a hilarious holiday experience you had or what you'll do to pay this forward when you're able.

As always, please make sure you meet the requirements for asking for assistance on here. Please do not PM me with your request to circumvent the rules - that will automatically disqualify you. I’ll reply to comments and only then contact posters directly to coordinate private details for the delivery.

Only folks in real need please and please follow the rules in this sub!

I'll likely do most of the deliveries tomorrow but may sneak one or two out today! Happy holidays!

EDIT 12/24: Several large grocery orders have gone out! Since stores are starting to close, I'm going to have to hold off for now - but I'll come back on Thursday when stores reopen and make some more gifts. :)

EDIT: 12/26: Did another big delivery! Thank you all, happy holidays, I'll be back soon!


r/Assistance 4d ago

CLOSED OFFER 2 days of giveaway

91 Upvotes

9 days of giveaways

Day 9 winner Sophiarezz

Day 8 winner blehblue

Day 7 Winners puzycat69, spiyo90

Day 6 winners zues-zhuri, angry hippo

Day 5 winners bisochuu,boringtrouble11

Day 4 winners savarox, cherrybombb

Day 3 winners y8T5jaiwal, slickduck(not yet responded)

I am offering 50 to two people today, I will select a random winner by tonight 11pm est. To enter, answer your opinion

For the final days giveaway tomorrow, Should we do A: $500 to one person B: 250 to two people C: $100 to 5 people

Today’s quote, Relax, take a deep breath and let life come to you

No venmo, No zelle and yes I understand you don’t have enough karma to post you still shouldn’t dm me.


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Can someone help me out with 20 bucks?

0 Upvotes

Got in a car accident on Thanksgiving while I’m okay I did suffer injuries that has me out of work & my short term disability doesn’t start until Friday. I was wondering if someone could help me out with 20 bucks. I could get a pizza from this dominos by my house It’ll last from now till tomorrow. Enough to survive me till Friday!


r/Assistance 3d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED 50 dollars needed for household essentials/busted til payday

0 Upvotes

I have been having a hard time this year and need 50 dollars to buy some things for the apartment. I have 5 days until I get my disability check and I am busted. I have CashApp, Venmo, and Chime


r/Assistance 4d ago

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT It's my birthday...

41 Upvotes

It's my birthday today. Since losing my husband I don't do anything and don't really celebrate, I'm used to not getting anything and usually being forgotten. This whole time of year gets me down and I try to stay happy for the kids but it's hard. I hope everyone has a great holiday season and happy new year.


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Completely lost.

39 Upvotes

Unfortunately my Wife and Son left today. We have recently fell on incredibly hard times financially and she made the decision to move back to Germany.

I lost the two most important things in my life today.

In my 42 years, I have never asked for help. I feel like I’m currently in a nervous breakdown, I’ve been folding under the stress of the past 3 months and have reached a breaking point.

She did not give advanced notice of leaving and has left me with the two dogs. I currently have $6 dollars to my name.

My brother (my only family) is coming to pick me up from out of state next week but lives week to week and with the holidays he is flat broke.

I have no idea how I am going to get by for the next week.

I don’t know what to do. I am asking for 50-75 dollars to help get through the next week. I have cash app and zelle.

I’m so broken, I know this is a long shot but just hoping it reaches someone.

Hold the ones you love as you never know when they may not be there.


r/Assistance 3d ago

EMOTIONAL SUPPORT Can you please wish me Merry Christmas?

7 Upvotes

Hi. Extremely long story short, I live in a motel room with a narcissistic mom and for far too many reasons, can't break out of the arrangement. I have a full-time job that makes me feel as though my soul is being sucked through a straw eight hours a day, five days a week. And 85% of my paycheck goes toward paying for our room, so there's not much Christmas magic going on. Not just in regards to gifts, but there's a few pieces of decor and that's it. No friends or family members to celebrate Christmas with. Nothing that feels like home. Just a job I hate and an emotionally abusive mom that incessantly loves talking about herself.

