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🇲​🇮​🇸​🇨​ Nothing wrong with gaming while in your 30s

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24 edited Aug 21 '24

I'd write a lengthier response on agreement but my mid-50s ass has to finish DA:I before Veilguard comes out...

ETA: my reddit friend who has been helping me with game questions is delighted by all the anticipation for the new game so keep playing everybody! Every time you level up, an angel gets their wings.

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u/I_Frothingslosh Aug 21 '24

Aaargh you and me both. I've gotten halfway through and burned out three freaking times now.

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

It's the frickin' mapping for me, it feels like a chore trying to find the one path to jump to the top of something.

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u/[deleted] Aug 21 '24

I have months of my 50’s that are dedicated to Diablo 4.

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u/uglyspacepig Aug 21 '24

I'm 45 and I want to be like you guys when I grow up

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u/Bulangiu_ro Aug 21 '24

people like ya'll are why i use reddit

needless to say, I'm 21 and i wanna be like you when i geow up

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u/FikerGaming Aug 21 '24

I am 18 and I wanna be like you when I grow up 😍

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u/Weekly-Act-3132 Aug 21 '24

But untill then, stay in school, take care of your health and your teeth, will save you a fortune in the long run and affort you more gaming.

  • Drink water, use sunscreen and easyer to stay in shape than to get in shape.

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u/FikerGaming Aug 21 '24

Am just kidding. Am actually 68yrs old. I just wanted to make the reddit meme thingy of people responding with younger and younger age.

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u/Thomas-The-Tutor Aug 22 '24

I’m impressed. My mid-60s parents barely know how to internet.

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u/Devolutionary76 Aug 21 '24

I’m 48, have the series X, a gaming laptop, and just got a quest 3 and most of my free time is burning through free trials on the horizon store to see a little of everything.

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u/Darkmagosan Aug 22 '24

I'm only about 2 years older than you are, give or take a few months (probably). I've still got my Atari VCS from 1980. It would later be known as the 2600. It works beautifully, too. Also have my Intellivision, NES, SNES, TG16, and most systems up to the PS4 and Switch. I would have bought myself a PS5 last Christmas as I made enough during Halloween* but my car needed a new serpentine belt and that took priority. Maybe this year... But yeah, I like to wave my collector flag high.

*I read Tarot and Halloween through New Year's is my busy season.

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u/utrecht1976 Aug 22 '24

You must be my lost twin brother. Born in ​May 1976?

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u/Ok_Sand7681 Aug 21 '24

What this person said! Stay on top of your health, and you can game as much as you want. Then you'll be a healthy, sexy gamer

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u/TheTr0llXBL Aug 21 '24

easyer to stay in shape than to get in shape.

Louder for the younglings in the back. 30 min a few times a week while you're young will make everything soooo much easier when you get up there, and it'll likely extend your gaming career too.

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u/Devolutionary76 Aug 21 '24

Round is a shape!

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u/Kraeyzie_MFer Aug 21 '24

Hey now, round is a shape…

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u/heart_blossom Aug 22 '24

IN shape is not the same as having the beauty standard shape. Don't worry, round folks! Just get some exercise, stay on top of your medical checks, and eat more healthy food than junk. You'll be fine

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u/herowin6 Aug 21 '24

True dat

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u/Jegator2 Aug 21 '24

This is seriously good advice!

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u/rstewart1989 Aug 22 '24

Good thing for me round is a shape

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u/RikLuse Aug 21 '24

I'm 53 and never want to grow up.

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u/CharlotteBadger Aug 22 '24

I’ve always said: you have to become an adult, but no one ever said you have to become a grownup.

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u/rbartlejr Aug 22 '24

I've taken "Toys R Us kid" to heart.

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u/Sinister_Plots Save Me Jebus! Aug 21 '24

I'm 50 and I want to be like me when I grow up!

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u/thegreenmonkey69 Aug 22 '24

I'm 54 and am like you want to be when you grow up.

I'm a life long gamer and i will never stop.

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u/rrhhoorreedd Aug 22 '24

Im 66. It's a secret but we never grow up. We do develop better social graces, wisdom and a whole bunch of other fine qualities, but my 94 year old granny told me she still felt like she was 18. So don't worry, when your in the parking lot and you want to ride the shopping cart, don't let your age stop you.

