Discussion Celibate for 17 months now.
I just realised that I haven't had s£x for 17 months now. I have been single for a little over 2 years now out of choice and some historical stuff I keep to myself. I engineered my previous separation just to have time for self development. Balancing between school, work and demanding union was hectic, I had to let one go. Then, I always have a special kind of connection with one girl I met that dragged my head into self development, we met at a time when I wasn't seeing myself working smart to be something in future. I was a casual worker for a construction site and comfort. She changed all that.
I have a burden of meeting her sometimes later in life when I will be in another stage. So far, am doing well, sitaki tu diversion of body pleasure.
Msiniambie nikule raha, nitakufa tu.
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u/453Lecter 22h ago
Yani unalilia 17months,,,mm sijaonja for 22years jameni🥲😂
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u/goofy_ahh_niga 21h ago
By any chance, are you commenting this from prison
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u/453Lecter 21h ago
😂😂naah am out here like y'all
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u/goofy_ahh_niga 21h ago
Mimi nimekaa 1 year without any extra curricular activities. But mine is different, I don't feel a connection to anybody Hadi madem husema Mimi ni mtu emotionless. Sort of a psychopath I'm told
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u/453Lecter 21h ago
😂😂usikuwe hvo man
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u/goofy_ahh_niga 19h ago
Honest. But recently Kuna on/off situation ships I am entertaining so I hope to quench my thirst at the start of the year.
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u/CartoonistChemical84 1h ago
Check kama hiyo kitu bado ni the normal size ama imegeuka vestigial structure 😂😂
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u/LoveSleepandPlay 21h ago
You ain't missing much.Very tasteless
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u/ShallotSouth8040 21h ago
Don't lie to the man
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u/LoveSleepandPlay 21h ago
Not lying.Speaking as a female it feels tasteless and I have never orgasmed by a man
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u/DreamBoatSafari 21h ago
Pole, that's quite sad. Maybe you just haven't met the right guy. How have you orgasmed then? (self means or female company)
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u/Minotaur_Centaur 10h ago
You haven't met the right man yet 😉
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u/LoveSleepandPlay 7h ago
Highly likely
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u/Minotaur_Centaur 4h ago
I don't blow my own trumpet, but those words are foreign to me.
Why and how wouldn't one want to make a lady's toes twirl and body tremble with pleasure?
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u/Tim_Cerullo 10h ago
Well, I guess in this case you have just been unlucky by picking amateurs and men without the technical know how
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u/Tim_Cerullo 10h ago
Sex is overhyped...although I won't say it is 'very tastless'......but then it's subjective..
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u/South_Ninja_6849 21h ago
“those are rookie numbers, you need to bump those numbers up…”
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u/Hajimeanimelo 21h ago
Kudos buda. A boy girl relationship is not a priority (unless you are married of course) focus on you as you are doing now. Halafu that girl who was driving you (if you like her) I hope you meet her, in your next stage as you say, and you find rhat she is ready for you. All the best G.
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u/nimekwama-ndani 20h ago
Atleast you can sleep peace knowing hujapewa kakitu utabeba maisha yako for the rest of the life...
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u/WillingnessSad4436 19h ago
Never settle.After 5yrs you will be a genius.10yrs spiritual powers.Add yoga.Goal is to reset the body.
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u/Mastered_Seed 17h ago
Congratulations and keep on keeping on. So many people are lost in doing what the cloud and social media is calling fun without knowing they're loosing themselves. Congratulations again for choosing you,self development and living from the future is the best decision you made. Keep up 👏
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u/Tim_Cerullo 10h ago
It is important to stay focused on yourself brother, just prioritise that for now like you are doing.It is actually admirable having built self control to go that long.Keep working on you bro.
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u/madikhizela 8h ago
Bila mechi wiki mbili I can’t sit properly…get sperm cramps na even the ugly ones start to look beautiful 😂
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u/SyntaxError254 22h ago
In life, you have to balance relationships with other things. You cannot prioritize school, work and then say that a relationship is demanding. You will get what you prioritize and what you don’t prioritize will fail. You must learn the art of prioritizing and balancing all aspects of life coz relationships are an important part of life.