Hey humans of Reddit.
I’m applying this cycle to FM residency, a very strong candidate for my region in which I’m applying. My story is complicated in that I don’t have family help/assistance, and I’m a single mom to a 5 year old. Custody is split 50/50, but kiddo’s dad’s girlfriend is having a baby some time in the spring, so shits probably gonna hit the fan over there, and I anticipate probably having him more often through the summer and fall.
Where I’m located and applied, I have really two options- hospitals close by (15 mins) with all their rotations in house, but bigger systems, more nights, more inpatient, arguably much better training. Secondarily- hospitals about 40 minutes away, lots of traveling to other training sites, smaller systems/probably less comprehensive training, but minimal nights and minimal call.
I obviously don’t want up in a situation where I’m not meeting the requirements of my residency program. I also want to be able to adequately support my son and know he’s well taken care of. I know I won’t be able to be at everything, but I’m struggling with navigating the nuances of a very unknown season.
Would love any advice for prioritization you did or did not do, or recommendations in hindsight that you have.