r/confidence • u/SearchPast7402 • 5d ago
Yesterday I noticed a girl who kept looking back at me what to do now ??
So i go to this certain cram school where there were very few students present yesterday and only 3 guys were present. me and my 'kind of friend' and his friend.
So when she looked like 3-4 times at the back, I thought what the fuck is happening right now tbh im not that attractive kinda overweight, catfish mustache.
I thought that she was looking after me but i had second guesses but it was when i heard the guys sitting next to me that she's looking at me, well they were whispering to each other and i heard and acted like what are you guys talking about? They didn't say much.
When i noticed her turning back at me I kept a straight face and kept looking at the teacher's notes on the front, and one time when the entire class was laughing i looked at her and said a few words regarding the topic.
Now im confused what to do, should i confront her about the glaze or just carry on with what im doing.
Also a week earlier she approached me for doubts but as soon as i started explaining something happened my legs started shaking and voice started to shiver and the knowledge left my brain and i made a fool out of myself well kind of.
this has never happened to me
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u/wearealllegends 4d ago
As a woman, go talk to her. Make general conversation and see how she reacts. Assuming you like her, take initiative , ask her what she's up to and if she wants to do anything if she seems open to it. If a girl likes you, she'd jump at the opportunity to spend 1 on 1 time with you.
A short bald guy on a plane next to me once kept smiling and looking at me. I made conversation and we became friends and had fun. We live on different continents.
You literally have nothing to lose and maybe some fun to be had