r/facepalm 'MURICA Aug 28 '24

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ i'm speechless

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u/Salcha_00 Aug 28 '24

Yes. Normal.

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u/vrcvc Aug 28 '24

i don't understand, are people not paid by their bosses so they need tip or what?

in eu we are normaly paid and we don't get tips, like i have my salary why do i need to get angry over not getting bonus money...

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u/PlausibleTable Aug 28 '24

They’re paid, but at a lower wage. In some instances they do not even make minimum wage without the tip. Meaning they can be paid as low as $2.13 an hour by the employer and the rest of their compensation is based on tip.

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u/vrcvc Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

daaamn... kinda understand why everyone wanna become twitch streamer or tik tok infuelncer these days xD

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u/ivo004 Aug 28 '24

There are two Americas; one where people scrounge for tips at 2-3 part time jobs and try to find side hustles and get a break on social media so they can make ends meet this month and pay rent and one where people work a secure job that pays well and allows them to buy a nice house with a bit of land and a couple cars and not have to worry about much. The first group is growing and becoming more desperate as the division between those two Americas becomes more clear. It's not great.

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u/TwitterLegend Aug 28 '24

Those two groups are not the problem and are in no way at odds with each other. It’s that like 5 people have as much wealth as 50% of the country.

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u/SuprA1141 Aug 28 '24

Actually it's more like 10% of the USAs population now controls 94% of the wealth. Don't quote me on that but its around there

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u/ivo004 Aug 28 '24

I was simplifying a little and mostly talking about the growing divide in the middle class. That's the space most of us live in and understand, but obviously super rich people are trying to exert control at the same time as fomenting that middle class "conflict".

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u/frongles23 Aug 28 '24

The second group sucks too. That stable job requires 70+ hours a week, unable to unplug, benefits are shit. I remember the 2-3 job lifestyle too. I often think back and wonder if I'm happier now than I was? Not no, but not yes.

Wife and I are just now in the bottom of the group getting tax cuts constantly. It's disgusting, and we're just barely "comfortable."

"Oh hey, look at this magnificent society built through hard work and maintained by tax revenue. Truly remarkable. I don't think I want to keep paying for it tho." Who TF thinks this way?!

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u/TwistedBamboozler Aug 28 '24

You think people making minimum wage aren’t pulling 60-80 hours a week? Having to take multiple busses and Ubers just to make it to their 3rd job to barely get food on the table?

Look, I entirely get what you’re saying. It isn’t great. But let’s not compare that to people in literal poverty or incredibly close to it.

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u/Salcha_00 Aug 28 '24

That second group also has no job security and can be fired at any time for no reason at all and with no notice under “at-will” employment laws, or simply laid off and replaced with younger, lower wage workers.

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u/404interestnotfound Aug 28 '24

I got fired two weeks ago for asking my boss how he wanted something done when the way I’d already did it was too confusing for him. We are at the mercy of petulant toddlers.

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u/Salcha_00 Aug 28 '24

Yep. Regardless of industry, type of job, or wages. And we rely on employer-sponsored health insurance so we don’t have much leverage to push back.

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u/Mareith Aug 28 '24

Most stable jobs require only 40 hours a week. If you work 70+ hours that is not normal, you are being overworked. I work like 20 hours a week in reality and make over 100k in tech

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u/Environmental-Bag-77 Aug 28 '24

Jesus wept. Emigrate to Europe.

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u/NotFromFLA Aug 28 '24

This is a shit take. There is no such thing as a secure job in America. I have one of these so-called secure jobs that pays "well" and allows me to have a mortgage and a couple of car payments. I'm less desperate than I was 20 years ago when I worked 2 jobs; one in retail and one in food service. That said, I'm at the mercy of my employer who could take away all of my security in one fell swoop if they decide that I'm no longer useful to their accumulation of wealth.

Your "two Americas" are both closer to homelessness than we are to being a millionaire by a considerable measure. If you want to create an us vs them scenario, it should be all of the working class vs. the billionaires and politicians who are exploiting the rest of us to enrich themselves.

