r/Assistance • u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED • 23d ago
REQUEST FULFILLED I’m embarrassed but desperate to get groceries.
I’m reaching out here because I’m in a tough spot and need some help. Times have been hard for me lately and I’m living paycheck to paycheck. I have a 12-year-old son, and I’m trying to make sure we have food and essentials for the week because we have run out of everything. I don’t have even $1 to my name after paying rent and power. My rent was suddenly increased from $900 a month to $1,800 and it has been taking everything I have to be able to pay it on time each month. I know everyone is struggling these days and I’m not special so believe I’m mortified at having to ask for help like this ):
I’m actively looking for ways to improve my situation, but at this moment, I just need a little help to get through the week. If anyone can help I would greatly appreciate it so much!
Thank you for taking the time to read this, and for any kindness you can offer.
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u/The_New_Spagora 23d ago
That rental increase can’t be lawful. I’d be reaching out to legal aid or whatever resources are in your area. Also, I’d recommend posting an Amazon wish list with your requirements, as most ppl feel more comfortable donating via Amazon as opposed to sending cash. Best of luck!
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
Thank you so much for the advice! I will go make the wish list now!
In regards to my rent I signed a lease in 2017 for a two year lease and once it ran out the landlord never made me sign a new one so I assume I’ve been on a month to month type lease. The landlord sold the house earlier this year and the new land lord gave me a letter stating the rent increase with the option to sign a lease or to tell them I can’t pay 30 days before rent was due and move out. I haven’t signed a rental agreement yet with the new landlord and I’ve been paying the rent increase since I believe August.
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u/Pinkynarfnarf REGISTERED 23d ago
There must be a rental board where you live. I can’t believe they can double your rent if they sell. I would check on the legality of that.
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u/KnotUndone 23d ago
If in the US, it is highly unlikely that there is a rental board. Not having a valid lease means no real protections. The landlord can end the tenancy or double the rent with 30 days written notice. It sucks but that's how it is here. Of course the tenant can also quit with 30 days notice.
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
At first they said they weren’t going to but then the new landlord told me they have too because the bank told them they couldn’t do the loan without it which I don’t know if I believe that considering I haven’t signed a lease stating I would pay it and they obviously got the loan.
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u/Pinkynarfnarf REGISTERED 23d ago
That’s why I’d contacted the rental board in your area. Don’t trust the landlord to have your best interest in mind.
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
I’m in Alabama we don’t have rent control laws ):
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u/mlebrooks 23d ago
AL is a lot like IN where I live. A LL can increase the rent by however much they want, as long as they give the tenant proper notice.
It sucks and should be illegal to increase it that much
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u/Glamorous1978 REGISTERED 23d ago
Are you not able to move out & get an apartment ? Double the rent is ridiculous … sorry this happened to you but I understand the situation , my husband passed away & now I am trying my best to pay the entire mortgage which is really hard , hopefully I can find a couple of PG soon.
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u/Human-Persona217 REGISTERED 23d ago
Do you have a local tenant union? Id be calling them for free advice. We have one in my town and they’re super helpful.
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u/PowerfulRaspberry730 22d ago
It’s definitely not legal to increase rent that much. I wonder if this post is true.
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
Can I add like frozen hamburger meat to my list? I’m having a difficult time making this list 😂
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u/TraditionalNetwork75 REGISTERED 23d ago
Try finding canned foods instead like soup or stew. Canned meat like spam or chicken are great and even canned beef if you really want to make something with beef.
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
Thank you I greatly appreciate the help 🥰
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u/TraditionalNetwork75 REGISTERED 23d ago
No worries! I know you said you have a 12 yr old so maybe they would like chef boyardee products - that could help a bit with the meal planning.
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u/Firm_Elk9522 22d ago
Dawn, Dial soap, Bear Creek soups, yogurt bars, and Chef Boyardee should be delivered on the 10th.
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 22d ago
Thank you everyone for your kindness I seriously didn’t expect this to get a response I’m so touched 😭🥰
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u/fish_leash 23d ago
I know it’s embarrassing but posting to local Facebook groups or Nextdoor asking about food banks might get you a ton of resources locally available to you. During the pandemic we had a hard time, we found out multiple churches and other organizations in our area give out boxes full of food including fruits and veggies, none made us sign anything or requested any proof of income, volunteers were really nice and not judgmental at all
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u/NotWhiteCracker 23d ago
I wish I could do more, but the best I can do today is offer some suggestions to get food. Have you considered speaking with a grocery store or restaurant GM to see if you can get first dibs on nightly donated items? Most places these days donate leftovers to local food banks but sometimes they can set food aside for other reasons
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
Stop, your suggestion alone is enough! I appreciate it so much! I have never thought of that and I will call my local stores. Thank you!
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u/hottwat_n_need 23d ago
I sure hope you are able to get some food using that suggestion. I would be interested in knowing if you try.
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
I just got off the phone with Publix and they took my information down and told me it has to be ran through corporate so I’ll let you know if they get back to me! I’m going to call Walmart now.
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u/NotWhiteCracker 19d ago
Did you have any luck?
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 18d ago
Yes I did! Publix had a grocery cart with some food just some of the things they donate to the food pantries. They were so kind and they also gave me the number and address for the local food pantries they donate too!
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u/shortybubbles REGISTERED 23d ago
Did you make a wish list?
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
I just got home I was going to food donation boxes to see if anything was available but I will finish the wish list asap
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u/spackletr0n 23d ago
Lmk when you do and I’ll grab some things for you.
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
Hi! Take a look at this List I created on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/11Z9H4Z7161DQ?ref_=wl_share
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
Thank you! It took me forever and I couldn’t really figure out how to get groceries but I’m waiting on the link to be approved.
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u/Mediocre-Share7294 18d ago
It’s so hard to ask for help but sometimes it’s necessary. Hope you are able to get some assistance. I wish was able to help but struggling so hard as well. There will come a day when we’ll be able to pay it forward. Have a blessed and beautiful Christmas.
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u/nicoleyeagerr REGISTERED 23d ago
Hi! Take a look at this List I created on Amazon. https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/11Z9H4Z7161DQ?ref_=wl_share
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u/Past_Ad4142 23d ago
Hey there, I’d like to help. Dm me
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u/Least_Medium_5630 17d ago
I'm also in a desperate position and have already posted on here... Would you be willing to help me too 🙏🏽😭.
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