r/AskMenAdvice 2d ago

Patriarchy Hoax Opinion

So I have been reading that women were traditionally been opressed by men. Although to some context it is true. Whenever I think about it becomes hazy and I can't digest it. Like my ancestors and many more worked so hard all their lives so that we in present can have a better future, just to be called oppressors in modern times. Also for marraiges were women weren't treated fairly there were also men who got women like that. So it's basically comes down to like there are good people and bad people. Also now I see many countries that have baised laws have their birth rates below 2.1 . Breaking the family unit apart is the best way to break us apart in future. I guess many of us had a decent family to teach us things from both perspectives. I can't speak on this way more although I guess it would be mundane. I don't mean to come out as offensive to anyone just my thoughts and want to know about it from different perspectives.

Edit 1 :- Thank you everyone for sharing your perspective I'll try to look into each one. Also again a heartful thank you for letting me now the insights. Try to keep a unbiased view. Wish you a great time ahead. Edit 2 :- I'll be closing this thread after few days. Got much needed insight .

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u/Basic-Revolution-447 man 1d ago

block it all out. you aren’t racist, you aren’t a rapist, all men aren’t the same. it’s just hurt people hurting people. the nuclear family is the most beautiful thing life has to offer, and although it’s risky in modern day for men we should all still strive for it. what propaganda and bs movements have done to society is heartbreaking, but stop trying to be a game changer and start playing the game.

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u/Complex_Memory_7320 1d ago edited 1d ago

Haha thanks mate. Keep yourself safe and keep learning. And I do agree about nuclear families. Monogamy is what separates us from other species as it gives a sense of ownership.