r/Assistance • u/k-aya • Jan 20 '20
THANK YOU I GOT THE JOB!
Thanks to the lovely b_holden3085 I was able to purchase an outfit and get a haircut just an hour before my job interview! And I got it! No more living inside a van, I will be able to rent a place for the meantime! Miracles DO happen!
p.s: to all the men that offered to "donate" if I sent them nudes, fuck you. You don't play with someone's poverty. Also, if you're gonna scam girls on Reddit, at least use an acc that wasn't created 3 hours ago.
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u/Julie_BionicBlinders Jan 20 '20
Congratulations!!!🎉 I see you also have common sense that will help you do well in your new position. Good job!! 💪🏼 show the jerks.
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u/seaboard2 [Amazon aficionado] Jan 20 '20
YES!!!
I am so proud of you!
(and pffffft to those people who asked for nudes, what scummy people!)
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u/Simba1792 Jan 20 '20
That’s the best thing I’ve heard all week. Ya know the crazy thing is there is women actually wanting to send nudes for money... and there are women who will trade nudes for nudes for free. And then there is actually dating someone and asking for the nudes. Further still there is free porn on the internet... wtf do they gain from victimizing you at your lowest moment? As a psychology student I know in theory the answer is supposed to be control or a rush... but I’m just baffled. On behalf of all good guy’s everywhere I apologize that you suffered this kind of behavior and congratulations on the level up.
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u/PurpleT0rnado Feb 15 '20
Power over
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u/Simba1792 Feb 15 '20
Yeah you are right for some reason I had a hard time seeing it at the time. Maybe cause I was looking at her current situation. That control motive would be stronger as she gets more established as has more to lose. Good point.
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u/another1956 Jan 20 '20
Congratulations on the job! As a guy that gets offended by asshole behavior too, let me apologize en masse for my gender.
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u/PansexualSatan Jan 20 '20
Yayy!!! Congrats on your job!! I’m also job hunting right now and man I’ve been feeling so hopeless but seeing this gives me hope!
I’ve also gotten the messages from guys offering money for nudes. Those guys are trash.
Good luck on your new job!! hugs
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u/Hydn7822 Jan 20 '20
Also, to any scammers out there reading: I am a 19 yr old college girl trying to make her way, I will sell my nudes cheap.
$100 for the chest
$200 for the nether regions.
To the OP and the person who helped her, you're awesome. Best of luck with the work, OP .
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u/Simba1792 Jan 20 '20
100 for the whole chest. 25 per breast no nipple. 50 for a hand bra 🤣 stick it to em, girl
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u/Anam_Cara Jan 21 '20
Why would anyone offer to pay anywhere near that much when they can get an hour with a young prostitute for $200?
Not a guy, wouldn't do it, just saying.
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u/Hydn7822 Jan 21 '20
In case you missed that part, I was not serious. But some would, because people are morons. I Know a girl who makes money insulting men, they pay her to be a dom, without actually being there, so...
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u/Anam_Cara Jan 21 '20
I used to be a fin domme and there's a lot more to it than insulting men. But alright.
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u/Hydn7822 Jan 21 '20
Well obviously, its about communication. I didnt say thats all it consisted of. I was using it as an example.
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u/lemonlady7 Jan 20 '20
I know that I don’t know you, but I am SO proud of you!!! This is the beginning of a great new chapter. You can do this. You got this. I wish you all of the best things 💜
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u/corinnemaried Jan 20 '20
Well deserved, I am sure! Congratulations, you have a lot to be proud of.
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u/NeedAnOffButton Jan 21 '20
Congratulations! You've got good sense and a bright outlook - you'll be paying it forward in no time!👏👏👏
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u/livinmystory Jan 21 '20
Congrats on the job!
Was it this same guy? https://www.reddit.com/r/Assistance/comments/ere2yp/jd12321_is_now_using_millermad321/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
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u/RandomBro1216 Jan 21 '20
Theres a sub reddit for creepy pms like that. It's fun to read through while sleeping but sucks it happens to people who actually need help. I'll never ask for help here as scammers make new accounts or atleast they are a day old and it's just sickening they pray on people. Congrats on the job! I myself am looking but scambaiting is my profession
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Jan 20 '20
Congrats! Good luck on the new job and boo to the creepy PMs. Definitely report them via modmail so they are aware.
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u/Artslave21202 Jan 20 '20
Congrats on the new job OP! Sorry for the crappy scammers! I’m glad all things don’t always end bad! Please keep your self protected and ok! Proud of you for sticking it out and getting that job!
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Jan 20 '20
Congrats OP. I'm about to be switching places with you lol, minus the vehicle to sleep in.
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u/LulaElizabethe BANNED Jan 21 '20
So happy for you! I’ve had men do the same exact thing to me. One even asked me to “accidentally” send nudes to my brother and send him a screenshot of his reaction to see if my brother would like it. Some of the creeps that lurk Reddit and this sub are freaking SICK.
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u/d_kate_w Jan 21 '20
Congratulations! I’m so happy for you!
I got those messages too when asking for assistance, so shitty that people like that exist! I’m sorry you had to receive those xx
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u/Fenbob Jan 21 '20
Please report every single person that tried to extract nudes from you, to the mods
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Jan 20 '20
I am so excited for you!!!! And thank you to the people who helped you. I couldn't and I'm glad they were able.
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u/ktaren Jan 21 '20
Congratulations theres nowhere to go but up my mom alwways told me yes we may struggle at times but those struggles are what makes the good days seem even better
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