Mama raising emotionally intelligent people 👏

[u/SerenadeEmber]

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[u/SerenadeEmber]

He knows boundaries, self control, and how to be a good big brother! Somebody give their mama a trophy please!

[u/SlideN2MyBMs → u/SerenadeEmber]

My brother's kids are being raised like this too. Whenever they're upset their mom calmly has them talk it out and it's really effective at getting control of the situation and now the kids have started doing it to each other. They're pretty young now and I'm excited to see their emotional regulation as they get older.

[u/DonutSlapper11 → u/[deleted]]

You suck my friend.

[u/AlexPsyD → u/[deleted]]

Psychologist here! That's not how any of this works...

[u/doob22 → u/[deleted]]

You sound like someone who thinks they are smarter than everyone else

[u/PilotStreet521 → u/[deleted]]

what kinda jordan peterson level bullshit is this lol

[u/W1nthorpe → u/[deleted]]

I don’t know why you keep getting downvoted, my older brother is condescending too

[u/Drapidrode → u/SerenadeEmber]

her in 50 years

"My brother. he was so controlling!"

if anyone doubts this, just wait

[u/Pudix20]

This is what good responsive or gentle parenting results in.

The problem is it takes a lot of patience and work that most people don’t have. And so a lot of people see the work that takes to get this stage and think the kid just isn’t disciplined. And then one day they do this.

As a side note some people “do gentle parenting” by just not parenting at all… and that’s not the same thing.

[u/MyOthrUsrnmIsABook → u/Pudix20]

But what could be gentler than just doing nothing at all?

[u/incognitonomad858]

I salute the parenting here! Well done, and the children are adorable!

[u/Mewtwo3020]

Little guy handle that better than most adults

[u/YosheeOnDemand]

[u/StatisticianUnited17]

damn. awesome.

[u/iCantParty]

All the people in this comment section being rude were clearly never taught the basic fundamentals of being a decent fucking human being like the child in this video was. Your comments are VERY telling (and I’m sure the replies to this one will be, too—people like that have nothing better to do with their time…literally.)

[u/AI3SURD]

Not one person commenting on the amazing nugget couch behind them.

[u/RealityRelic87]

Truly beautiful. Well done care givers!

[u/nuestras]

That kid is going to be alright👍

[u/Matcha1204]

Now imagine a whole generation of kids that were raised with the correct emotional regulation tools

[u/xsharmander]

can anyone guess their ages?

[u/Ok_Nose2692]

So we just automatically know it’s a single mom?

If not then it’s PARENTS raising kids. Dads get no credit smh

[u/Tezzy_M_Baby]

How do we know the dad didn’t have anything to do with this?

[u/thedoc1988]

This is the way.

[u/Azriharu]

Thats incredible, I wish I had parents like that.

[u/[deleted]]

Imagine not letting your thoughts flow freely bc someone keeps saying commands that won't allow you access the feelings you're entitled to. Really manipulative behavior when one person is controlling the conversation, but don't call them crazy when they shout gaslighting over a situation they didn't intend to get in just bc being emotionally intelligence was a tool used by a "mature" oppressor

[u/JustMoreSadGirlShit → u/[deleted]]

imagine watching this video and thinking that’s what’s going on 🙄