POSTING GUIDELINES

[u/Sisyphus_but_fem]

Updated on 2024/09/18

Titles

Please follow these guidelines to avoid your post being flagged or removed:
- Making it NSFW/explicit in nature, including innuendos.
- Engagement baiting, such as:
- Asking for upvotes or comments ("say X if you think i'm cute", "describe me with one word", "first thing that comes to mind seeing me?", "call me cute", "rate me", "upvote if you think i'm cute").
- Simple yes/no questions ("do i look cute?", "do i pass?", "do you like me?", "am i fem?").
- Baiting the reader by including suggestive questions or propositions
- (e.g. "i wanna snuggle with you", "what would you do with me?", "i'm your femboy", "can i be your femboy?, am i X enough for you, would you date me").
- Sympathy baiting/fishing for compliments or being self-deprecating
- (e.g. "am i ugly?", "sorry for not being cute", "thought i'd share despite being X", "i'm too X to be a femboy").
- Asking for messaging or DMs in any way
- (e.g. "looking for X", "looking for people in X", "DM if you want X").
- Advertising or mentioning your socials or other accounts in any way
- (e.g. "should i wear this on stream", "instagram: XXXX", "follow me on snapchat", "check my profile for more").

• We encourage titles that are unique or build up the community and properly describe what you are posting, such as:
  • Original or tailored questions or asking for honest advice. ("Which style top should I go with?"; "Do you have advice to improve my makeup"; "What would make this a flattering outfit for me?")
  • Descriptions of what the post shows or why you're sharing it ("I wore this to ___"; "I put together my first full outfit")
  • Sharing your wins and achievements with us!
  • Sharing you getting to go out, doing something you love, or enjoying your life.

Content

For a post to be considered SFW and thus approved, you must:
- Have sufficient skin coverage (for bottoms, it must cover as much as short shorts, for top, sports bra)
- Lingerie or underwear does not count even if it covers the same amount of area. If you can't wear it in public you can't share it here. Bikinis/swimwear do not count.
- Blurring out, censoring, using an emoji as cover, or just having a hand/leg/foot/arm over anything is not acceptable either.
- It being obvious you're having things barely covered, raising/lowering your clothes as a clear "tease", or using clearly suggestive angles or poses is not acceptable.
- Not show a visible bulge or genital outline.
- Not show underwear at all, not even a peek.
- Have the picture/angle/pose clearly focusing on just or predominantly the butt.
- Have any kink or nsfw gear in the picture (ie: tight latex suits, bunny suits, sex toys), including leashes or certain outfits clearly for sexual purposes. - Show more than just lower body.

New Accounts

We do have a minimum karma and account age requirement to be able to post or comment on this subreddit. Both are low and serve as spam filters. If your post is removed for this reason it is likely in our queue already pending review so no need to message us. But to make it easier for us, please wait a little to start posting.

Commenting

In addition to the above and the rules of the subreddit, please avoid one word or chaser comments such as “DM”, "Hot", "🔥", "🥵". These and others are overly spammed in the comments and will be removed.

Gatekeeping

There are many ways to define what a “femboy” is. We make no distinction on appearance, gender, passability, HRT status, effort, experience, ability, clothes, etc. as to who is welcome. Please do the same. Not following this will result in a ban. Any criticism is only to be constructive or asked for. That said, clear sissy / fetishist content or anyone who clearly does not belong may still be removed.

Spam

Please limit your posts to once roughly every 12 hours. If your post was removed or AutoModded, do not simply delete it and repost. It will be flagged again and you may have broken a rule inadvertently.

FAQ

• Why do i need to attach an image to post?

  • Because this is an selfie only subreddit, for text posts, or situational advice regarding being feminine or a femboy, refer to r/feminineboys.

• Will I get banned if my post doesn't follow these rules?

  • If it's explicit or blatantly/intentionally NSFW or rule breaking, then yes, it will result in a ban, otherwise all that will happen is that the post will get removed. You may receive a message from the Mods as to why, or you may not if it was AutoModded based on our rules or filters.
    

• My post was removed. Now what?

  • Don't delete it! If you believe it was removed in error we may have to approve it manually which can take some time (we can't be on here all the time after all), or you can send a ModMail to us to ask why. Please do not DM the Mods directly.
    If it was false flagged we can approve it, if it was a violation we can tell you why, or if it's been more than a couple hours you can repost it new and we can approve it right away so you start at the top of the feed.
    

• Why was my post deleted when ___ was not?

  • If a post was submitted before the guidelines were posted, then it is not covered by it, as we do not seek to retroactively punish everyone when the full guidelines weren't even there.
  • HOWEVER if it's clearly NSFW or the post has been submitted after this, then please do report it, as our moderators cannot see every single post on their own and we need the community to help us with this.
  • We try our best to be fair with standards across all types of posts and users. However, decisions to approve or remove content is also done individually and not by comparison. In the end, our decisions as Mods may have to be subjective to protect the community. If you are confused you can send us a ModMail.

• My post got removed/isn't showing up despite respecting the guidelines! Why?

  • If it did respect the guidelines then it is likely the AutoMod or spam filter, follow the above guidelines and message us in ModMail. Additional issues with the type of account you have, such as NSFW, or repeated past rule violations, may cause continual AutoMod flagging for review.

• Why is ___ taking you so long?

  • We try our best to get through every flagged post and message but often we can get backed up with the volume, and us Mods do this to help the community in our free time. Please be patient. If it has been more than a day or two for your post to be approved you can message us at ModMail and we will get to you as soon as we can.

• I was banned and I wish to appeal. What should I do?

  • Also follow the above and message us in ModMail and we can process your appeal.

• I was permanently banned for being under 18 but I'm not / no longer am. What now?

  • We have a zero tolerance policy for underage posting. If the ban was put in place, in order to lift it we need to confirm you are over 18. Message the mod team and we will tell you what we need.

Discord

We have a +18 SFW discord!

Need any help or clarification?

Send us a message through ModMail!