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AAJ "Ask A Jew" Wednesday
It's everyone's favorite day of the week, "Ask A (Anti-Zionist) Jew" Wednesday! Ask whatever you want to know, within the sub rules, notably that this is not a debate sub and do not import drama from other subreddits. That aside, have fun! We love to dialogue with our non-Jewish siblings.
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u/ScottTheMonster Atheist Nov 27 '24
It seems to me that Jewish culture advocates for education and vocational training. Is this an unfair or inaccurate stereotype?
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u/specialistsets Non-denominational Nov 27 '24
Jews from all over the world, even when extremely poor and persecuted, have always had near universal literacy. In the Ashkenazi communities of Europe, boys were first taught at age 5 to read and write the Hebrew alphabet (for both religious Hebrew and Yiddish, which uses Hebrew script) in small schools called "cheder" (Hebrew for "room"), and girls were taught to read and write at home by their mothers.
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u/CapitalArrival7911 Christian Nov 27 '24
I don't have many jewish friends because there are few jews in Asia. In fact, I only know 2 jews.
Is it important for jews to wear a star of David necklace? My jewish friend wears it always. I've never seen him without it.
He's visiting me in my country but we are a muslim-majority country. It would be safer for him not to wear it.
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u/acacia_tree Reform Ashkie Diasporist Nov 27 '24
It's not mandated or anything but it's personal preference, like wearing a cross is for some Christians. If you think he would be safer to not wear it, have a conversation about it.
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u/Medium_Newspaper_880 Atheist Nov 27 '24
What is most delicious, authentic jewish dish i can make with mutton?
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u/ChickenNugget267 Non-Jewish Ally Nov 27 '24
Is "Jewish Christmas" really a thing (i.e. Jewish people eating Chinese food on Christmas a tradition) or is that just a stereotype?
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u/specialistsets Non-denominational Nov 27 '24
It is a 20th-century American/New York secular Jewish "tradition"
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u/douglasstoll Reconstructionist Nov 27 '24
It's American, organically developed, and is a thing.
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u/reenaltransplant Mizrahi Nov 28 '24
I've always thought it would be really fun to have American Muslims join in.
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u/TTzara999 Jewish Nov 27 '24
Really a thing. Not everyone does it, and there’s been some discussion about its problematic elements, but it’s a thing.
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u/halfpastnein Anti-Zionist Ally Nov 27 '24
what's the problematic elements? the food can be kosher, no?
or is it religiously problematic to set up a tradition on a religious holiday of another religion? Genuine question.
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u/TTzara999 Jewish Nov 27 '24
Yeah happy to clarify. I’ve seen some discussion that the tradition otherizes Chinese Jews, insisting that the two groups are mutually exclusive, which of course they aren’t. Others have also suggested that since many many Chinese Americans are Christians today, they’d rather spend Christmas with their families but the restaurants are kept open because of Jewish diners. I don’t know how the numbers shake out on it but I think it’s worth thinking about. None of these mean everything is terrible, they just complicate the practice somewhat.
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u/acacia_tree Reform Ashkie Diasporist Nov 27 '24
My best friend is Chinese and Jewish and Christmas Eve we go out to a Kosher Chinese restaurant together and it's really fun.
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u/Pitiful_Meringue_57 Jewish 27d ago
Yes, it’s an American Jewish tradition that you’re gonna find in jews who are ashkenazi and had ancestors immigrate to New York. Other types of jewish Americans have probably adopted it. At least in my family watching a movie is also part of it.
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u/sithmuffins Anti-Zionist Ally Nov 27 '24
hi!!! ive been a long time conversion hopeful (illness and not being able to drive have been my biggest obstacles), and id like to maybe have some advice for moving forward.
like, i do know the basic stuff about conversion. lots of studying, looking into synagogues, evaluating where i (would) stand on my personal observance, etc. but i have little idea on how exactly to navigate everything as an anti-zionist. mentally speaking, it feels like a doozy.
so if anyone here would possibly like to give input or a direction to start heading towards thatd be really nice 👉👈
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u/acacia_tree Reform Ashkie Diasporist Nov 27 '24
where do you live? I would try to find an anti-zionist synagogue or rabbi. There aren't many but you can definitely be connected with one close to you.
