r/Journaling • u/seekersmemoir • 16h ago
First journal Bought a journal to write instead of texting my ex - plan to fill it and burn it.
I used to love writing, it helped me during the tougher days of my youth. Then, I stopped. It’s been nine years since I last wrote anything meaningful.
Instead of texting my ex to spill out everything I’m feeling (which would only lead to a dead end and damaged friendship), I’ve decided to write it all down. A journal feels safer, like a place where I can confess everything without worrying about the response.
Maybe it’s naive, but I think this might help. Losing hope feels like the only way to find freedom, and I’m trusting this journal will allow me to confront whatever is stopping me from moving on. Once I’m done, I’ll burn it… or leave it for our future kids 🤪