r/Assistance • u/buzzybody21 • Jun 25 '20
META Androiduser69 just hit me up in my DMs for donations
User hit me up for donations, and then proceeded to call me a troll, and told me to stop sending him #BDLM etc. none of which is obviously true.
Just thought y’all should be aware.
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u/seaboard2 [Amazon aficionado] Jun 25 '20
That is annoying, sorry s/he did that :(
Send the mods a screenshot using Mod mail.
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
I blocked him before I took a screenshot, and he/she also kept deleting their part of the chat, claiming “I didn’t say that...” ugh. Such a frustrating experience
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u/seaboard2 [Amazon aficionado] Jun 25 '20
Maybe Judy or Nibs will bark at him/her here with a warning.
(Did you send anyone cash recently? I am trying to figure out why they approached you)
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
No. I don’t have any money to give. I’m furloughed from both my jobs and not getting unemployment (CT messed up my paperwork so I’m still waiting). I would give if I could, so I’m trying to help where I can.
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u/seaboard2 [Amazon aficionado] Jun 25 '20
That was what I remembered, so I can't see why you would be targeted. I mean, like I send cereal and tuna, so I don't get DMs asking, know what I mean?
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
Exactly. I wish I could help, but it’s not an option. I also love the challenge of finding resources and that type of help. I’m good at googling things. It is a part of one of my jobs, so I feel that’s something I can help with.
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u/seaboard2 [Amazon aficionado] Jun 25 '20
Just like I learned how to navigate Amazon and set up wish lists -- we do what we can :)
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u/thevomitgirl Jun 25 '20
There would be a lot of people here without food if not for you. ❤️
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u/seaboard2 [Amazon aficionado] Jun 25 '20
I do love pushing 8 packs of tuna :) (still out of stock)
The other things I find are just because I have an addiction to Amazon and time on my hands!
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u/Hellointhere Jun 26 '20
I have to check wishlists for another sub and sometimes I find things for myself. :)
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u/_fuzzy_owl_ REGISTERED Jun 25 '20
If you find any plant/gardening/pots/etc at great deals be sure to let me know!! I keep seeing prices on such items go up!
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u/thevomitgirl Jun 25 '20
I for one appreciate your Amazon addiction! I have definitely bought things that were on your posts and the only reason I don't need tuna is because I bought some at Costco awhile back. I spent tons of time on Amazon today searching for the best toothbrush after my super old sonicare finally kicked the bucket. 😭
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
This is the truth!! And no one would know how to create an amazon wishlist!
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
Thank you!! And thanks for affirming this, I really appreciate it. I feel kind of shaken.
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u/thevomitgirl Jun 25 '20
Exactly. I wish I could help, but it’s not an option. I also love the challenge of finding resources and that type of help. I’m good at googling things. It is a part of one of my jobs, so I feel that’s something I can help with.
You do help. I see your comments on posts all the time offering useful advice and information. I think that's awesome!
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u/lisawl7tr Jun 25 '20
I blocked him before I took a screenshot, and he/she also kept deleting their part of the chat, claiming “I didn’t say that...” ugh. Such a frustrating experience
Ugh. I'm sure you sent to the mods.
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
Yeah. It was a frustrating experience. But I sent everything I have to the mods.
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u/lisawl7tr Jun 25 '20
Yeah. It was a frustrating experience. But I sent everything I have to the mods.
I figured you did. Yep, the first time I helped someone on here I got a pm from someone else.
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
Thing is, I didn’t help this guy...I only told him how to fix his gofundme page.
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u/lisawl7tr Jun 25 '20
Thing is, I didn’t help this guy...I only told him how to fix his gofundme page.
They must target those that are helpful and kind. Sad.
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
It’s pathetic. I feel bad for people who need help, but not for people who manipulate others. It just makes it harder to help people who truly need the help.
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u/lisawl7tr Jun 25 '20
It’s pathetic. I feel bad for people who need help, but not for people who manipulate others. It just makes it harder to help people who truly need the help.
I agree 100%. My help is small. Husband has been without work since 2/26 but I still try and help others within our limits. He does have a phone interview tomorrow! If he gets hired on I plan to do a mediumish size help to more but now my help is somewhat limited.
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
Good luck on your husband’s interview...I hope everything goes well and it’s the right fit!! You do so much already, I think it feels yucky when it is abused.
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u/thevomitgirl Jun 25 '20
I've gotten a few and I've never responded and just screenshot and send to the mods. It's usually from sketchy accounts, I don't think I've gotten a PM from someone who's actually posted here.
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u/lisawl7tr Jun 25 '20
I've gotten a few and I've never responded and just screenshot and send to the mods. It's usually from sketchy accounts, I don't think I've gotten a PM from someone who's actually posted here.
Probably trying their luck since you have helped many recently. With me my husband worked to earn this money so I am careful on how much I send and to who. I am sure there is a scammer or so among them. Scammers will get their Karma in the end.
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u/thevomitgirl Jun 25 '20
Yeah I try to use my best judgment but I'm sure I've been wrong. I check histories pretty extensively but I'm sure I miss things. Lately I've tried to do more specific gift cards or fulfill wishlists but you never know. I try not to think the worst though or I'd never come back here. I think the requesting rules help filter most of the scammers out though.
