r/SuddenlyGay Apr 29 '24

Hate when that happens

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u/TAR_TWoP Apr 29 '24

Going to a big gay nightclub in the mid 90s as a young gay teen meant playing a lot of Is This Person In A Ralph Lauren Polo A Preppy Gay or A R'n'B Lesbian?, where I kept looking at people across the strobing lights, wondering if I've been following a lesbian for the past 20 minutes.

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u/abidail Apr 30 '24

God, had that happen to me one time--person I thought was a dude bro hitting on me turned out to be a hot butch.

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u/SitInCorner_Yo2 Apr 30 '24 edited Apr 30 '24

My brother has this happen to him in reverse,he took after our mom in almost everyway so he had a very androgynous look as a teenager,especially he was in a band so he had bleach long hair and couple of earrings ,but once he open his mouth no one would think he’s a girl.

There’s a lesbian flirting with him at a party,eventually she came to ask him”You’re a T(boyish lesbian) eh?”

And he completely kill her mood with one very deep OH LOL

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u/TAR_TWoP Apr 30 '24

And it can lead to lots of laughter and sharing a drink!

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u/abidail Apr 30 '24

What I'm really learning from this is that we need an app that pairs lesbians and gay men together so at least one of us gets to go home with the hot person lol.

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u/NewGuy-1964 Apr 30 '24

Takes being a wingman to a whole new level.