r/facepalm 'MURICA Aug 28 '24

🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ i'm speechless

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u/TheMizuMustFlow Aug 28 '24

The facepalm is that tipping in America has gotten out of hand and shouldn't be normalised?

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u/BossMagnus Aug 28 '24

I hate when you walk into a shop and people ringing you up at the register have a tip jar, like come on.

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u/BraithVII Aug 28 '24

There’s a small farmer’s market near me that has a tip jar aka “college fund” as per the label on said jar at their checkout. Then there’s a list of all of their summer employees along with the schools they go to right next to it. I know I’m being dramatic, but I find it to be exploitative and maybe instead of charging $25 for a pie they can pay their workers a bit more.

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u/BossMagnus Aug 28 '24

Yeah, pay your employees

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u/Barkis_Willing Aug 28 '24

This is not something new. Tipping 20% has been normal for literal decades.

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u/TheMizuMustFlow Aug 28 '24

In America. People might live in other countries y'know! I live in one where people would look at you like you're an alien if you tried to tip them.

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u/Barkis_Willing Aug 28 '24

Yes, you referenced America in your comment so I assumed you were talking about America. The OP is pretty obviously talking about America, as well. Were you referring to another country when you said “in America?”

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u/akatherder Aug 28 '24

The specific facepalm is keeping Europeans out of America based on tipping.

But you also aren't addressing socioeconomic injustice by refusing to tip at a "tip expected" establishment. You're just harming the wageys/servers.

There are informal customs and rules in every country you should follow when visiting imo. One of America's is tipping.

If you get in a round at an English pub and leave before buying a round, you aren't super clever and gaming the system.. you're just taking advantage.

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u/ShawshankException Aug 28 '24

Out of hand? This is clearly a sit down restaurant lmao it's not like this was starbucks

Regardless of how you feel about tipping, you're in a foreign country. You need to understand and respect the customs of the country you're in unless you want to be seen as an asshole.

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u/Angelix Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

Explain to me why should I tip more if I order a $100 bottle of wine vs a $10 burger? At least with the burger the chef needs to make it from scratch but a waiter pouring me a glass deserves $20 tips? Which the tip itself is more expensive than my fucking burger?

Another example, a plate of pasta costs $10. The chef shreds some expensive truffle and suddenly it’s $50. Why should I tip based on the final price? The chef definitely didn’t put an extra $40 effort in serving me the same dish.

Can you see that the whole tipping system is a scam?

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u/razinzell Aug 28 '24

Everyone agrees with you. But that is the system in place and that is how employees pay their bills.

If you don't tip you are an asshole. You're not going to change anything. You are just directly affecting a workers daily wage.

Hopefully it changes, but in the mean time why fuck over people who have no control over the system that pays them.

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u/Angelix Aug 28 '24

So when do you guys have control then? When the tip increases from 25 to 35%?

By the way, most of the servers prefer to be paid in tips rather than higher wage.

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u/ShawshankException Aug 28 '24

My point is that it's always been this way here. It's not "getting out of hand". Whether you agree with it or not, you can't expect to not look like an ass if you're blatantly going against the local culture of the country you're in.

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u/Daisy_bumbleroot Aug 28 '24

It used to be up to ten percent, it's now getting up to thirty percent. Yes, it is getting out of hand.

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u/Angelix Aug 28 '24

Lol @ “it’s always been this way” and “not getting out of hands”

No wonder school shooting is a daily event.

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u/Additional-Lion4184 Aug 28 '24

"Oh shit I don't have any other talking points... quick bring up school shootings! Using dead children to claim moral high ground will really show them!"

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u/SeriousLetterhead364 Aug 28 '24

You’re a selfish asshole. That’s fine. You do you. But stop acting like you have the moral high ground for fucks sake.

But what else should we expect from a neckbeard who likes to travel to Southeast Asia for women. You’re just a disgusting person all around.

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u/Old-Usual-8387 Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

I’ll tip for good service and good food but I’ll not be told I have to tip. I don’t think it’s selfish to not tip if the service is shit.

EDIT: it’s wild this is being downvoted. Are people really that entitled that they believe bad service should still get a tip.

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u/vigouge Aug 28 '24

We don't care.

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u/Old-Usual-8387 Aug 28 '24

Cared enough to comment lol

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u/ShawshankException Aug 28 '24

Lmfao Europoors love bringing up school shootings

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u/Angelix Aug 28 '24

You’re a selfish asshole. That’s fine. You do you. But stop acting like you have the moral high ground for fucks sake.

But what else should we expect from a neckbeard who likes to travel to Southeast Asia for women. You’re just a disgusting person all around.

Nice edit

Also, I’m born in south east Asia. I’m also gay.

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u/ShawshankException Aug 28 '24

That wasn't me my guy but go off

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u/xeno486 Aug 28 '24

yeah it’s all they have to bring up. school shootings and healthcare

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u/TheMizuMustFlow Aug 28 '24

You shouldn't have to tip in a sit down restaurant regardless.

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u/young-steve Aug 28 '24

The face palm is the piece of shit Europeans who didn't tip

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u/TheMizuMustFlow Aug 29 '24

Tipping is a moronic concept, full stop. That it's become so ingrained into American culture is simultaneously hilarious and sad.