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u/TryingToStayOutOfIt Nov 24 '24
That’s a bitch ass level of dishes. That is not what you’re life spiraling out of control looks like.
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u/pauli129 Nov 24 '24
This amount of dishes is the amount normally in the sink is you do them every other day
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u/Ronnz123 Nov 24 '24
It starts with that tho. So might as well try to stop it there.
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u/TryingToStayOutOfIt Nov 24 '24
Lol point is if you were able to stop it there, you don’t really have an issue in the first place. Leaving 5 dishes in the sink is just normal shit.
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u/Ronnz123 Nov 24 '24
Depression isn't binary 🤷🏻♂️
In the past I've had times where I got nothing done for a month and other times where I got overwhelmed for a few days and then fixed stuff.
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u/TryingToStayOutOfIt Nov 24 '24
Yes, but the point still stands, that is one bowl, a small pot, a mug and a French press. That’s one meal for one person lol. Plus the sink itself looks mighty tended to. This is like, omg I’m so OCD because I love when my shoes match my belt. The reality is much more gruesome.
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u/APointedResponse Nov 24 '24
Seriously it's less than what I have after making dinner for two. Reminds me of the LinkedIn "motivation" posts from grifters.
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u/TryingToStayOutOfIt Nov 24 '24
That’s a light breakfast for one in the sink right there. If you’re able to take care of that before it piles up you’re like some kind of superhuman in my eyes lol.
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u/allnamesbeentaken Nov 25 '24
It probably took more effort to take the picture and post it, cleaning those bitch ass dishes would take minutes at most
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u/Big_Green_Piccolo Nov 25 '24
Depends if its your dishes or your bitch ass roommates dirty dishes.
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u/TryingToStayOutOfIt Nov 25 '24
We’re talking about self motivation here! You gotta tend to your own garden! Lol
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u/Alleywishes Nov 25 '24
I have that amount in my sink right now, not enough to waste the hot water and dish soap to worry about and when there is I might even use the dishwasher
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u/Thebabewiththepower2 Nov 24 '24
It's sad how everyone's diminishing the message by saying how small a task it is. Tackling one small thing at a time is how we can make change. And what might seem like a molehill to you is a mountain to someone else.
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u/xKrossCx Nov 24 '24
My ADHD agrees with you wholeheartedly. It’s funny to me how I’ll do anything and everything for someone else or at work. Be organized, color code my calendar with events and dates for deadlines or meetings, read policies and guidelines cover to cover…
at home? I’ve got 17 loads of laundry to fold, dishes have sat in the dishwasher for so long they’re dirty again, sink is full of dishes and some should just be thrown out instead of trying to salvage larvae infested Tupperware, my bathrooms need serious love….
My point is… I agree with you. I’ll do one load of dishes or laundry or pick up everything off the floor so my $900 robot that I never use can do its job for a change. And I mean or… they don’t all happen in the same day. If they did? I’d be the baddest mf’er on the planet. Nobody can stop me but me!!!
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u/ZaviaGenX Nov 25 '24
at home? I’ve got 17 loads of laundry to fold, dishes have sat in the dishwasher for so long they’re dirty again, sink is full of dishes and some should just be thrown out instead of trying to salvage larvae infested Tupperware, my bathrooms need serious love….
I face the same thing to an extend.
I pay for someone to come for 4 hrs n clean everything n organise it all, once a month.
Do consider it. I think its money well spent.
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u/Demigans Nov 24 '24
It's sadder that people think this is a solution at all.
There is a reason why you didn't get to those dishes. Even "being lazy" does not come out of the blue for 99.99% of the people. Even if you do the dishes now, that reason is still there. So the next dishes will also stay in that extremely clean beforehand kitchen. And all the other things you have a problem with too.
I used to not do the dishes because I was playing games. Why was I playing games? Because I was deeply depressed. Why was I deeply depressed? Well that is a long story, but mostly solving that solved my gaming and dishes routine. I still game, but not at the cost of other things.
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u/-Badger3- Nov 24 '24
It’s sad how everyone’s diminishing the joke by acting like it wasn’t a joke.
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u/zeradragon Nov 24 '24
I'm guessing the "big thing" that was on the way was a dishwasher.
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u/Chickensoupdeluxe Nov 24 '24
Dishwashers waste water, leave soap residue on dishes, and can’t scrub any actual filth away
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u/HomemadeSprite Nov 24 '24
That’s weird, my dishes have come out of the dishwasher sparkling clean with no residue for 10 years now. My water bill usage is lower than friends who run their faucet for 10 minutes straight cleaning up all their dishes by hand after a family meal.
Hmmmmm.
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u/Chickensoupdeluxe Nov 24 '24
What absolute bafoon has the water running while doing the dishes!!?? You scrub them all with soap and small spirts of water, and then you 30 seconds rinsing them all
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u/zeradragon Nov 24 '24
What bafoon thinks they can rinse all the detergent off of a sink full of dishes with 30 seconds of running water...