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u/[deleted] Aug 22 '24

I’m 65 and was in a waiting area of a hospital which was quiet. I was waiting in a corridor that was really long. I was sitting on a chair that had wheels and it swivelled. I had a sudden urge to go scooting down the corridor. So I went for it. I had the biggest grin on my face and my specialist sprung me. He had a surprised look on his face but it broke the ice of what was going to be a very serious appointment.

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u/rrhhoorreedd Aug 23 '24

Glad it helped. My thing is shopping carts. I prefer a slight incline and not a lot of cars in the parking lot. Sure I've gotten a few looks. Thats the best part.

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u/wadubois Aug 22 '24

67 here… and I approve this message/post!

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u/Cracked-Bat Aug 22 '24

Yo what's gooood, fetus here, I wanna be like you when I grow up! Glug glug I'm a fetus annnnd I'm out!

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u/gilded_lady Aug 21 '24

I'm 42. I own a PS5, PS4, PS2, a Switch and a 3DS and have north of 100 games in my collection. Be like them now ;)

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u/Toots_McPoopins Aug 22 '24

42 as well but all PC and VR. Similar number of games in my collection. The beauty of gaming these days is the wide array of choices for your own personal taste.

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u/gilded_lady Aug 22 '24

Absolutely! I'm into JRPGs and we're in the middle of a Renaissance, it's fantastic. Also, Balatro is just plain a game to zone out to.

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u/shadowwingnut Aug 22 '24

ANotehr JRPG fan around this sub is always nice to find.

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u/gilded_lady Aug 22 '24

Thanks! I know we're niche (especially my fellow women gamers) so it's always nice to find :)

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u/lord_dentaku Aug 22 '24

You gotta pump those numbers up, those are rookie numbers! /s

I'm 40 and play PC and VR, have three high end gaming PCs (I have two sons) and two Switches. I just checked and my PC gaming library has over 300 games, my kids' libraries are at least 100 each, and We have at about 15 Switch games, plus duplicates of some.

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u/gilded_lady Aug 22 '24

PS2 JRPGs are $$$ so I've had to pick and choose 🤣

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u/Toots_McPoopins Aug 22 '24

Sorry that I'm more discriminating than you /s

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u/lord_dentaku Aug 22 '24

I mean... no one said you had to play all the games you own, right?

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u/areeloo Aug 22 '24

My buddy is late 30’s, makes a great salary, married, and also happens to have one of the largest game and console collections I’ve ever seen! Like, it’s museum level lol.

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u/TortelliniTheGoblin Aug 21 '24

Never stop having fun. Never ever. Anyone who tells you that you have to is lying to you because they are unable/unwilling to have fun.

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u/uglyspacepig Aug 21 '24

Great advice. I'm running with it

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u/roadblok95 Aug 22 '24

Don't grow up, it's overrated.

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u/uglyspacepig Aug 22 '24

For real. I don't mind responsibilities, I mind the expenses.

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u/Entheotheosis10 'MURICA Aug 21 '24

48 here, and waiting to buy D4 in a few days. Just finished most of my latest build. Working on getting my i5 9th gen cpu to add to my mobo.

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u/uberblack Aug 22 '24

I'm 45, and I just took a break from Rocket League to scroll a bit. I'm gonna get Wukong on my next pay day lol. My 9 year old and his mom (she's 40) are gamers. It's one of our biggest connections. We played that dumbass stick man battle game for a couple of hours today laughing our asses off and shouting "SNAKES!" whenever the snake guns appeared lol

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u/Dan_Glebitz Aug 22 '24

I am 70 and still gaming strong so you will be fine!

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u/uglyspacepig Aug 22 '24

You're my hero for today.

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u/Dan_Glebitz Aug 23 '24

Why thank you kind person. Have a wonderful weekend.

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u/MarkBriz Aug 21 '24

I’m mid 50s and played Diablo 3 regularly with a French Canadian guy who was 80 and played up until the day before he passed from cancer. Legendary.

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u/AELITE420 Aug 21 '24

been playin diablo since 2001 on the shittest pc rocki g into old age now

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u/Izzet_Aristocrat Aug 21 '24

Inquisition was one of those games that in hindsight isn't that long, but the gameplay just makes it feel long.

