Advice but also mourning/loss I guess.
Our dear 17 year old Hillary (listen I was 8 when I got to pick her name, I'm aware it did not age well lol) is now at the point where, although she still cuddles, purrs and wants to be around us, is showing small ailments and an overall loss in energy.
She had an eye infection last month which we treated her for but the eye drops made her super unhappy. Now that is solved but her tooth is infected and she would need a surgery to fix it.
Together with the vet we decided we would rather spare her those last months of slowly declining and upping the meds and grant her a peaceful death at home (vet is coming in to give an injection).
We would like to give her the most heavenly food in her last hours but to be honest I'm not getting any further than salmon. What would you suggest?
Other than that any tips on grieving are welcome. We're feeling super guilty on one hand by deciding her day of death but really think it's better than trying to keep her here as long as possible but with surgeries and meds. We're bringing her to a special crematorium where she will get a beautiful end and we will get her paw print.
I'm dreading the day the vet is coming so much and can't stop crying whenever I see her lil judgy face (she has insane rbf). Suddenly realized there's an entire community here I can ask advice from!
Thanks in advance for any advice :)