r/BlatantMisogyny Oct 17 '23

Sexism “Influencer” asks woman to rate him out of ten and she says 0 because she 1.has a boyfriend and 2. Isn’t into muscular guys that are too into themselves. Apparently those are considered “high standers” nowadays.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '23

She’s just loyal, lmao. These men are pathetic.

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u/BoopEverySnoot Oct 18 '23

You know damn well if she rated him higher and they found out she had a boyfriend, they’d be calling her a disloyal bitch. 😂

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u/glmarquez94 Oct 18 '23

Was going to say this, they have no consistency whatsoever. They just want to hate women.

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u/Gloomy_Living_7532 Cunty Vagina Party Oct 18 '23

Men when women are shallow: 😡

Men when women aren't shallow: 😡

Pick one.

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u/Whiteroses7252012 Oct 18 '23

If we don’t look exactly like Margot Robbie, we’re not allowed to be loyal or have standards, apparently.

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u/emily_c137 Oct 18 '23

But don't forget, even the Internet thinks Margot Robbie is "mid" without makeup on

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u/meguin Oct 18 '23

Mid with makeup on when she's playing as an empowered woman, top-tier when she's playing a mentally unstable, emotionally dependent woman in pigtails and short shorts...

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u/LevelOutlandishness1 Oct 18 '23

They’ve already picked one, it’s “Men when women”

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u/Gloomy_Living_7532 Cunty Vagina Party Oct 18 '23

True

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '23

OMG SHE HAS SOME BELLY FAT!!! what ever shall we do?!?!

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u/n0vapine Oct 18 '23

I’m not getting a boner for her! That means she’s a bad person and/or ugly! /s

Or whatever these dudes fucking think when a woman isn’t appealing in their eyes.

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u/jsamurai2 Oct 18 '23

No it’s worse, they’re getting a boner and they’re mad they’re attracted to someone who isn’t a Stacy or whatever.

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u/GOTFIXED Oct 18 '23

Its not even that bad? Like I aint no doctor but I don't think she's going to die from obesity with what she got. Plus her swimsuit fits her perfectly to me I really don' get the hate.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '23

Oh it's not bad at all. Perfectly normal and less than most women have.

Guys have no idea, esp for short women. I'm 5 feet tall. In order to very slowly lose weight, I have to eat 1200 calories and work out. That's the same amount as the recommendation for a toddler.

A man who is skinny and tall can literally eat 2-3 times that amount and not gain weight. Men act like women who aren't thin must be constantly eating junk food and being lazy as fuck when they don't realize what it takes, especially for short women, to have a perfectly flat stomach.

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u/peggles727 Oct 19 '23

That's the thing, FAAB people have more internal organs in their lower belly than MAAB people. We are meant to have more belly fat in order to protect them.

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u/crotch_goblin17 Cunty Vagina Party Oct 19 '23

This. I had my aunt telling me all the time that I’m getting fat and need to lose weight. It was literally my uterine bump she was poking…..

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u/SoVerySleepy81 Oct 18 '23

I despise these videos. The only thing that they are meant to do is make it so that a bunch of dudes can rage at women. Like they stop women until they get something that they consider gotcha worthy and then fucking post it online so a bunch of children can flip out and talk about how fat or stupid or poor or ugly or promiscuous or whatever a woman is.

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u/redrobinedit Oct 18 '23

I wasn’t expecting the comments and even people telling her how to say what she said so other people wouldn’t get offended. it didn’t matter how she looked saying this, because some men live so vicariously through the “victimized” male that they will attack any female that is doing the “attacking”. They went after her weight because apparently they believe women should be stick then to be perceived as attractive. I’ve seen them go after traditionally good looking women whose preference wasn’t them, and without a lick of evidence they labeled her a whore and on.

They literally act angry hornets from a disturbed hornet’s nest.

The part that always gets me is how highly men think of other men. Some implied that she didn’t have a man, couldn’t get one, and never had one. When in reality men are so much easier to get than even they realize…Be it for sex, or a relationship. The difficulty is finding a quality partner that is compatible with you, your goals, morals, and beliefs.

