r/BlackPeopleTwitter ☑️ 27d ago

Country Club Thread I have come to be a menace and chew gum

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u/OkEscape7558 ☑️ 27d ago

"I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy", nigga I would.

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u/tsh87 27d ago

I can't be the bigger person, I'm only 5'5"

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u/FknDesmadreALV 27d ago

I’m 4’10 and a petty mf

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u/LynJo1204 27d ago

Literally. Like the audacity to ask me to be the bigger person when I'm struggling to be 5ft. Ha!

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u/Weird_Put_9514 27d ago

as someone who is also under 5’ i will be using this

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u/PinchingNutsack 27d ago

hey you can always be a bigger person horizontally bruh

but FUCK THAT, petty to the MAX LETS GOOOOO

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u/NancyPelosisRedCoat 27d ago

Turks have a saying that goes like "You should be afraid of someone whose ass is near the ground". Not sure about the logic behind it, but it works…

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u/Late-Champion8678 27d ago

I think it means, that you have further to fall than they do

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u/ear_cheese 27d ago

That, or they’ll be a better wrestler

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u/GREGOR_CLEGAIN 26d ago

Especially if oiled up as is Turkish tradition

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u/thatsnotyourtaco 27d ago

I feel like it means something similar to back up against the wall like they can’t get much lower than they are now so be mindful

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u/UndauntedCandle 27d ago

I think it has to do with someone appearing to be non-threatening or inconspicuous may actually end up being formidable or unpredictable. In other words, just because they're small doesn't mean they can't wallop one way or another.

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u/toomuchdiponurchip 27d ago

I’m 6’1 and petty as shit 😂😂😂

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u/PanchoPanoch 27d ago

It’s amazing. My one of my bullies never grew much. I’m 6’1 and ran into him at the gym during my body building phase.

It was nice making him feel small both physically and career wise.

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u/CurseofLono88 27d ago

I’m 5’11 and deeply empathetic and forgiving, but that empathy extends to loving watch people enjoy their bullies just deserts.

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u/RCocaineBurner 27d ago

Short people live in a more oxygen-rich environment and yet they still make the same mistakes as me. This means they’re doing it on purpose and should not be trusted.

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u/Born_Inspector6265 ☑️ 27d ago

I’m tall af and I’d still step on that bitch

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u/NMB4Christmas 27d ago

I've got two exes that were 4'10" and a whole bunch who were under 5'2". Yeah you littles can be petty as hell.

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u/DonHulion 27d ago

*petit mf

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u/FknDesmadreALV 27d ago

I just learned petit refers to height, not weight.

So yes, my fatass is petit. Suck it, AE

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u/KrakenTheColdOne 27d ago

Just don't get short with everybody.

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u/OkEscape7558 ☑️ 27d ago

Laughs in Napoleon

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u/DudeEngineer ☑️ 27d ago

This is the greatest slander in history. Bro was above average height for a man from that area at that time.

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u/Trnostep 27d ago

He was like 168 or 5'6" when the average male height in France was like 165 (5'5). His personal guard was just full of massive dudes so he appeared shorter

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u/KyleG 27d ago

also the "Napoleon was short" thing was started by his enemies

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u/Just-Plankton-8553 27d ago

You know my hobbity ass is stealing that one

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u/Highskyline 27d ago

6'0" and it's nice still being able to hit people on the high road when I only take the low road.

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u/Question_Moots 27d ago

Some people aren't hating enough. Whats the point of even having an enemy, did they actually did anything to you or is it their vibes?

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u/TrixoftheTrade 26d ago

“It’s always been about love and hate,

Now let me say I’m the biggest hater,”

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u/bikesboozeandbacon ☑️ 27d ago

I hate when people say this because I definitely would wish that on my worst enemy.

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u/embracingmountains 27d ago

Literally. My WORST enemy? That is a category of abusers and life-ruiners. Tf I’m protecting you from. Suffer.

