r/carpediem • u/Doalt • Jun 20 '20

I need advices

Right now I'm happy with my life but it feels so wrong...I don't know if I want to work till I'm 67 and than retire I always think that I'm doing it wrong that I have a unknown talent or that I have another Destiny. I feel like I'm missing a part of..well me. I think I could do more out of my life than just having an absolute normal life (Working a Job in an Office,Marrying in the 30s,Retire in the 60s,Death in the 80s) I think I could do better than that ...but honestly I don't even know what I really want. As I said this feels like I'm having another destiny and while I'm living my life it is right next to me and I don't even see it and miss plenty of oppertunities.

I hope you could unterstand what I mean and maybe you have the same problem. I could really need advices.

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u/[deleted] Jun 20 '20

Sounds like you need a side project.. something that excites you, a "moonshot" idea. But first you might have to figure out what interests you most.

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u/Doalt Jun 20 '20

I would love playing a Guitar,learn to sing writing a Diary, learning to fly a plane, having a goddamn girlfriend , having actual friends and not a bunch of fucking weirdos, the list is long ...but you're right maybe I should organize it...its such a simple idea I'm asking myself why I didn't do that and just making shit out of my life you know I'm quite happy I am healthy never lost a close relative but you know everything besides that is just meh