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u/moth_with_anxiety Oct 18 '23

It's funny (infuriating) because what she's saying should be literally the opposite of "high standards" in these dudes' minds. They are the ones who complain women will never like them unless they're jacked, rich and confident. So this girl should be a wake up call that their perception of us is a bunch of bullshit, right?

Nope, because they only ever listen to other men. So instead of taking her word and rethinking things, they will all just assume she lied because her standards are actually SO crazy high that not even an athletic influencer makes the cut! She is demanding he be even more athletic and more successful, obviously!

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u/dilznup Oct 18 '23

Wow well-spotted! It's men gaslighting men about what's attractive to women. Meanwhile they collectively act like human trash.

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u/Staraa Oct 18 '23

You’d think they also appreciate that she only has eyes for her man but that doesn’t fit with their bs so she must be lying about even having a bf!

I don’t know how anyone can look at evidence that 1+1=2 and still screech that it’s 3.

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u/TheBeanBagger Feminist Oct 18 '23

People are fucking delusional if they consider her to be unattractive and ugly. The amount of assholes who shit on Woman for being what they consider ugly for being fat in their sexist views pisses me off.

What’s even more frustrating is she wouldn’t even be in this position if some asshole didn’t feel the need to intrude and ask to be rated but I guess the Woman’s in the wrong for that, how dare she!!! 😡

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u/dilznup Oct 18 '23

Yeah they'd all crawl to her at the end of the party. But here they are keyboard bashing her probably mid-porn session.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '23

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u/meguin Oct 18 '23

Nobody here cares about your boner.

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u/Zenla Oct 18 '23

Another example of "guy creates fictional scenario and gets angry at real woman because of it"

"You are a zero because I have a bf and you aren't my type."

"She wants him to be white and have a phD and be a millionaire!"

Where????!?

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u/RealLifeBurrite Oct 18 '23

"girls that look like this" she looks completely normal

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u/PookaParty Oct 18 '23

They’re mad because no woman has spoken of them the way she talks about her boyfriend.

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u/vwlphb Oct 18 '23

Also because a woman basically stated she wasn’t interested in fucking one of them. They berate us once they catch on that we’d never fuck them, mostly by screeching and crying over how they’d never fuck us.

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u/Yutolia Feminist Killjoy Oct 18 '23

And sometimes they do it preemptively. I’ve had guys that I’ve never met before come up to me and angrily snipe “you think you’re so hot. Well, you’re not! I wouldn’t touch you with a ten-foot pole” or “you’re not anywhere near as hot as you think you are” and then I’m like “ok bye?” It’s pretty clear you do think I’m hot and that’s why you’re throwing this tantrum for no reason at all…

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u/greg-drunk Oct 18 '23

“girls that look like this” you mean hot???? Loser.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '23

Fr?? She’s looking really pretty in that color of bikini 😭

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u/Purrphiopedilum Oct 18 '23

1) I’m beginning to think, along with women, young men are also suffering serious body dysmorphia issues resulting from social media (log off, or seek therapy— Andrew T’ain’t it). 2) social media certainly aren’t giving women an inflated sense of self worth, as implied. 3) a ton of 6’, $300k+ per year men do exist, but you won’t find them commiserating on social media by disparaging beach goers’ bodies. 4) that bathing suit is really cute 5) if she had rated anything other than “0” she’d be a loosey goosey that should instead be active in her congregation, homeschooling 4 kids, foraging for berries and hunting for wabbit meat, amirite? 6) it’s kinda funny they’re crying, so… 1/10 out of pity.

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u/Sure-Morning-6904 Oct 18 '23

All these provider guys literally provide nothing by being on twitter and ranting about women, just because they will never and could never really provide for a family like some of these women do. Looking at you specifically 10-pic guy🧐

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u/TheQuinnBee Oct 18 '23

"Time women start providing"--I'm sorry but most women have jobs. So not only are we doing most of the housework, childcare, the whole ordeal of pregnancy, and our artistic talents with makeup and hair (because god forbid we actually wear no makeup)--we are also working full time jobs. I guess the real question is: what are men bringing to the table?