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u/Boggie135 ☑️ 27d ago

Hehehe I so would

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u/This_Red_Apple 27d ago

I left my home town at 19 to find a job and the guys at the church I was going to called me a loser for living with my mom and uncle. Years later they came in as a group to the company I ended up as a project manager to ask for work. I felt like Joseph in Egypt lol

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u/slick_pick 27d ago

HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE

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u/meestercactuspants 27d ago

KISS MY ASS YOU ROTTEN MFS

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u/h2opolopunk 27d ago

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm gonna go home and put some more water in Buck Nasty's mama's dish. Good evening.

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u/SH4DOWSTR1KE_ 27d ago

That, of course, was Beautiful talking.

Beautiful on the weekends does stunts for Little Richard in gay movies..

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u/Main_Push5429 27d ago

What did you type to get this gif, for research purposes 🤭

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u/misntshortformary 27d ago

“Haters Ball”

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u/Sgt-Pumpernickel 27d ago

Next person to say something while I'm talkin, is gettin shot

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u/[deleted] 27d ago

Man, you CORNY

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u/meltingspace ☑️ 27d ago

Please believe that

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u/Interesting-Wing616 27d ago

I feel like just letting your bully know that you’re the reason she has any sort of income is enough for humble pie. Then again I don’t know how far the bullying went. Some shit is way too hard to forgive

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u/MarifeelsLost 27d ago

If the didn't have a kid, I would do it with no hesitation.

My bully was in two out of three suicide notes🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/PrinterStand 27d ago

I think it's never a good look.

Like, what is the tweeter trying to tell us? A single mom has been living in my head rent-free for years? I have unaddressed trauma? People don't change after high school?

Immaturity is messy.

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u/longlisten527 27d ago

Just don’t let her get hired period. Why go the extra length?

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u/Askymojo 27d ago

This is why.

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u/Jozif_Badmon ☑️ 27d ago

I’m still stuck on how the hardest line in GOT came from an old lady

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u/[deleted] 27d ago

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u/Scapp 27d ago

Queen of Thorns definitely one of the best characters. Kind of wish Left and Right were in the show though haha

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u/No-Taste-8252 27d ago

Not getting job - slight disappointment but you live

Getting job - elation

Getting fired first day - worst nightmares

The contrast between the bottom 2 would be a massive plummet in happiness

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u/soundguynick 27d ago

First day? Naw. Third week. Let them settle in a bit, get comfortable, get that first paycheck, let them think life has gotten better. THEN snatch the rug out from under them and ruin their life. The hope made them rise, they'll fall so much farther this way.

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u/mrbrettw 27d ago

Yeah let them reactivate all their streaming services and get a new car payment first. hahaha

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u/soundguynick 27d ago

Wishing a new car payment on someone is truly demonic

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u/Serious-Examination 27d ago

This happened to me. Got rehired at a good job and was doing the intake process, couple weeks in the company starts ghosting me. Call the manager (who loved me), she says she'll look into it. Then HR calls and says they're not moving forward with me cause my background... The same background I had when I worked there before and I was a great employee, perfect.

I broke down crying man, I needed that job so bad. Christmas and my kids birthdays were coming, I thought I was set. I had hope in a desperate time and they ripped it out. A straight "no" to my face day one woulda been so much easier to stomach

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u/LettuceBeExcellent 27d ago

Batman villain.

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u/PharmDinagi ☑️ 27d ago

Just a regular corporate villain.

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u/Taco_Champ 27d ago

Gotta let them get their first paycheck and start to like people

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u/mashonem ☑️ 27d ago

Cause fuck ‘em, that’s why

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u/ProfessionalSock2993 27d ago

Yup firing someone for vindictive reason like that might open you to lawsuits, where as she could just show up after her interview, and remind her how she treated her, and then send her the standard thank you for applying email after making her wait for a week or two, she will know why she didn't get a job but she can't exactly sue for it cause there would be no damning evidence other than he said she said

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u/BigBizzle151 27d ago

Yeah, this person mentioned Nyeri though, which is in Kenya... I don't know much about their employment laws.

