r/facepalm 'MURICA Aug 28 '24

๐Ÿ‡ฒโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ฎโ€‹๐Ÿ‡ธโ€‹๐Ÿ‡จโ€‹ i'm speechless

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u/Handelo Aug 28 '24

if they were nice

That's the point. IF they were nice. You should leave a tip for good service. Not because the waitress will have to live under a bridge if you don't.

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u/HazRi27 Aug 28 '24

Tbh good service is my expectation. I would tip if the service was more than good or if I had some specific requirements or annoying things that they helped me with delightfully.

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u/Kckc321 Aug 28 '24

Yeah Iโ€™ve had waiters in Europe aggressively demand a tip before (maybe because Iโ€™m American?) after literally getting in a fist fight over my tableโ€ฆ.. a server in America would have been fired before they had the opportunity to ask for that tipโ€ฆ.

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u/laplongejr Aug 28 '24 edited Aug 28 '24

No idea where in Europe, but as a customer I heard tales of staff scamming americans by profiting from their "tipping reflex".
At least in Belgium, "demanding a tip" would be stupid because we don't necessarily pay at our table, it's flat out illegal to request a payment in cash, and card payments don't allow tipping.
Basically to tip, you need to pay at your table AND have cash on hand so no restaurants can expect that usually. But waiters on one juicy target, on the other hand...

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u/Kckc321 Aug 28 '24

It was Athens lol

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u/[deleted] Aug 28 '24

Exactly!

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u/Brief-Pair6391 Aug 28 '24

It's a great theory. But it's not in fact the reality. Like it or not

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u/Handelo Aug 28 '24

It very much is the reality in most countries outside the US.

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u/Brief-Pair6391 Aug 28 '24

Rrrrright... u catch on quick

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u/Delamoor Aug 28 '24

Not because the waitress will have to live under a bridge if you don't.

Average discussion of tipping with Americans:

'the service staff will live under a bridge if you don't tip! Disgusting!'

'...oh but also a lot of workers in hospitality prefer tipping because they make more money that way.'

...which is it, and why is it my responsibility?