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u/Sure-Morning-6904 Oct 18 '23

They bring nothing to the table. They cant provide and they apparently do nothing else. I also dont see how hes supposed to protect while being on twitter talking shit

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u/TheQuinnBee Oct 18 '23

Even the protection thing---protection from what?? We ain't fighting lions in my subdivision. The fuck are they protecting me from??

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u/The-Shattering-Light Oct 18 '23

The projection in those comments re “insecurity” could be harnessed to blow up the moon. It’s really quite something.

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u/Staraa Oct 18 '23

Did you just discover a new source of renewable energy?

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u/lindanimated Oct 18 '23

Wtf is the dude in images 9-10 saying? I feel like I’m having a stroke trying to read that.

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u/tittyswan Oct 18 '23

All the mean comments about her body make me want to wear the tiniest bikini possible so shallow people like that have to look at my fat rolls lol

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u/escapeshark Oct 18 '23

No matter what we do, they'll complain. This guy 100% isn't my type but if he didn't come off so full of himself I'd find him a lot more attractive

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u/XxllllxXx Feminist Oct 18 '23

Those comments are infuriating.

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u/EggBoyandJuiceGirl ORGANISED FEMALES Oct 18 '23

Nah man it’s almost funny how these guys will make up the craziest scenarios about women??? Like have they gone outside????

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u/vwlphb Oct 18 '23

It’s beyond pathetic how men think women care about whether or not they want to fuck us. It would be hilarious if it didn’t result in serious and harmful consequences.

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u/sunshinecryptic Oct 18 '23

What is the obsession with gay guys in the responses? How would it be any better if she had said that? I feel like they would be insulted and upset about that too!

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '23

Only thing I’m asking for is a dude that doesn’t have his head up his ass and that isn’t the douchiest douche known to man.

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u/gloom_spewer Oct 18 '23

It's all so tiresomely self defeating. Dude I am convinced most male redditors / internet dwellers need to simply go meet real people. No comments on "objectively" attractive traits, but from a conventional perspective she is quite attractive. Any guy who disagrees doesn't get outside enough and demonstrates that he doesn't understand the range/variety actually out there beyond cardboard cutouts and highlight reels. Most normal guys I know would line up to talk to her at a bar, guaranteed.

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u/PurpleMoonStorm Oct 18 '23

We got #9 claiming she wants a white guy with a PhD while #17 decided to use a racist stereotype. Yikes.

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u/bondbeansbond Oct 18 '23

My first thought was that she looks great and I wish I had her confidence to rock my body.

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u/Reimustein Oct 18 '23

These guys want her to give him a decent rating, but would absolutely give her a very harsh rating if she asked. These guys are soft

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u/graciebeeapc Oct 18 '23

Most women are whores and illiterates according to that one guy… First of all, he’s the fucking illiterate one. I can barely understand what he’s saying. Second of all, women are not all “whores”. Period. Third, more women read then men statistically. More women go to college. More women get degrees. We’re definitely not illiterate.

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u/fvcknvgget5 Oct 18 '23

what’s crazy is that she’s not even that big. she’s literally just not skinny. it’s insane that they see that as massive and ugly. she’s stunning bro, AND LOYAL. why are we mad at fidelity

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u/DylanMc6 Anti-misogyny Oct 18 '23

Some people should stop being misogynistic assholes. Seriously.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '23

if you’re fat and have standards, you shouldn’t cause youre fat.

if you’re ugly and have standards, you shouldn’t cause youre ugly.

if you’re a POC and have standards, you shouldn’t cause youre a POC.

if you’re the complete opposite of what i just listed and have standards, you shouldn’t cause youre a whore.

the goal post moves every time. you can be the epitome of beauty and fit right in with the beauty standards and men will still complain about you shouldn’t have standards cause obviously youre just a whore. youll never be able to satisfy these lone- willy jerkers. Their opinion means nothing.