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 22 '24

That sounds exactly right to me.

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u/messeboy Aug 21 '24

Best tip a friend told me, do not be a completionsist with this game.

I played it at release and quit fairly quick. Spoke to a friend who was like :

" woah dude! Stop trying to search every inch of the map and just let the story guide you".

Had a lot more fun just by dropping the FOMO tactic. 😂

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u/Darqion Aug 21 '24

Hey , just like me :D I wanna like it, but i think deep inside, i just want them to make dragon age origins, but pretier.. and i dont think i will ever get that. I didnt really like the switch to more action rpg instead of the more tactical DA:O...

Might try to beat DA:i one more time.. put it on normal this time to speed things up.. though i dont have the highest hopes for Veilguard either so.. who knows

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u/Cain09l Aug 21 '24

Ugh bro honestly I've beaten the first 2 games but I just can't finish the 3rd one same with the mass effect trilogy I played the first 2 games but I just can't bring myself to finish the last game

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u/Murrdog86 Aug 22 '24

I’ve almost beat it so many times but get bogged down in the fetch quests

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u/BellaFlora112 Aug 22 '24

Between work, social life, and books calling my name, I’m surprised I’ve gotten 40 hours in on this run of DAI. Just about two months to go, we can do this!

Edit to add: I’m 41.

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u/GovernmentKind1052 Aug 22 '24

Yeah I’ve had that happen several times now. It sucks cause you get into the game and then it just turns into a grind

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u/Ok-Rabbit1878 Aug 21 '24

Does one ever really “finish” DA:I?

(Or am I the only one who thinks BioWare designed it specifically to torture completionists? 😂)

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

I'm only in Act 2 (I think?) And suspect you're correct...

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u/CountDoppelbock Aug 21 '24

completionist here and, yes, 100% agree. actually every time i think about DA:I it's about how bloated it is as far as activities etc. - i had to give up on a lot of things just to get through the damn game (e.g., once i realized how many stupid materials you would need to harvest to get all the gear/upgrades, i kinda beelined for the end).

still enjoyed the star puzzle things and all the dragon hunts, though. but there's a lot of kinda fluff that just drags things out.

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u/Mobile_Nothing_1686 Aug 22 '24

100% completed here. It's not about the collectables and the gathering for the gear. It's the different choices to make. Some choices are just as impossible to not make the 15th time as they are the 150th time.

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u/desacralize Aug 22 '24

I "finished" it on my first run (as much as I could when some of the collectibles were bugged and were never fixed except through mods, but everything that could be done, I did it) and I swore I would never touch another ocularum again. Fuck those things.

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u/sidewalk_serfergirl Aug 21 '24

Nearly 36 here and I cannot believe the wait is almost finally over!! I’ve been legit waiting for the 4th DA game since I finished DA:I for the first time, ten years ago, when I was still in my 20s 😂

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

I'm enjoying being new to the series so I didn't have as long to wait! But I feel your pain. I want my XCOM3. 🥺

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u/Nebathemonk Aug 21 '24

Snake Wiafus didn't do it for you in chimera squad? I actually liked that one, but I am hopeful to see XCOM 3 someday.

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

Honestly I like my XCOM gritty, so chimera squad wasn't my favorite. I respect the effort, but all my doomed squaddies led by a single jaded sniper can't be distracted by snek tiddies. I was too stuck in "humanity against monsters" and CS diluted my moral purity!

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u/Nebathemonk Aug 21 '24

The natural story telling that comes out of XCOM is amazing. My troops all had back stories and relationships and tragedies and it all comes from your head. Chimera squad does take that away from you. I do hope the mechanic of being able to stack up on a door and all go in at once somehow makes a come back in the next game though.

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u/PantsMicGee Aug 21 '24

I recall some talk about it having been a project to test the implementation into a larger framework. 

Also hoping it's a feature add for a xcom3 like game

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u/sidewalk_serfergirl Aug 21 '24

Right? It’s so painful having to wait so long 😭

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u/D347H7H3K1Dx Aug 21 '24

I’m excited for borderlands 4 and GTA 6

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

I hope everybody gets the games they want! The more gaming the better!

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u/D347H7H3K1Dx Aug 21 '24

Oh I know the games I want are coming soon, I don’t have a console that’ll run either tho so I’m shit out of luck.