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u/lisawl7tr Jun 26 '20
Yeah I try to use my best judgment but I'm sure I've been wrong. I check histories pretty extensively but I'm sure I miss things. Lately I've tried to do more specific gift cards or fulfill wishlists but you never know. I try not to think the worst though or I'd never come back here. I think the requesting rules help filter most of the scammers out though.
I try to give to someone I connect with...like been there and I understand. Checking history and deletes can sometimes blow my mind. I try to be open minded like ok there is a sub for this and they didn't delete their post. I want to think I get enough information that whether I help(if I am able) or not I can sleep knowing I did what was best for my family and the requester.
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u/camelhorse Jun 26 '20
this happens to me frequently. i just ignore it. am i supposed to be reporting it?
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u/seaboard2 [Amazon aficionado] Jun 26 '20
Yes, that helps the Mods block users who won't follow the rules :)
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u/rivenrottiebutt Jun 25 '20
They emailed me too. I screen shot it and sent to the mods as well. Super frustrating.
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
Thank you so much...I’m sorry you were contacted as well...thanks for reaching out to the mods. Are you okay?
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u/rivenrottiebutt Jun 25 '20
Oh, yeah! Thanks for checking. They just made a new post and I commented saying that if they didn't get enough help last time, they may have better luck reaching out to their city representatives. Apparently that means to message me and ask for money?
I didnt engage in the conversation. I just declined it and reached out to the mods.
After reading about your experience, I'm glad I didn't message them. That sounded incredibly stressful and irritating. Are you okay?
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 25 '20
Thanks for asking...it feels...weird. I commented on a post from 12 days ago! Why now? And never offered money, like you. It just feels super...invasive. When the name calling started, I knew it was over.
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u/rivenrottiebutt Jun 26 '20
That's just really weird. I'm sorry about how invasive that must feel. The way they were deleting messages seems really manipulative, too. They've shown quite a few red flags of inappropriate behavior. If he isn't banned, I just know to look out for that username and I sure won't donate to their cause.
I hope that doesn't deter you from continuing to be awesome here. Some people really know how to ruin a good thing.
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 26 '20
I would love to see him banned. Mod said they warned him. Which is what it is.
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u/seaboard2 [Amazon aficionado] Jun 26 '20
If Rosie is correct and a Mod on a different board puts him on the USL, then he is toast here anyway :)
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u/rosierose89 Jun 26 '20
Turns out they're a scammer anyways (beyond PMing people for money which is a shitty move). The GFM they have linked is exactly identical to one that was made a week before his. So I call complete bullshit
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 26 '20
Good researching! Maybe message the mods??
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u/rosierose89 Jun 26 '20
Can't take the credit lol, a mod on a different sub he posted it on (and then deleted) found it. Yeah I reported the post and linked the identical GFM
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u/rossettacube Jun 26 '20
sorry to hear :( by the way, what is BDLM
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 26 '20
Who knows??? Your guess is as good as mine!!
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u/rivenrottiebutt Jun 26 '20
Based on their "all lives matter" fiasco on their original post, I'd venture to say that BLDM is Black Lives Dont Matter. If true, that is disgusting to even mention that.
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Jun 25 '20
Add u/croossc to the list
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u/seaboard2 [Amazon aficionado] Jun 25 '20
Sorry that happened, screen shot and send it to the Mods using mod mail.
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u/Skinnysusan REGISTERED Jun 26 '20
I was just hit up by someone and I didnt get the username before I declined it was something like u/ mossier I dont want to link the wrong person but just a heads up, I msgd mods. I'm literally here for help. I'm just waiting until I'm super desperate-last resort. I also love seeing all the wonderful things that happen on this sub! <3
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 26 '20
I’m so sorry this happened to you...and I’m glad you send something to the mods. No one deserves to be treated like that, especially since the goal here is to help people.
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u/Skinnysusan REGISTERED Jun 26 '20
I believe it was a scam. If it's not I genuinely hope they get help. Thanks for your kind words! I'm sorry this happened to you as well! People like to take advantage of others kindness when the world is desperate like it is now.
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u/buzzybody21 Jun 26 '20
I totally agree. People with issues see the kindness in others, and unfortunately take advantage of it. I’ll never understand why they do this, but I’ll just have to pray for them, and hope they find peace in their lives.
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u/stoolsample2 Jun 26 '20
Someone named /u/Mossshie tried to start a chat with me on June 9. I donate when I can and I get these all the time. I just ignore them because they keep changing names.
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u/Skinnysusan REGISTERED Jun 26 '20
That'd be the one! I'm sorry your kindness and generosity are rewarded with that crap
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Jun 26 '20
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u/rivenrottiebutt Jun 26 '20
I'm not sure. But based on their "all lives matter" comment on their original post, I'd guess that BLDM means Black Lives Don't Matter and this person was just being an insanely disrespectful troll.
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u/thevomitgirl Jun 25 '20 edited Jun 25 '20
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Edit: if I recall, the last time they posted the gofundme it was not well received after they stated quite emphatically "all lives matter". They have since edited the older post so it no longer says that after being called out by a few users. I hope they have changed their way of thinking about the world.