r/indonesia • u/Captain_Hammond • Feb 12 '18

Suicide Hotline, asap

Hallo, ada psikolog yang bisa ditelfon ga? Temennya temen gue nangis mulu dikarenakan suatu hal + bilang dia pengen bunuh diri. Dulu sempet lihat ada seorang psikolog ngeshare website dan kontak dia disini, udah gue screenshot tp ke delete + dia udah gue kasih kontak Save yourself tp ga berani curhat (gatau alesannya kenapa) + jam operationalnya masih nanti jam 2100-2300. pls help asap

Update 12:41 pm: TERIMAKASIH SEMUA, udah tenangan orangnya (walaupun masih nangis) dan bilang ntar (gatau kapan) akan telfon ke salah satu kontak yang sudah dishare.

Have a good day, gbu <3

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u/overdosed_cat Feb 12 '18

This is from Official Line Account Save Yourselves :

Jika kamu membutuhkan bantuan darurat bisa menghubungi email into the light yaitu pendampingan.itl@gmail.com atau LSM jangan bunuh diri di email janganbunuhdiri@yahoo.com dan nomor telpon 021 9696 9293

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u/overdosed_cat Feb 12 '18

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u/kretek-garing Jun 08 '18 edited Jun 09 '18

My bipolar wife is feeling suicidal right now and asked for a suicidal hotline. She called whattsapped one of those numbers and was told that the medication she's taking (depakote) is not a medication for bipolar disorder, whereas it is a well known alternative to lithium, used by many. Of course she hanged up, as she immediately distrusted her correspondant. I'm sorry to say but, although you're probably doing that for free, it seems that you guys need to get a bit more professionnal.

Edit : I had more details. Actually there has been many other errors in the way my wife's case has been handled. For instance : saying her meds were "obat bius" (you may think that but you should never say that : people can die when you suggest they stop their prescribed medication), saying that it's either psychiatry or psychology (come on, psychotherapy alone can not help with BD, it has to be in conjunction with meds), and refusing to be somehow proactive in the conversation (like someone in despair can easily articulate his needs), and then googling her phone number and calling her by her name (thank you for anonymity) [sorry, this is not true, probably knew from whattsapp].

Once again, sorry to say, but the whole thing went totally wrong and could have been fatal. I think you should either stop your service either completely rethink it.

Edit 2 : corrected two factual errors.

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u/Captain_Hammond Feb 12 '18

Baik, tadi teman saya sudah email ke pendampingan.itl@gmail tapi dibalas oleh bot yang mengatakan bahwa jam operasionalnya pukul 2100-2300. Makanya saya ngepost disini.

Terimakasih, contact person akan saya sampaikan dengan yang bersangkutan. Gbu :)

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u/foodieandthebeast Walking from Dark to Light Feb 12 '18

This post need to get more upvote. Good luck, sorry cannot help a lot. Hope your friend would be ok.

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u/Captain_Hammond Feb 12 '18

She is (kinda) okay now, thank you

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u/foodieandthebeast Walking from Dark to Light Feb 12 '18

Yes good, but this need a continued treatment.

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u/abraincell smiling all day is very fatigueing Feb 12 '18

are you with your friend now? if not, please go see him/her if possible, or if you know someone who could see him/her quickly, or get him/her to stay on the ph with you. it is important he/ she is not alone while you look for counsellor that can talk over the ph.

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u/Captain_Hammond Feb 12 '18

Unfortunately I'm out of town rn tapi one of my friends lagi sama dia sih untungnya, dan gue sama temen gue yg satu ini update2 an mulu via line. Thanks for the advice tho

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u/abraincell smiling all day is very fatigueing Feb 12 '18

oh! very good! yang penting dia tidak sendirian. dia beruntung sekali punya teman yang baik :)

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u/Captain_Hammond Feb 12 '18

Terimakasih, have a good day!

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u/Monkeywrench08 Feb 12 '18

dia udah gue kasih kontak Save yourself tp ga berani curhat (gatau alesannya kenapa)

Opening up to a person you haven't meet/know could be daunting for some people. Are you with your friend now? Go see them asap, so you can keep them from committing suicide.