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u/Chickensoupdeluxe Nov 24 '24
More accurate to say five minutes (just washed all the dinner dishes)
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u/zeradragon Nov 25 '24
Yes and studies have shown that dishwashers use less water than doing it by hand because the water the dishwasher uses is hot pressurized water which is much more effective at cleaning than the running water that comes out of a sink and quickly goes down the drain.
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u/Pokeputin 27 Nov 24 '24
That's not true 1. Ecological dishwasher save water https://www.cnet.com/home/kitchen-and-household/how-much-water-do-dishwashers-use/ 2. Working dishwashers don't leave residue since they rinse with clean water in the end. 3. They don't need to scrub since they use hot water with aggressive chemicals for a long time.
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u/Chickensoupdeluxe Nov 24 '24
Idk, mine leaves a white dust on certain dishes, and can’t deal with anything dirtier than this
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u/Pokeputin 27 Nov 24 '24
Not a dishwasher expert so not sure why yours doesn't clean well, my cleans far better than my scrubbing does.
But about the white residue, do you keep your softener filled and adjust it to your local water mineral content?
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u/sanct1x Nov 24 '24
Lol... You shouldn't be putting a dish that dirty into a dishwasher anyways... You wipe that shit off or you wash it off in the sink first and then put it in the dishwasher.
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u/Chickensoupdeluxe Nov 24 '24
Then I might as well wash it my self
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u/sanct1x Nov 24 '24
I don't disagree with that, we use our dishwasher for certain things and hand wash other things.
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u/zcas Nov 24 '24
Budget dishwasher owner?
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u/jivanyatra Nov 24 '24
Or has the same mentality from the early 90s. Dishwashers came a long way by 2004, let alone 2024.
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u/armathose Nov 24 '24
Says the person that clearly doesn't have a dishwasher and wants the rest of us to feel bad for having one.
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u/Chickensoupdeluxe Nov 24 '24
I literally have one. I have to get any actual junk off before I put it in the washer, and at that point I might as well wash it myself
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u/ChloeMomo Nov 24 '24
You're good. We're renting right now and have a completely shit dishwasher, and our landlord doesn't care. We have to clean our dishes before they go in if we use it, and even if we take the filtration apart to clean the thing out, a dark grime and residue coats the bottom and the door within 2-3 uses. Our dishwasher is effing disgusting.
I do agree with all of them that a working dishwasher is way better environmentally and economically than hand washing. It honestly is. But if yours is like mine and is likely broken or budget and terrible well...not much you can do other than fix or replace it (we refuse to upgrade our landlords appliances for him, so we deal with it).
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u/Chickensoupdeluxe Nov 24 '24
The dishwater is technically my mums, but it is so inefficient she just has us wash the dishes by hand
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u/ChloeMomo Nov 24 '24
Definitely fair, especially since it isn't yours. Don't give up on all dishwashers once you move out though! When I did have a working one...omg the time savings from not handwashing 2-3 times every day adds up. They are such a blessing haha
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u/Drink7u Nov 24 '24
He'll yea, baby steps are an occasion people record and celebrate! You don't have to be a baby to celebrate baby steps
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u/Gewif Nov 24 '24
Nah the sponge is in the same exact position I think they just put the dishes out of the sink
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u/lotsoflifeexperience Nov 24 '24
Congrats on a 10 minute job
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u/futureruler Nov 24 '24
10 minutes is what it would take to clear 1/4th of my sink, this is a 2 minute job at best.
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u/Demigans Nov 24 '24
Yeah that kitchen was way too clean beforehand. Once you reach the point that dishes in the sink piling up is a major obstacle, it doesn't look like that.
It's like telling someone who is depressed to cheer up, because look here's me showing a sad face but big things are coming because I am now smiling. But you ignore why they are depressed and what is blocking them from doing the chores in the first place.
Frankly this is demotivating. As you are telling people to just do it. Yeah no shit sherlock. But what about next time? The actual problem why the dishes were there still exists. And now they feel like a bigger failure as they can't continue with the "simple" stuff.
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u/Big_Green_Piccolo Nov 25 '24
Look good, feel good. Could be your environment, your clothes, your cleanliness. Every little bit counts and no improvement is too small. You can break the rut. I know you can.
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u/Blythe97 Nov 25 '24
This gotta be the MadeMeSmile sub. It's full of dysfunctional crybabies who celebrate flossing and talking a shower or getting a haircut. You know.. basic non-caveman sh*t.
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u/kluthage421 Nov 25 '24
Dishes that aren't even that dirty and have been soaking? That's like a three minute job.
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u/Kioz Nov 26 '24
God, why do you give me your hardest battles ?
God: you literally just had to wash the dishes
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u/cheeriolink2 28d ago
Holy moly, some of y’all are being so rude for a subreddit focused on Motivation. S/o to the commenters who are uplifting OP. “One step at a time” never mentions the size of the step 😮💨
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u/flacao9 Nov 24 '24
Best advice for everything in life, one step at the time and think twice before doing something
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u/tempski Nov 24 '24
Rule of H.A.S.H.
Don't make important decisions when you're Hungry, Angry, Sad, or Horny
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u/Cour_Wara_Le_Sarom Nov 24 '24
I tought this was a funny pic about the roomate, who printed out a pic of a clean sink and put it on top of the dirty dishes.