r/minimalist • u/Infamous-Goose363 • Nov 22 '24

Trip for Christmas Gift

We’re going to Disney right after Christmas.

We have twin toddlers, and they’re not aware of gift giving occasions yet. We’re asking the grandparents for Disney gift cards and will do a stocking for the kids.

What do you all do for gifts for your kids and partner when a trip is the gift?

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u/octropos Nov 23 '24 edited Nov 24 '24

I think this is a really interesting discussion.

I remember I went to a girls birthday party when she was in 8th grade and she got two REALLY big gifts, like a TV and a bed... and no other gifts. Figuring she had an entire birthday party with friends and witnesses, she was actually embarrassed because she had no other gifts to unwrap.

My point being, is I wouldn't ever do a "gift" so large it negates other obligatory "try-hard" gifts.

Your toddlers, hell, they will probably be happy with anything.

For you partner, still get them something they'd want.

If money is an issue, I would say communication is key: key babe, trip is taking ALL of our excess funds right now, what can I do to make this night special?

If I were your partner, I'd love a babysitter one night at Disney, with a romantic dinner room service with a bottle of wine and quality time with you.

You know your partner more than anyone, but I would still get them something they hold dear, whatever that is, within a 100 buckaroos.