Unexpected lay off and bills piling up

[u/Usual-Tradition-5627]

My husband was laid off last month we were able to pull through but not able to pull through this month. I’ve called 211 and contacted all the communities around me and a lot are not giving rental or utility assistance appointments till Jan.2nd. There was one place I had luck with but they wanted us to get evicted first … we can’t do that we have kids that’s not an option . We had more in savings but car issues took that . Unsure what to do next . We already live beneath our means as we are a family of 5 all living in a small place and recently got approved for food stamps which helps a lot. Everything we own is second hand and even for Christmas we just got our kids one gift each . We don’t crazy spending . Just unsure where to go for now as this is our first time in this position . Hopefully last as we are both in school trying to better our future and our kids . I even called a few places today but due to the holidays they are closed. Any ideas would help. Yes we’ve been applying for jobs just a non stop no . Lots of layoffs everywhere unfortunately. If anyone can just please help us with this months utility bill which is 126.89, please we would appreciate it and just with advice on where we can general rental assistance please as it’s been a struggle as our rent is 1300 and our first unemployment check was 378 that’s not including the other bills we have like diapers wipes , insurance , and etc . I contacted my energy company and they just tell me to call 211 or that they don’t currently have any programs.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2RKHX1KXLVVAQ?ref_=wl_share

I made a wish list after being recommended for baby needs . Thank you in advance .

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[u/ImHereCantSleep]

Working temp service jobs till you find permanent jobs and donating plasma in your area could really quickly help dig you out of this situation.

[u/Alwaysfresh9 → u/ImHereCantSleep]

Babysitting, dogwalking, and shoveling snow too. Babysitting especially - I've saved my skin a few times by picking up Babysitting jobs. People are desperate for affordable childcare! And since there are 2 adults in your household not working, you can pick up those last minute jobs that often pay extra!

[u/Usual-Tradition-5627 → u/Alwaysfresh9]

My husband been doing during random jobs like raking and etc so that’s helping and I want to start babysitting to. How much do you charge for babysitting ? I’m seeing 150 a week is that good offer should I just take it ? Like if it’s below min. Wage should I just take it for the sake of money coming in ?

[u/Usual-Tradition-5627 → u/Alwaysfresh9]

Thank you, I had not even thought of babysitting honestly . I’ll definitely start looking around

[u/Usual-Tradition-5627 → u/ImHereCantSleep]

Thank you probably check out some different agencies . I’ve even been doing surveys because I know every penny helps . I nor my husband don’t qualify for plasma due to medical reasons.

[u/luwcia]

hey, i just bought diapers for your baby off your amazon wishlist. should be coming on sunday. hope this helps a little

[u/Usual-Tradition-5627 → u/luwcia]

Yay ! Thank you soo much ! Truly . My baby boy will be happy he has more diapers coming ! Luckily I got a job so hopefully soon we will get back on our feet. Thank you 🙏

[u/luwcia → u/Usual-Tradition-5627]

no problem—things will get better soon. just keep hope!

[u/Usual-Tradition-5627 → u/luwcia]

Thank you !! I had another redditor help me potty train so I’m sure the advice will help . I’ve been potty training my kids for a while and my oldest is pretty much there just not overnight or in public just needs more pushing . I’ve pushed even more since it is expensive. Anyone out there who has tips I’m open to learning especially with potty training kids with autism and screaming when wearing underwear in public. My son can’t really talk uses a device and knows a bit of signs .

[u/cuoreesitante]

Make an Amazon wishlist for baby supplies that you need and post it!

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[u/Usual-Tradition-5627]

Hi guys quick update , I just got a job offer to work at a local donut shop yay !! While the income is not a lot it’ll definitely help, and even better is my husband got an interview on Monday . Yay !! Thank y’all for all the advice and help !!!

[u/MimiJ63]

Your delivery address isn't coming up on the wishlist... could you please correct this so that those who wish to help can help please 🙂

[u/Usual-Tradition-5627 → u/MimiJ63]

Yes sorry . I still don’t understand how to use wishlist hopefully I can get it to work

[u/Usual-Tradition-5627 → u/Usual-Tradition-5627]

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2RKHX1KXLVVAQ?ref_=wl_share.

I think I fixed it . Sorry, I never knew about this group till this week and while I figured out some things I don’t know everything just yet

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[u/Usual-Tradition-5627]

Thank you so much everyone for offering to help!

I truly appreciate your kindness and support! Luckily a kind stranger has helped my family out with the electric bill . Truly grateful for the kind gesture . I’m still actively looking into other rental assistance options, so if you happen to come across any additional resources or suggestions, I’d be incredibly grateful. Your help means a lot to me!