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u/SachanohCosey Aug 22 '24

Just do what we Castlevania fans do and bitch about it

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u/Strange-Land-2529 Aug 22 '24

Oh my god is it 10 years old, jfc!

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u/radjinwolf Aug 21 '24

I’ve tried getting through DA:I in at least 3 separate attempts and never could. I also just got it for free via Epic and I’m tempted to try again haha.

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

I can't complain since I bought it for like $2 on Steam, but after zipping through DA2, I'm just finding getting around is so tedious and it's just "open" enough that I'm constantly unsure of what I'm supposed to be doing or I'll try doing something and find out quickly that I'm too low level to even be there. I'm toughing it out but not enjoying it as much as da2 (which is funny since consensus seems to be players didn't like da2 much? Glad in coming in late and missed it all).

I got a level chart for the regions and that helped but man, I kinda wish they'd left out jumping altogether so I wouldn't spend so much time trying to figure out how to get somewhere that's just above me.

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u/crazyaristocrat66 Aug 21 '24

How does aging affect your ability to game? Genuinely curious as I'm afraid I might turn my hand joints into mush later on.

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

For me it hasn't affected it at all. My hottest of hot takes us that aging increases your ability to game, not because of any physical attributes, but because you're more likely to have disposable income to put toward your hobbies. Case in point: me buying games for my teenaged nieces constantly. I'm comfortable enough I can buy any game I want instead of trying to decide which new release I can afford, and then I can buy deluxe editions so I can hang up the cool posters.

I think you're just at the regular physical risks of stuff like carpal tunnel and tendinitis like I got from using my mouse so much, but I feel like most users can get those.

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u/crazyaristocrat66 Aug 22 '24

Thanks for taking the time to answer. I'm at my 30s and noticed how my hands seem to have declined in terms of endurance and speed, but I guess it's because I'm comparing it with my teens. Good to know it might not be as worse as I fear.

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 22 '24

Honestly I think it's just an individual thing. Keep an eye on it and if it turns into real pain and not just a decrease in micro, you can get it checked out. Most of what I notice isn't much different than the type of issues you suffer from working a desk job, and those can be bad too! Probably more difficult to notice since you're not defending against a zerg rush at work - unless you are in which case I want your job.

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u/ophaus Aug 21 '24

I've played all the DA games sooo many times. I'm positively frothing for Veilguard... It's been 10 years. Gawd.

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u/Cynobite608 Aug 21 '24

Fellow gamer of 50 years of age; excuse my ignorance....what is DA:I?

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

Dragon Age: Inquisition! I picked up the three original games on steam for cheap and there's a fourth coming out October 31st, I believe it's the date. Crpgs

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u/Cynobite608 Aug 21 '24

Ahhh, gotcha. Have you played Baldur's Gate 3? If you like fantasy role playing, it's pretty amazing!

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

I got a new rig to play it at release and I'm like 2k hours in, although in my defense, I leave it running while I go do other stuff, I swear. 🤪

But yeah, BG3 is pretty groundbreaking IMO for having such cinematic content, a good story with a lot of variance (I've killed every companion at least once) and a good implementation of 5e combat system for a crpg. I wish it didn't have such a "hey you can fuck a bear" reputation, but marketing is what it is!

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u/Badgerjohn27 Aug 21 '24

…Inquisitor…

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u/Lampathy Aug 21 '24

Love to hear this! Take your time and have fun with it. This made me genuinely happy, thank you 😁

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u/witchknights Aug 21 '24

I'm 32. Veilguard comes out on my birthday. When dai came out I wasn't even in college and now I will be right between residency entrance exams and 29 days from finishing med school. I never thought I would see the day lmao

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u/BeagleMom2008 Aug 21 '24

I feel this deeply. I’m 42 and literally have a collection of 300 video games spanning all the way back to my original NES. My perfectionist-ass kept getting stuck in Lothering in the first Dragon Age. I’ve never managed to go back and beat it. So I have all three DA games that I want to beat before Veilguard comes out. 😭

Meanwhile my bf (43) have logged some 500 hours playing Divinity Original Sin 2 on PS4 over the last 5 ish years. Being an adult sucks. I would love to spend all my time playing my vast collection of games. Sadly bills must be paid, so as my Nana used to say “I owe I owe, so off to work I go”

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

I feel it! I'm so many hours into bg3 I should own fantasy real estate by now...