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u/Yutolia Feminist Killjoy Oct 18 '23

Nice homophobia from that one dude. “Oh, just say he’s gay!“ Yeah, ha ha….. ha…………

I would’ve said zero as well, I’m not interested in somebody’s insecure compliment-fishing bullshit. I find it very manipulative. You want somebody to rate you, go somewhere else.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '23

You all know if she decided to give him a high rating and told him that she has a boyfriend, he would have flipped the question on her by asking,

“And what would your boyfriend think of you rating me?” or “Do you think your boyfriend will be alright with seeing you rate other men that are not him?”

If she decided to rate him a number and not disclose her relationship status, the jackass would’ve asked something snarky like,

“You’re a (insert low number) to so why did you rate me that score?” or “Do you think you can pull a guy like me?”

She was put in a no win situation. Guys like these love to “humble” women and get them to lower their standards to accommodate their insecurities.

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u/findingtilly Oct 18 '23

Everyone has the right to have high standards, even if they're unreasonable. If they end up not finding anyone that meets those standards, that's their problem. I don't know why someone else's standards should bother me. They're acting like these women are robbing them of something. You don't come across as if you have an interest in these women anyway, so their standards don't affect you to begin with. Let the free market solve this one.

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u/Flar71 Feminist Killjoy Oct 18 '23

They keep talking about how she won't find a good man when she's already in a relationship, like what

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u/gvrmtissueddigiclone Oct 19 '23

Maybe they should stop trying to rate human beings on a scale from 1 to 10 if they cannot handle the answer? Honestly, the only real response should be throwing a beverage at them 🤷🏼‍♀️

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u/DKerriganuk Oct 18 '23

It is funny seeing the reactions to these. Sometimes when you go fishing you get a boot.

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u/luxe_pretty Oct 18 '23

The fact that men think they can assign women value and that we better act accordingly to their standards is hilarious.

You don't get to tell me my value based on if you would fuck me or not.

I could care less about this stupid scale these dudes use to try and humble women.

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u/chewbubbIegumkickass Oct 18 '23

Breaking news! Random asshat man harasses women in public demanding answers to invasive and impertinent questions, gets mad about it, and then sends his incel flying monkey bros after them.

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u/[deleted] Oct 18 '23

I read the comments and I keep going back to look at the picture. She looks fine? Normal? Cute, even. What kind of offensive, horrifying thing are they seeing in that picture?

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u/stelliumWithin Oct 18 '23

Wait I saw the reverse scenario and everyone called the man a Chad 😭

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u/lav__ender Oct 18 '23

if someone comes up to me with a tiny mic or using their phone as a microphone I’m walking the other way. I’m not answering any stupid questions to be blasted online about my appearance/viewpoints for no fucking reason.

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u/black_dragonfly13 Oct 19 '23

Calling her obese is beyond confusing. Maybe that swimsuit isn't the most flattering on her, idk, it's not for me to judge. BUT under no circumstances is she even fat, much less obese. The fact that people can't see that is a serious problem imo.

And while I know that is most certainly not the only issue here - there are SO many, oh my gods - it's the one I felt compelled to address.

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u/everyone_hates_lolo Cunty Vagina Party Oct 19 '23

value is crazy

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u/everyone_hates_lolo Cunty Vagina Party Oct 19 '23

men want a loyal girl but when she's loyal she either gets shit on or killed for it (like saying "no, i have a bf" and the person tryna get with her gets mad and kills her)

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u/Reasonable_Debate Oct 20 '23

“I want a harem of women to be my sexual slaves and do all of my housework!” , the frustrated human male said. He then picked up something heavy while looking at his flashy vehicle and eating a steak and smoking a cigar, and he felt better than everyone else, which made him happy.

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u/high_as_a_mop Oct 21 '23

"'only my boyfriend is a 10' instead of judging someone"

HE LITERALLY ASKED TO BE JUDGED? i think she looks good :(