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u/dubyajay18 27d ago

The fact that a child is involved makes this a tough one.

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u/DekuTrii 27d ago

Makes it pretty easy, really. Don't toy with that kid's stability like that.

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u/dubyajay18 27d ago

Yeah I meant tough as in tough to laugh at the pettiness.

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u/youngpepto 27d ago

Especially over the way someone was in highschool. Like that’s a teenager come on man

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u/CorsoReno 27d ago

That part pushed it into rage bait territory for me tbh

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u/dubyajay18 27d ago

Agreed

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u/EdeniEdits 27d ago

“The sins of the father mother are to be laid upon the children.” ― William Shakespeare,

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u/mistergraeme 27d ago

Petty White Petty Crocker Petty Pendergrass Petty Ruxpin Petty Roosevelt Richard Petty and Petty Krueger

All rolled up into one.

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u/Equivalent_Success60 27d ago

Don't forget Petty LaBelle....

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u/Zealousideal_Ant4685 27d ago

I’m not one to go out my way and get try to get revenge from high school bullies, but there was this one classmate of mine that was misogynistic, homophobic, and was always yelling about how he hated black women. One day I was having a bad day and a dude asked me a stupid question, and I simply chose not to answer. This dick riding mf started saying how rude I was, and eventually said “that’s why your mama don’t love you”…..well in 2021 his momma died. And I laughed my ass off. I wanna ask him so bad if his momma loves him😭😭

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u/MrFunktasticc 27d ago

The woman my grandpa married after my grandma died was stealing his money which was coming from my family. When my uncle died, my grandpa (already suffering from dementia) took a turn for the worst. He needed round the clock care and we hired nurses working in shifts. She didn't have to do anything and was still being supported by us but chose to walk out because it was "too much for her." She had the audacity to demand a plane ticket from us. I advised telling her to pound sand but was overruled.

She got hit by a truck walking on some country road in Russia which I found hilarious. I said as much at a family dinner and the response was mixed between agreeing with me and some BS about not speaking ill of the dead. Someone tried to cover for me by saying I must have been joking. I wasn't joking - fuck that bitch, I hope she burns in hell.

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u/Electrical-Help5512 27d ago

I'm kinda over pettiness and hate being so celebrated.

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u/WriterReborn2 27d ago

Same here. It's ok to be petty sometimes, but it seems like people are embracing it a bit too much.

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u/gele-gel 27d ago

This is past “a bit” too much

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u/WriterReborn2 27d ago

Yeah, I kinda downplayed it in my original comment.

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u/Three0h 27d ago

Yeah, not a fan of the whole ‘I’m gonna fuck with this woman and her child because she bullied me 10 years ago’

I know bullying ain’t a joke, but neither is endangering the welfare of a child.

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u/sms2014 27d ago

Right, like it's one thing to stop her from getting hired because grandma probably wouldn't want that bully around anyway... But to get her hopes up and then just smash them is next level fucked.

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u/pitchingataint 27d ago

With the job market the way it is, you could ruin someone’s life like that.

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u/DudeEngineer ☑️ 27d ago

I mean people get bullied into suicide in high school.....

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u/The_Big_Yam 27d ago

Yeah, and that woman now has a kid she’s responsible for keeping alive, so, messing with that seems pretty evil imo

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u/TerribleAttitude 27d ago

It’s because people just can’t find the line. “This girl was a bitch to me in school so I’m not going out of my way to be nice to her?” Ok. “This girl was a bitch to me in school so I’m going to make sure her children starve?” Chill.

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u/grundelgrump 27d ago

Everyone has passing thoughts like throwing someone you don't like out of a window or something like that, but the internet has allowed people to just say those thoughts out loud and then have thousands of people saying "no that's not just a passing, intrusive thought. You are correct and just for thinking that and we should encourage it". People grow up thinking sarcastic quips are philosophical truths to live by.

