r/facepalm 'MURICA Aug 28 '24

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ i'm speechless

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u/Xinonix1 Aug 28 '24

In Europe tipping is at free will and usually done when the service and products were good, we will never give up to 25% tip, we’ll just give a couple of euros

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u/ShawshankException Aug 28 '24

I got bitched at for not tipping in Naples

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u/Real_Winner2423 Aug 28 '24

Definitely a tourist trap, tipping in Italy is only for when you really enjoyed the service and it is never expected. To be honest in the touristy bits of the country this kind of scam is pretty common, like upcharging if they hear you speak a foreign language. Genuinely hate it about my country, trying to scam the more vulnerable people just cause they don't really know how things are over here

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u/lunchpadmcfat Aug 28 '24

You say tourist trap but Naples is a tourist destination. Where tf is there a restaurant there that isn’t a “tourist trap”?

I don’t think it’s that at all. I think the staff just see “Americans” and think $$$

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u/Cedira Aug 28 '24

There are plenty of genuine restaurants even in tourist destinations. Use Google map reviews to gauge it.

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u/lunchpadmcfat Aug 28 '24

How the heck are you supposed to tell?

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u/Cedira Aug 28 '24

Bad reviews = bad restaurant, good reviews = good restaurant. Some common sense must also apply.

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u/lunchpadmcfat Aug 28 '24

When I was touring Europe, I only went to restaurants with good reviews, and they all expected tips. I promise you it has nothing to do with the restaurant and everything to do with me struggling to speak the lingua Franca with my dumb American mouth.

People in Europe see Americans, they see “ka-ching” or whatever your local variation of a cash register sound is.

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u/Cedira Aug 28 '24

Well maybe that does happen to a lot of American tourists, I'm just going with my own experience as a non American.

The reviews will usually say whether a tip is expected.

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u/Real_Winner2423 Aug 28 '24

That is why they are traps, also look for reviews in Italian and not in English and if they ask for a tip just refuse and tell them you know that it isn't a thing in Italy. What you are describing is a tourist trap, I have travelled all over Italy and never once was I asked to tip and that is because I speak Italian. If they change their policy because of the nationality of the customer then it is a scam and you shouldn't feel forced to comply

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u/lunchpadmcfat Aug 28 '24

You want me to go to this foreign country, where I already struggle to speak their local language and confront them about tipping because I “know” that’s not a thing in their country?

Look, I already know most Europeans think Americans are rude loudmouths. When I visit foreign places, I try to learn a bit of the language and a bit of the local culture. I try to be courteous and respectful and pleasant. I’m going out of my way to not be even close to the loud rude American they expect me to be. It sucks they take advantage of that, but I don’t think making a scene at a nice Italian restaurant is the way to win this one.

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u/_30d_ Aug 28 '24

Lol that's why they call it a "trap". Wouldn't be a good trap if you could instantly see it.

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u/TruIsou Aug 28 '24

Loved all the small towns and villages in Italy we bicycled through. Hated Venice, just one big tourist trap. Would never go back to Venice.