r/The10thDentist • u/Icy_Jeweler_2345 • 1d ago

Society/Culture Men shouldn’t trust women who say no condom either.

I think women, unless she prefers it too, shouldn’t trust men who don’t use a condom and their excuse is something about it feeling better or whatever. Sure it might, but the risk is not worth it.

However, I think men should follow the same thing. As a woman who has sex, with or without the condom it literally feels the same for us. The penis feels the same, it’s not more skin like. It feels the same. So there’s no reason why a woman would care about a condom or not, preferences exist and it’s all about what you guys are comfortable with, I personally don’t care but if you have it in your gut that you don’t wanna take the risk of any pregnancy or diseases

just use a condom, it will not feel any different for her. trust me.

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u/makingbutter2 1d ago

I don’t disagree with using a condom. However I disagree about it feeling the same.

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u/BakedNemo420 16h ago

It feels different for men but I've never noticed the difference, not saying you can't, but unless you're allergic to latex i think most women would agree it feels basically the same.

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u/makingbutter2 16h ago

Eh I’m a bit weirder. I have super sensitivity to tactile feelings on my skin / in my body. Call it maybe hyper perception.

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u/BakedNemo420 15h ago

That makes sense, I would say I can maybe tell the difference very occasionally, so I could see that being super sensitive would make it noticeable.

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u/Icy_Jeweler_2345 1d ago

I genuinely can’t tell the difference lol I’ve talked to other women who shared the same sentiment but of course everybody is different.

I’ve only been having sex for a year now, the first time I did it he took it off and it felt the same, like pressure wise

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u/Jygglewag 1d ago

casual sex without condoms carries so many risks, whoever does it is either extremely dumb or has self-harming tendencies. Or both.

Do whatever with long-term partners tho. There are more convenient contraception options if you stick with someone you've known for long enough to know they don't have STDs.

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u/genericusername34_ 1d ago

Downvoted as agree. Sex, especially casual sex, carries a lot of risks without condoms and you should absolutely wear them.

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u/Ok-Raccoon-8667 1d ago

Yes! Thank you. So completely agree.

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u/mozilla666fox 1d ago

Absolutely wear a condom and never trust someone who wants to go condom free "bEcAuSe iT fEeLs BeTteR". If they want that, tell them to warm up a melon.

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u/behannrp 1d ago

I am a dude but I can tell you according to my fiancee, it feels massively different for both of us.

Either way though. Wear a condom unless you're cool with having a pregnancy with the person and understand the STD risks.

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u/mythologymakesmehot 13h ago

Disagree based on the sentiment that sex feels the same for women with a condom. I'm a woman. I prefer no condom, so I subject myself to birth control.

Condoms with new partners, yes. For the risk of STIs. Established, no. It feels better without.

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u/auntymedusa 10h ago

I don't think it feels the same as a women, but totally agree about being cautious regardless of gender!