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u/WriterReborn2 27d ago

Literally this. OP doesn't have to be nice to her bully, but potentially harming the kids is too far.

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u/UsualFrogFriendship 27d ago

Revenge is easy that’s why. It’s hard, often really hard, to break the cycle.

“Satyagraha is peaceful. If words fail to convince the adversary perhaps purity, humility, and honesty will. The opponent must be “weaned from error by patience and sympathy,” weaned, not crushed; converted, not annihilated.

Satyagraha is the exact opposite of the policy of an-eye-for-an-eye-for-an-eye-for-an-eye which ends in making everybody blind.

You cannot inject new ideas into a man’s head by chopping it off; neither will you infuse a new spirit into his heart by piercing it with a dagger.”

  • The Life of Mahatma Gandhi” by Louis Fischer

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u/SoF4rGone 27d ago

It would be so much better if this dude didn’t fuck kids.

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u/UsualFrogFriendship 27d ago

Fortunately, that’s not a quote from Gandhi. That’s an excerpt from Fischer’s commentary on Hinduism

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u/All_Work_All_Play 27d ago

Lol right? The best idols for peace are the ones you've never heard of because they just left other people alone. 

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u/Internal-presence11 27d ago

Buddha is pretty awesome to be fair. I agree though, I truly believe that the most enlightened humans to ever live aren't famous and no one knows who they were.

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u/ColdGibbletGravy 27d ago

Humans are flawed but that doesn’t change the truth in the words

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u/Snite 27d ago

It’s like depression memes through the 2010’s.  Now we’re all jumping on a different bandwagon that makes us miserable.

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u/BeamerKiddo ☑️ 27d ago

Because people are miserable and they want everyone to be miserable, too.

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u/3eeve 26d ago

This tweet is a level of pettiness that crossed a line for sure.

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u/ultraviolentfuture 27d ago

Seriously. You can ensure she doesn't get hired and move on if you're dedicated to believing people can't grow beyond the shit they did in highschool.

You don't need to go the extra mile and make everyone work to hire her first.

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u/Little_Consequence ☑️ 27d ago

That's also selfish. Grandma is old and needs an employee, not to be a pawn in a stupid revenge scheme. She'll have to go through the struggle of finding someone else again.

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u/Sekmet19 27d ago

I'm sure Ms. Petty was a perfect angel and never was nasty or mean in highschool. Mnn hmm, no sir.

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u/White_Mocha ☑️ 27d ago

As someone who was bullied in high school (along with the usual racism), Ms. Petty probably had tons of trash talk in that head of hers.

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u/Induced_Karma 27d ago

I was bullied, and I’m ashamed to admit it but sometimes I took that out on people even lower in the social hierarchy than I was. My bullies made me feel powerless, and sometimes I did the same to other people because I thought it would make me feel powerful. Those other kids also got it from my bullies, I should have had their backs instead of piling it on.

I’ll regret that behavior till the day I die. What my bullies did to me doesn’t bother me anymore, but what I did still sometimes does. All I can do is keep trying to be better today than I was yesterday.

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u/Wes_Warhammer666 26d ago

Relatable as hell. I still sometimes have the fantasy of what if we had banded together and whooped the bullies into leaving us the fuck alone instead of my dumb ass sending it down the chain in a lame attempt to feel like I wasn't powerless.

Definitely one of those things on my "if you could talk to your younger self for 30 seconds..." list.

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u/whimsigod 27d ago

Also I'm worried for the kid? Like the kid didn't bully you ma'am like she also probably didn't have kid to get sympathy fron you either. Either confront her and get your piece and own up to your pettiness about wanting to hurt a family with a child or move on 💀

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u/lookingforaforest 27d ago

Seriously. Hiring/onboarding/training/firing. can be very expensive, especially for (what I assume is) a small business. She shouldn’t let her hate for the girl make her grandma to have to go through the headache of selection and interviewing potential candidates in a few months.

