r/Assistance • u/Realistic_Law5085 REGISTERED • 6d ago

REQUEST Funeral costs

Hi all! So, my mom died last week and now the funeral home is calling which is the last thing I want to deal with at the moment due to... obvious circumstances. But I don't have much of a choice. The holidays are the worst time for funerals, and I hate even making posts.

My job (school lunch lady) doesn't pay me for the two weeks off I get from winter break, so that's a check gone.

Anyways, I don't have enough money, nobody in my family is willing to help pay for it bc they didn't really like my mom.

The cremation is 1700, I have 700 of it. And obviously I don't expect to get all of that from a reddit post but ANY help is appreciated.

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u/TheACN 6d ago

Post here when you’re able to make a gofundme page.

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u/Realistic_Law5085 REGISTERED 6d ago

I'm just seeing how this goes for the night, if nothing happens then I'll make one tomorrow. I don't expect anything from anyone, since ik this time of year is hard money wise on everyone!

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u/Snapdragon_4U 6d ago

You really need to make the GoFundMe. People like to see if other people have contributed. This woman posted a request the other day that I offered to cover but then I saw there were multiple people who also sent it and i wasn’t informed. Kind of rubbed me the wrong way but I’m sure the person needed it.

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u/Realistic_Law5085 REGISTERED 6d ago

Oh yeah I get that!!! Usually, if I'm offered or anything I say thanks in the post!!! Sometimes. Unless asked otherwise. But I do change the flair