r/birding • u/hummingborg- • 9h ago
Advice How to respond to "academic grandstanding"?
In the birding/naturalist circles I often encounter people who like to state "fun facts" about birds/wildlife/nature. The thing is I didn't ask for these facts and they don't provoke a reaction for me. Often they're things I already know. I'm not sure if they are trying to be helpful or to display how smart they are or something else. What are good ways to proceed when someone does this? If you do this yourself, what do you expect?
These are different than actionable datapoints like the recent location of a bird I might be interested in. In this case I would thank them and offer any interesting recent sighting of mine.
I'm on the autism spectrum and my intuitions on conducting interactions are not great.
Please note that this question is not intended to criticize or stop people from offering unsolicited facts. I am asking about how to optimally respond to this