r/dating_advice • u/Soft-Ad-4006 • 1d ago

Second thoughts??

So, I never thought I’d like do something like this, for reference me and my bf are young I’m 19 and he’s 18 going on 19 in a few days. I love him to death and we’ve been best friends for YEEAAARRRS. My bf works as a server at a (unnamed restaurant) and he referred to me as his wife to someone today. But for some reason it didn’t make me like happy. I got really uncomfortable, and idk why. Now for some reason I’m thinking about if I really wanna marry him and all that. And I even thought about a break. I don’t know why I feel this way or what caused it:( I’m super confused and idk what to do we’ve been together for almost two years and off and on in the past. Help:((( I feel so confused about everything

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u/LiKwidSwordZA 1d ago

Was he being serious

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u/Soft-Ad-4006 1d ago

Yeah, not like in a playful like that’s my wifey way. But in a serious like that’s my wife type of way. Idk why it’s made me so uncomfortable

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u/LiKwidSwordZA 1d ago

How about asking him not to say it again if you don’t like it

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u/Soft-Ad-4006 1d ago

I did, he cried and got upset but said he wouldn’t do it again and said he didn’t mean to make me feel that way. I just don’t know why it gave me second thoughts about our relationship I’ve never felt that way before