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u/MegaLowDawn123 Aug 28 '24

Now talk about how your job demographic votes and which policies they support

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u/NotFromFLA Aug 28 '24

I can't speak for all others in my demographic, but as a white, gen-x, college educated male with a teenage daughter at home, I'd say by and large we support progressive policies. I have no problem paying my fair share of taxes, but would like to see them support social and environmental programs rather than imperialism and war. Most people in my industry have a similar mindset. What's your point?

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u/loweexclamationpoint Aug 28 '24

An awful lot of people in your demographic vote as though the will soon be elevated to the top 1%!

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u/NotFromFLA Aug 28 '24

Those people are ignorant morons, and not exclusive to my demographic.

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u/AriochBloodbane Aug 28 '24

Those you describe are the same group. Work slaves with either a part time or full time job, they both can lost it any day with no warning, they both are unable to buy a house, they both work insane hours for somebody who doesn't give a damn about them and their health.

The real other group are those people in the top 1% that buy a bunch of houses and don't need to work as they live from passive income.

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u/CartographerKey7322 Aug 28 '24

And if the pols keep their promises and stop taxing tips, wages for those jobs will probably be cut. Can’t get ahead in this country

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u/Rugfiend Aug 28 '24

And that was the door left ajar by both Parties that allowed Trump to swoop in - as it typically is with populist authoritarians. Same in the UK with Farage and UKIP.

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u/RedactedSpatula Aug 28 '24

These are the same group; both are wage slaves beholden to their employers to survive. These employers are the second group, and they want you to think (and successfully got you to to think) that you are not the same

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u/ivo004 Aug 28 '24

Yes, I should have been a bit more clear that I meant "two middle class Americas that are represented on Reddit". Lots of people complain about barely making ends meet, but there are people who do fine in the middle. They need jobs, but have marketable skills and aren't in volatile industries that have surprise layoffs. That divide is the one the ruling/owning class wants to emphasize, but the group that's well-off enough to be complacent is shrinking relative to the middle-class-in-name-only-and-becoming-desperate group.

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '24

OF girls are making the $... but there's a social (stigma) price to pay.

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u/Popular-Bonus1380 Aug 28 '24

Do you actually know a person trying to become a twitch streamer or a tik tok influencer?

I've met like one instagirl and a famous dog before. Sentences like these are so strange to me.

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u/imightgetdownvoted Aug 28 '24

Are people supposed to aspire to wait tables instead?

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u/ASecondGuy Aug 28 '24

If it was a viable way to live why wouldn't some people want to serve food. You meet new people every day. You have your regulars you can talk to. I could see people enjoying this.

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u/BirthdaySalt5791 Aug 28 '24

For plenty of people it is a viable way to live. I worked at a restaurant in an East Coast city and hit 70k as a bartender one year

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u/swalkerttu Aug 28 '24

I went to a steak house once in Hartford where the waiter had a better watch than I did. Dude was good, though.

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u/BirthdaySalt5791 Aug 28 '24

Yeah if you want to make a lot of money behind bar there’s a certain degree of skill required, but if you’re in a city working at a nice place you can make a very good living for yourself.

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u/GoldenDom3r Aug 28 '24

It is a viable way to live at plenty of restaurants and bars. Also, most waiters/waitresses prefer the tipping method to having a higher hourly wage, because they make more from the tips.

Take away tips, raise their wages, and the food prices don't change but the servers make less. So who really wins there?

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u/Nsfwsorryusername Aug 28 '24

No. You should have the right to go eat at restaurants and have people work for free to serve you.

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u/imightgetdownvoted Aug 28 '24

I mean I tip 18-20% basically everywhere unless the service really sucked.

It’s just the cost of going out to eat.

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u/When_hop Aug 28 '24

Why, did your aspirations accumulate to being a service worker for tips for life?

Service work is supposed to be something college students do, not a full-time career.