Would you mind please wishing me Merry Christmas?


r/Assistance 3d ago

REQUEST Money to go home

0 Upvotes

This is incredibly embarrassing to post but I am at your mercy for $25-30 for a bus to get home today (NYC to Philadelphia). I lost my wallet last week, had to replace all my cards and they still haven’t arrived. I only have access to cash app at the moment, tried to transfer money from a bank account, and it’ll take 3-5 business days. I have access to like $3- I really want to go see my mom, who is on a very limited income and can’t spare anything. I went through a breakup recently and don’t really have good friends here. Thank you! Also- I’m trying to do surveys online and I can get maybe $.30 per hour. 😩we


r/Assistance 3d ago

VOTES Help vote for gingerbread house

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone, please help me win my gingerbread house contest by liking this image (the snow globe one) on facebook. Thank you!

https://www.facebook.com/share/1Cregjxw3X/?mibextid=wwXIfr


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST Hotspot data for girlfriend

0 Upvotes

My girlfriend and I currently aren’t able to live together because I’m unable to afford housing. Luckily, I do have some help with the VA for transitional housing for myself. She is currently crashing on a friends couch, but since her phone has been turned off and they don’t have WiFi, we’ve had to get by with one of those prepaid hotspots. She’s currently right around 2 or 3 GB remaining and we have no way to refill it. I’m not sure if simple mobile has cards for hotspot data but when I set it up a while ago 34.99 was 15gb and lasts us easily 2 weeks for texting and the rare FaceTime when we can. Thank you for your time.


r/Assistance 3d ago

REQUEST Please be a Christmas Hero for my Super Sweet Boy

5 Upvotes

I really don't put myself out there like this but I appreciate any support. Hope this is ok. Found an ER with a specialist on call during Christmas. "A Christmas Wish for My Brave Hero 🎄💖" This Christmas, I’m asking for a miracle—for my cat, Shoganai, who gave me one when I needed it most.

Shoganai isn’t just a pet—he’s my guardian and my hero. A few years ago, he bravely fought off a burglar who broke into my home, protecting me and saving my life. He’s been my constant companion, bringing me comfort and love every single day since.

Now, he needs your help to save his life. Shoganai urgently needs life-saving surgery, and I can’t do it alone.

This Christmas, I’m hoping we can come together to give him the second chance he so deserves. Any donation, no matter how small, will go directly toward his care. And if you’re unable to donate, sharing this post means the world to me.

Let’s give Shoganai the Christmas miracle he deserves. Thank you from the bottom of my heart—and from Shoganai my brave little hero.

Link to donate: https://gofund.me/ad55f910


r/Assistance 4d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Homeless with mom and 3 cats, need 47 for a hotel

20 Upvotes

Hi there. My apartment complex told me we could renew our lease, but then at the end of the lease they said we couldn't because they were switching to section 8 only, with less than a few weeks for us to find a place to go. My mom (59) and I (27) and our 3 cats are staying in a motel 6, have spent upwards of 2000 now over the past few weeks. We're lucky they're lenient on checkout times, otherwise we'd already be out on the street. Its below freezing where we are. We've lost our jobs due to moving around and not having a working car, we've been applying places and have been donating plasma and selling and pawning everything we own but I weighed too little today to donate. We've called 211, no one gives vouchers where we are anymore. A guy we were doing some work for said we can stay in his basement but he has stuff down there that needs moved and we have to find a ride first. We need 47 bucks for the room tonight. If anyone can help with anything we would deeply appreciate it, more than you know. We cant afford food either after paying for the room everyday so any amount helps. We have all the main banking/cash sending apps like paypal, venmo, cash app. My mom has zelle but the account is negative 15 because the bank charged her for the account being empty too long. I can provide proof of the situation and receipts from the hotel, etc if necessary. If anyone has questions I am willing to explain further.. thank you for reading.

Ps, don't bother messaging me if you're just gonna ask for nudes. Not happening.