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u/Sultan_Faruk Anti-Zionist Nov 27 '24
Judaism. Many people in the west and all zionists I interacted with, say being a jew is an ethnic thing, some say it's a cultural group. I always saw jews as believer of Judaism. I do not see a connection between a jew in the US, a jew in Ethiopia and one in Russia besides their believe in the same religion, same as a Christian /Muslim in Egypt with one in China. They differ in ethnicity. Not only that, culturally the difference seem to be even bigger. I rarely would notice if someone is Jewish through his cultural aspects, same with Christians, only case if they are religiously more conservative. An aspect tied to my confusion is semitesim. The fact that the west bind jews to semites bothers me. Semites are a group of multiple ethnicities, non of them tied to a religion. Through research and extensive thinking I came to the conclusion, that the separation of Jews as an ethnicity and seeing them less of a religious group is the result of justification of racism towards jews as inferior people during the hight of European racism.
Now to my question after this long text.
Is there actually a connection, which I missed, that transcends the religion itself that ties jews together, which separates Judaism from Islam and Christianity in a meaningful way, meaning it being more then a religious school of thought?
No harm or disrespect intended of course. BTW. You guys are great. Know that you are appreciated and that u don't stand alone against zionisim.
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u/specialistsets Non-denominational Nov 27 '24
say being a jew is an ethnic thing, some say it's a cultural group. I always saw jews as believer of Judaism.
The concept of Jewish peoplehood predates the concept of Judaism as a religion, which has evolved over millennia. Even the word Judaism comes from "Jews", it originated as the religious tradition of the Jewish people. There is no requirement for a Jew to believe in Judaism or God (or any theology) to be considered a Jew. Conversion has always been rare, but converts become ethnic members of the Jewish people, not simply practitioners or believers of a religious faith.
I do not see a connection between a jew in the US, a jew in Ethiopia and one in Russia besides their believe in the same religion
But Jews do see a connection. Ashkenazi, Sephardi and the overwhelming majority of Mizrahi Jews share genetic ancestry, ancient culture, the Hebrew language, a distinct Jewish calendar system, ethno-religious lifecycle traditions, and most importantly, the belief that all Jews are descended from the same people. I always find it interesting that Ethiopian Jews are so often brought up to "challenge" the concept of Jewish ethnicity, as they are a very unique outlier group who were isolated from the mainstream Ashkenazi/Sephardi/Mizrahi Jewish world until the last century and have a religious tradition that differs significantly from other Jewish groups. As for Jews from the US and Russia, they are very close cousins: Russian and Ukrainian Jews (and most former-USSR Jews) are descended from the Ashkenazi Jews who did not leave Eastern Europe in the 19th and 20th century and didn't perish in the Holocaust, and American Jews were vital in securing the ability for them to escape rampant institutional persecution in the USSR until the 1990s.
They differ in ethnicity. Not only that, culturally the difference seem to be even bigger. I rarely would notice if someone is Jewish through his cultural aspects
This is probably because you aren't Jewish. The cultural and ethnic similarities that bind Jewish diaspora groups are far too numerous to list here, though my list above touches on some of the foundational similarities. Bear in mind that "ethnicity" doesn't refer to genetics (and certainly not phenotype), nor does it mandate total cultural homogeneity. One can also belong to multiple ethnic groups, as well as multiple Jewish ethnic sub-groups.
An aspect tied to my confusion is semitesim. The fact that the west bind jews to semites bothers me. Semites are a group of multiple ethnicities, non of them tied to a religion.
Semitic only refers to language. There is no such thing as semitic people or ethnicity, it is a fabrication of entirely non-scientific 19th century European race classifications. The word "antisemitism" was imposed on European Jews by their oppressors, but it has always meant Jew hatred.
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u/sudo_apt-get_intrnet LGBTQ Jew Nov 27 '24
Is there actually a connection, which I missed, that transcends the religion itself that ties jews together, which separates Judaism from Islam and Christianity in a meaningful way, meaning it being more then a religious school of thought?
