Hello all, it troubles me to write this as I have gotten myself into this situation But I am trying to figure out my best options to get out of it. I'm hoping that you guys will be able to help me with some advice to move forward and better the situation
I have found myself in about 105k worth of debt because of a gambling addiction and poor spending habits mainly the gambling addiction.
This is between my truck loan, credit cards, consolidated credit card loan (to pay off the original debts) this just enabled me to spend more on the credit cards and put myself into a bigger hole.
The break down of the debt currently looks something like this
Loans
$47,800 (Debt Consolidations )
Car Loan
$10,500
Credit Cards
$46,000
To give you a bit of information about myself to try and help
I'm currently 27, working as a software developer
My Salary is 75k a year and my take home after taxes is just shy of 4k a month, this is with paying for insurance and putting into my 401k.
I have already taken action and got another job bar backing that should be starting in the next week or two not sure how much I will be taking home from this as its tip based. I should be working around 15-20 hours a week with base pay of $11 before tips
For Monthly Bills That I have / expenses
Car Loan: $600
Car Insurance: $230
Car Gas: $200
Gym Membership: $30
Server Hosting: $30
Groceries: $250
Debt Consolidation Loan: $1300
Debt Consolidation Loan : $300
Credit Card Payments : ???
Not sure of the actual amounts paying each month as i was trying to pay more than the minimums each month
As for housing I currently live with my dad and do not have any fees associated with this.
Total Spending for the month before card payments: 2940
Happy to answer any additional questions, with this any responses trying to help me out are greatly appreciated.