r/GetMotivatedBuddies • u/TeckerzTricks • 1d ago
Life 19M looking for similar age buddy to work on multiple goals with
Hi everyone, firstly I hope that you had a great Christmas if you do celebrate.
I am in a bit of a rut right now and last time I felt this stuck, I managed to find a buddy who did help quite a bit so hoping to do the same again now. I have quite a lot of goals I want to work on, I have a general plan for most of them. The main goals include overcoming study procrastination, fixing sleep schedule and learning some new skills. I have quite a long list of things I want to do actually. I don't expect you to have the exact same, in fact you could have completely different goals. However I would prefer if you had multiple goals and are very serious about wanting to achieve them, often people ditch after a couple days.
If you're still reading then great, hopefully we're compatible. Finally, I'll explain how I see this going but I'm open to alter this. My personal experience is that more communication is better. I don't mean that we need to be talking every hour, but one message a day hasn't worked so well in the past as it often lacks detail and isn't so motivating. Hence I suggest a couple updates per day. I personally believe understanding the other person can help to motivate them quite a bit so I'd be open to have a good chat about what we want to achieve before starting anything.
Hope to see some of you message me soon, enjoy the rest of your holidays!