Some studies have indeed shown Jews of all subgroups to be closer genetically to one another than to the cultures around them. In addition, Jewish co-mingling was a constant throughout all of history; when one area became unsafe, the Jews of that area would flee to another spot in the world and mix with that area's current Jewish population, repeated for a thousand years.
But, more importantly, Jewish isolationism and cultural othering (and/or straight up antisemitism on occasion) everywhere we went meant both us and the people around us could never see Jewish blood as the same as the majority's. I, and most Jews I know, are descended from Jews for as long as we can trace; if there even is a gentile/convert in our bloodline they are few and far between. Meanwhile, most of my Jewish friends are specifically not "full blooded" Ashkenaz/Sephard; I myself am technically Ashkenazi but have enough Sephardi blood in me to need to be careful of Sephardi-specific genetic diseases.
Semites
Note that "semites" and "semitism" aren't really words in use since the 40s. "Semitic" refers to a language family, including Hebrew, Arabic, and some African languages. "Antisemitism" did emerge during that time period, but its current definition (and definition at the time of invention) is anti-Jew bigotry. We don't lament that the term "waffle-cone" refers to something that's no longer made of waffles, we accept the term for what it means now.
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u/MCbigbunnykane Non-Jewish Ally Nov 27 '24
I'm not a Jew and so I can't really answer your question, but as a husband of a non religious Israeli Jew and father of Jews this is a conundrum I have wrestled with on the regular so I will offer my 2 cents. I've come to the conclusion after asking many questions that essentially Jews are an ethnic group that are good at keeping there traditions alive, which is a testament to how Jews have managed to survive despite thousands of years of persecution and attempts to eradicate them. Jews from the US to France and Russia and beyond all have the same traditions and historically only marry Jews so therefore also have close genetic links. For instance when Jews are expecting it's recommended that they do extra tests to screen for common genetic defects in the fetus. This is what Wikipedia says about ethnic groups;
"An ethnicity or ethnic group is a group of people who identify with each other on the basis of perceived shared attributes that distinguish them from other groups. Those attributes can include a people of a common language, culture, common sets of ancestry, traditions, society, religion, history, or social treatment."
Jewish holidays are deeply routed in religion, it's weird and rather unsettling for me as a non believing ex-Christian to observe a table full of "Atheists" reading from the Torah and following a set ritualistic style menu like they do at Passover and Rosh hashanah. Unlike Christians in the west who just exchange a few gifts every December, eat a turkey then get a bit drunk while watching Die Hard, the Jews really take their holidays and their Jewishness seriously regardless of their belief in God and religion. There are billions of Christians and billions of Muslims but only around 15 million Jews in the world, because they're not in the business of converting people, they would rather you be born to a Jewish woman and then discover the religion than the other way around. I would argue it's more of an ethnicity than a religion. Hope this helps ❤️
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u/reenaltransplant Mizrahi Nov 28 '24 edited 27d ago
Most ethnic groups of Jews do share some Levantine ancestry with other Jews going back to before Jews migrated out of the Levant. AND they also share quite a bit of ancestry with their compatriots wherever they lived for hundreds or thousands of years thereafter, due to conversions and intermarriages (which, even if relatively infrequent, add up over time).
So you will see Persian Jews usually look like other Persians, Iraqi Jews usually look like other Iraqis, Ashkenazi Jews look more European than Mizrahi Jews do, etc... AND at the same time, all these groups also share detectable ancestry with each other and with other Levantine people.
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u/habibiTheWoke Non-Jewish Ally Nov 28 '24
Hello friends.
I know many of you here don’t support the ADL and Stop Antisemitism organizations for their involvement in genocide, but how do you feel about their recently published list of Antisemitists of the year? I agree that misogynist Dan, Candace and many others, that I don’t know but checked out on twitter, are Antisemitists but do you feel that its political or selective because all what the 10 “candidates” for the title have anti Israel in common?
As someone who speak up about racism and hate towards any other groups as much as Arabs like myself, I stopped buying their shit since last year Rashida winning the “title” yet conservatives, Christian fanatics and explicitly Neo Nazis never made it to the list but somehow Bassem and Gretta are on it. How do you guys feel about this? And do you feel that these anchor Jewish organizations are jeopardizing antisemitism and your safety and comfort, or not?