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u/purpleduckduckgoose Aug 21 '24

Heh. I'm still working my way through Origins. Granted, creating eight characters before I get to Ostagar might have had something to do with it...

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u/metanoia29 Aug 21 '24

I've never played a DA game before and I'm tempted to get it just to support Erika Ishii!

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u/marktaylor521 Aug 21 '24

Who did you romance?

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 22 '24

In da2 I went all in on Fenris. I have a type, and it's grumpy.

I'm not that thrilled with my Inquisition options yet but I've pretty much settled on Cullen. It's the way he rocks that flouffy collar thing, and rests his hand on the pommel of his sword all the time.

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u/Abraxes43 Aug 22 '24

That game...

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u/DonIncandenza Aug 22 '24

My mid 30s ass too. My 8th (yes, you read that correctly) 360 red ringed with DA:I in it before I gave up and quit gaming for about 10 years.

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u/Sneaky_Turtz Aug 22 '24

Yall haven’t finished DA:1 yet?!?!? Ahhhh it’s my favorite one!!!! I’ve only beaten DA:2 maybe 3 times tho 🫢 I’m starting all 3 of em over later today so I can create my perfect timeline just in time for VeilGuard

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u/ihoptdk Aug 22 '24

Meh, wait for the game of the year addition, more content and more time to catch up.

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u/DrDee23 Aug 22 '24

I beat DA:I one time before I realized I could carry a save from origins to DA2 so now I’m waffling through my second play through.

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 22 '24

I stupidly started dai, then played through da2 so my save didn't carry over and I will maybe play again to get my Hawke. Maybe.

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u/DrDee23 Aug 24 '24

I think it’s worthwhile just to have a different combat experience time consuming nonetheless.

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u/BlondBisxalMetalhead Aug 22 '24

I literally just finished my very first run through playing Solas’s route. I’m making that my canon, more or less, with some tweaks because I didn’t mean to exile the Wardens in my main save

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u/spooblies Aug 22 '24

As a 24 year old who loves (almost) everything BioWare has made, DA:I is one of my favorite games, especially if you have access to the Trespasser DLC. I finished it for the fifth time last week to get ready for Veilguard.

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u/pvcinha Aug 21 '24

Damn my wife wants me to play the whole saga before veilguard is out. I tried the first one but the 20 year old graphics didn’t appease to me at all

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

Origins kept crashing on me and while there's a fix for it, I'm bad at computers. I did finish da2 and liked it plus it was short. I'm finding dai got rid of 90% of what I liked from da2, and find a friend who's played it already to help you figure out the best way. The main quests are really cool IMO but the side quests are so much fetching. I miss my da2 boyfriend but that's a tiny tiny part of the game so I'll live.

That's my middle-aged summary of decade- old games!

I hear Civ VII is gonna drop!

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u/pvcinha Aug 21 '24

My wife is really addicted to the series lol she’s finished inquisition like 10 times already.

I think I’ll have problems because it is SO MUCH DIALOGUE AND CUTSCENES. But she wants me to play to watch my decisions lol I’m a bit chaotic when I’m playing games

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u/ManicPixieOldMaid Aug 21 '24

I'd say just don't talk to characters outside of cutscenes but your wife might not let you get away with being antisocial if she likes the companions that much. Since only recently playing them, I've found there is a serious shipping war culture. I hope you don't get dragged into it by innocently saying how much you like such- and- such character!

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u/pvcinha Aug 21 '24

Jesus fucking Christ that would be a nightmare I hate ship battling

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u/sidewalk_serfergirl Aug 21 '24

I feel like your wife and I would be BFFs. I’m also a wife who is obsessed with Dragon Age and my husband feels the same way you do 😂

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u/pvcinha Aug 21 '24

Lol I’m sure you would all she wants is someone to talk about dragon age for hours and unfortunately I’m not that guy (yet)

But I try my best

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u/sidewalk_serfergirl Aug 21 '24

That’s all that matters!! ☺️

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u/Bhagdaddi Aug 21 '24

You better get on it! Veilguard is set to release soon!

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u/biskutgoreng Aug 22 '24

Who's got time for that shi