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u/Captain_Hammond Feb 12 '18

Oh iya, ga kepikiran gue soal yang opening up :( gue lg diluar kota, tp temen gue ada yg lagi sama dia. Dan kami selalu update via line kok. Thanks for the advice tho

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u/[deleted] Feb 12 '18 edited Aug 13 '18

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u/Captain_Hammond Feb 12 '18

Baik, terimakasih banyak

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u/abraincell smiling all day is very fatigueing Feb 12 '18

https://www.google.ca/amp/s/psikologihore.com/ingin-konsultasi-psikologi-ke-psikolog/amp/ kalo kritis kayanya saya baca ini bawa ke puskesmas apa ke rsj, i'm sorry i don't know how things works here, where i'm from biasanya keluarga langsung bawa ke UGD, kalo terlalu kritis dia minta bantuin polisi apa paramedik.... just me sure the person is not alone k? good luck

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u/Captain_Hammond Feb 12 '18

Noted, thank u very much!! And have a good day :)

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u/runeza43 Feb 12 '18

https://www.reddit.com/r/indonesia/comments/7qpqmy/monthly_rantrage_thread_january_2018/?utm_source=reddit-android

Sorry i am in phone so i try to link this thread

It has all you need for suicide prevention

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u/Captain_Hammond Feb 12 '18

Siapp, noted

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u/mbok_jamu Indo in Ohio Feb 12 '18 edited Feb 12 '18

Tambahan nomor Yayasan Pulih: +62 812-8348-1128 (whatsapp).

Buat sekarang, pastiin temennya ada yang nemenin ya. Jangan dibiarin sendirian. Jangan dulu dipaksa buat cerita, tunggu sampe tenang dulu, nanti juga dia cerita sendiri.

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u/Captain_Hammond Feb 12 '18

Iya, udah gue kasih nomer itu tadi. Sekarang ada temen gue yang nemenin kok. Baik, terimakasih atas sarannya. Gbu mbok :)

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u/Regi_L0903 Feb 12 '18

this is not 4chan. be civil dumbass.

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u/blueicedome cannot Feb 12 '18

what's wrong?

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u/Regi_L0903 Feb 12 '18

there's no laughing matter for your ignorance and lack of empathy.

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u/Monkeywrench08 Feb 13 '18

Don't feed the troll.

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u/blueicedome cannot Feb 13 '18

you alay autistic hipster latah moron poser IQ nyungseb

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u/Regi_L0903 Feb 13 '18

he deleted his comment you fool, he said '' he better kill himself online or something like that''. speaking about IQ, your horrendous grammar is another prove of your rampant ad hominem logical fallacies.

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u/blueicedome cannot Feb 13 '18

whatever american wannabe anak haram dukun beranak

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u/Regi_L0903 Feb 13 '18

by spotting your statement i assume ''kaskus'' is a good place for you

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u/blueicedome cannot Feb 13 '18

so for example contoh if I say I want to bang some loli like anak artis on 4chan it's ok

but if I'm a pedophile on reddit it's not ok?

what kind of moron kuadrat logic is this you stupid indon? you walk around saying people are stupid but you are an idiot

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u/nyetrik nulis nyentrik tapi typo Feb 13 '18

because forum is like a country. different forum have different rule, custom, and culture. dimana bumi dipijak, di sana langit di junjung, bung.

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u/blueicedome cannot Feb 13 '18

what? fucking idiot down syndrome

tai. fuck you hypocrite ampas sampah!

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u/Regi_L0903 Feb 13 '18

that's irrelevant, he joking about suicide and it ain't funny.

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u/blueicedome cannot Feb 13 '18

you are a fucking lebay fag sok iye idiotic millennial + caper social climber also

who are you referring as he? who you are talking to?

you're nothing + a loser on your own are you? you stupid licik millennial?

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u/blueicedome cannot Feb 13 '18

acting sok tua and all preaching to people on the internet because you are a fake & licik failure in real life?

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u/Regi_L0903 Feb 13 '18

i see who is the troll here

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u/blueicedome cannot Feb 13 '18

I know a lot of hypocrite indons like you in real life

you're just tengsin if I unveil your true topeng nature

ah now speaking the truth makes me a troll?

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u/internweb ⭐ Feb 12 '18

kalau temennya cewek suruh telp gw aja

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u/muskymrs Feb 12 '18

Lucu kali kau pengen kuobok2 lubangmu

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u/tatteredemalion konpeko konpeko konpeko Feb 12 '18

Goblok. Nyawa orang dipertaruhin masih bisa lu becandain

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u/internweb ⭐ Feb 13 '18

siapa yg becanda orang serius aku bisa menenangkan wanita