r/AmIOverreacting • u/kuromi7777 • 1d ago
❤️🩹 relationship AIO- I found out my girlfriend was sexting multiple people on discord NSFW
My girlfriend (f24) and I (f21) have been together for a few years now. Recently she’s been sucked into the world of VRchat and has made a ton of friends. I’m glad she’s socializing with people and such but a few things made me uncomfortable. I was trying it out on her computer one day and I saw in her bio that it stated she was taken by someone. I told her I didn’t feel comfortable with that and she removed it. She always told me she prides herself on being open in our relationships and to always be honest about our intentions with stuff and if we have any problems. So she explained that it was a really close friend but she’ll remove it, I left it alone after that. But a week after that I came home from work and I heard her moaning and saying how she wants to suck on someone’s fat tits and how they’re fucking hot. I knew she was in a few NSFW servers and such but I just stopped in my tracks. I felt really hurt by that and I let her know. She said she was just having some fun and the group she was with was just messing around. I expressed how that made me uncomfortable and she said she understood so she’ll cut back going to those events. So I left it alone, again, because I trusted her. Well as we were driving home last night, I saw a message come up on her discord of someone saying that they wanted to breed her and fuck her brains out. I was shocked. After I told her how I felt about the things before and she was still continuing with it. I confronted her again and she said that it doesn’t mean anything to her and she’s just having fun. When she fell asleep, I decided to go through her messages and found out she’s been sexting with multiple people, telling them she loves them, calling them baby, etc. I felt so betrayed. I woke her up and showed her the messages and she said it didn’t mean anything to her and she’s just messing around. I told her it’s cheating but she doesn’t think it is. She said since she didn’t fuck anyone irl it’s not that serious. I also found out that the person I told her to remove from her bio “broke up” with her because she was also talking with other people and it hurt their feelings. Am I overreacting or is this just fucking around?
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u/Comfortable-Law-1510 1d ago
Idk if you r being fr but you should dump her ass pronto
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u/kuromi7777 1d ago
Yes I’m for real.. sadly:(
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u/Comfortable-Law-1510 1d ago
Have you dumped her?
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u/kuromi7777 1d ago
We’re on a break. It’s a lot of mixed emotions going on.
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u/Comfortable-Law-1510 1d ago
Oldest trick in the book. She will be back after shes had her fun and starts to miss you and the cycle will repeat.
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u/Eastern-Bill711 1d ago
How old does she think you are, to believe that bs and put up with it? Kick er curbside
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u/UpstairsNo9249 1d ago
Not overreacting. This would fall under emotional cheating. Which is still cheating. There may be a possibility to work through it, but it would all depend on how you feel. Even cheating like this can have a "point of no return" and only you will know if you're past that or not. Either set some hard boundaries and try to work on it, or dump her. Though to be honest, if she doesn't even see the issue, I'm not sure that she's worth it.
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u/MeaningEquivalent788 1d ago
LEAVE HERRRRRRRR! They don’t change, as much as they say they will. Trust me.
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u/PurpleHeartEdition 1d ago
I'm not 100% sure if it's cheating but it's definitely a form of disrespect if she continues even though you clearly communicated that you are uncomfortable with it.
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u/Then_Inevitable8825 1d ago
"AIO to my girlfriend cheating on me with multiple people?". Hmmm I don't know, are you?
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u/Future_Public9974 1d ago
Baby that’s cheating 🧍🏻♀️