All my support and love from all the hate I see online and sometimes in person and the isolation many of you have been voicing here.
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u/Mammoth_Scallion_743 Jewish Communist Nov 28 '24
I have been subbed to Hasan for a while now. I like Hasan and I saw his video on the list. I'm not letting Hasan lose to someone like Candace Owens no matter what the situation is. So I would vote Hasan as anti semite of the year.
Also, the list thing is pretty much a joke at this point. The only person who was actually in the antisemite of the year list and won who was actually anti semitic was Kanye.
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u/Idioteque1234 Atheist Nov 27 '24
A family member enjoys going to hear rabbis/scholars speak about Talmud etc. He finds these men extremely knowledgeable and enjoys hearing their takes on life and religious teachings. As an atheist progressive, I am curious to know why this is interesting to him, but don’t ask out of fear of offending. In particular 1) how he rationalises the scripture about women and gentiles. I don’t understand how he can place any value in something written over a thousand years ago with some notably offensive passages. 2) I don’t know why he would place much value in what these guys have to say when all they know is from such a narrow lens. Any thoughts on how/if I should approach this question
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u/specialistsets Non-denominational Nov 27 '24
I think it helps to better understand what the Talmud is and isn't. The Talmud isn't a rule book or code of law, it is a compilation of thousands of stories, conversations and debates of thousands of Rabbis from the Rabbinical academies of early Rabbinic Judaism in the Land of Israel and Babylonia, beginning after the destruction of the Second Temple in 70 CE and continuing until the 6th century. It aims to understand Jewish history, laws and customs and often presents multiple competing arguments without definitive answers. Even Orthodox Jews who view the Talmud as binding rely on an additional 1,500 years of Rabbinic commentaries and authorities to interpret it.
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u/blanky1 Non-Jewish Ally Nov 27 '24
Kwame Ture stated that "Judaism originates in Africa", and used this to explain (among other things) the existence of African Jews. To what extent is this true? Is it only referring to the biblical Jewish/proto-Jewish religion in Egypt, prior to their expulsion?
This was in his lecture on Zionism in 1990 which can be found on spotify and YouTube.
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u/specialistsets Non-denominational Nov 27 '24
To be blunt, this is completely false and often invoked in antisemitic conspiracy theories about Jews.
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u/blanky1 Non-Jewish Ally Nov 27 '24
Thanks for the clarification. I thought it was rather odd in an otherwise powerful anti-Zionist lecture.
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u/acacia_tree Reform Ashkie Diasporist Nov 28 '24
The Egypt exodus myth is actually just a myth and there is no archaeological evidence for it. u/gatoescado explains it well.
Judaism got to Africa via diaspora out of the Levant, same as everywhere else in the world.
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u/verrma Non-Jewish Ally Nov 27 '24
This is more of a religious question. I also recognize that it’s not limited to Judaism, but it also applies to Christianity, Islam, and the other Abrahamic faiths. So if any Christians, Muslims, etc. see this, feel free to answer this as well.
I also want to emphasize that I mean absolutely no disrespect, I just want to understand other people’s beliefs.
I know the God of Abraham is considered merciful. However, some things I had read about the Torah have me confused (I have only seen summaries of the books, so I recognize that I may be missing context). In particular, I’m confused about the Binding of Isaac and the whole situation with Pharaoh. God telling Abraham to sacrifice his son just to test his loyalty definitely rubbed me the wrong way. Also, I can accept that Pharaoh enslaved the Israelites and that he needed to be held accountable for it, but why did God harden Pharaoh’s heart further? It did lead to his downfall, but it made things worse for both the Israelites and the Egyptians, correct? And then there’s the 10 Plagues, and killing the firstborn sons of all Egyptian families. Was it really necessary to punish all of Egypt just because their ruler was evil?
Again, I don’t mean to be disrespectful. I’ve basically been agnostic my whole life, and I want to understand other people’s beliefs. If I got anything wrong, please let me know