They don't care. You can tell then until you are blue in the face and they will tell you to yours that both you and the baby should've suffered to term. I blocked a lot of "friends" after my 24 week abortion. Returning the maternity clothes was so fucking hard. "Is something wrong with them? No, so why are you returning them?" I just sobbed, "I'm not pregnant anymore." Thankfully my wonderful mother in law returned the baby clothes because I couldn't have done it. Its also not an easy procedure and they (at least at the place I went) treat you like shit. The male tech was the only one with any compassion at all. I also got yelled at by picketers. But sure Jan, people are deciding at 8 months that they would like to go through a traumatic experience because they changed their mind.
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u/BarkBark716 Aug 28 '24
They don't care. You can tell then until you are blue in the face and they will tell you to yours that both you and the baby should've suffered to term. I blocked a lot of "friends" after my 24 week abortion. Returning the maternity clothes was so fucking hard. "Is something wrong with them? No, so why are you returning them?" I just sobbed, "I'm not pregnant anymore." Thankfully my wonderful mother in law returned the baby clothes because I couldn't have done it. Its also not an easy procedure and they (at least at the place I went) treat you like shit. The male tech was the only one with any compassion at all. I also got yelled at by picketers. But sure Jan, people are deciding at 8 months that they would like to go through a traumatic experience because they changed their mind.