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u/Ratchetonater 27d ago

People are clearly not getting hit in the mouth enough.

Sure, go ahead, mess with the woman and her child because you got bullied a decade ago. She really don't know what "world falls apart" means. What if it's the last straw for her? What if the job was her last bit of hope to not be out on the streets? to keep the child?

will she decide to be the bigger person, or will she decide that it's finally time to see what stabbing someone 500 times feels like?

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u/LakerBlue ☑️ 27d ago

“And her child” is key…not that I would agree with it if the bully was childless, but the fact the woman would choose to make the child suffer for her mom’s actions is especially cruel.

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u/Dampmaskin 27d ago

Or maybe she should ... let's see .... grow as a person and put it behind her?

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u/ind3pend0nt 27d ago

When it ruins the moment or day sure. When it ruins someone’s week or life nope.

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u/dust_inlight 27d ago

To be clear I did upvote you but I did also upvote all the petty comments as well

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u/NArcadia11 27d ago

You’re just here for chaos and I respect that

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u/easy10pins 27d ago

Astronomical levels of petty

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u/JuniorStarr79 27d ago

The way this tweet will be used in court for unlawful dismissal

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u/Lanoris ☑️ 27d ago

See, she could just tell her granny about it and have her not be hired in the first place. Doing alla that extra stuff means you got problems.

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u/HalfOfLancelot 27d ago

And all that pettiness just to give your granny legal problems. Fucking over everyone AND your family just to get back at someone. I don't think it's worth it lmao.

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u/SailorJay_ ☑️ 26d ago

Doing alla that extra stuff means you got problems. ... the kinds of problems we allude to when we say " go to therapy, heal so your kids don't have to carry the burden of your unresolved trauma".

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u/WrapMyBeads 27d ago

I see the BPT Hater Association has gathered once more! 🍷

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u/Thomas_DuBois 27d ago

This is why you don't treat people like shit.

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u/mashonem ☑️ 27d ago edited 27d ago

The ACTUAL lesson here

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u/BLACKdrew 27d ago

If you look at her Twitter it’s like the prime example of a hurt person. And hurt people hurt people. I do get wanting revenge. But it’s sad that someone could be so hurt that they could knowingly go out of their way to cause harm. Like premeditated life ruining is crazy as a grown ass woman

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u/whoisthatguyitsme 27d ago edited 27d ago

"Her being an unemployed single mom isn't enough because -I- haven't hurt her yet" is just a wild way of admitting that you want your turn to hurt people. Pettiness should be a funny gotcha story you share with your friends. This is more like finding out your bully ended up homeless so you tear up their tent, throw water on them, and run

Edit: god DAMN I just looked at her twitter and you'd think she was talking about a child predator the way she talks about bullies. "I will move on after I mess her up and get her to beg me and apologize" I'm scared to think how this person treats the people in their life like damn

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u/BLACKdrew 27d ago

Yeah fr. Like we all got problems but damn this kinda socio. And we don’t even know what the bully did to her. This could all be lies lol

If you wanna do something about bullies fucking lay them out on sight when it happens not years later lol

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u/Smokeahontous 27d ago

Gurl, get your shit together

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u/luneydesmond ☑️ 27d ago

“I’ve never taken the high road. But I tell other people to, cause then there’s more room for me on the low road”

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u/Bunnnnii ☑️ Meme Thief 27d ago

A Classique.

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u/UniqueUsername82D 27d ago

"I don't want to be a better person" is a complete sentence.

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u/Jason-sentiborn 27d ago

This is such a sad thing to post and it's kind of pathetic to brag about it

It's one thing to not get her hired but to go to this extent against a single mother. You won already let it go.

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u/SatisfactionSenior65 27d ago

This is petty af but folks need to realize that people don’t forget how you made them feel.

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u/hazeldazeI 27d ago

axe forgets but the tree remembers

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u/OmniOmega3000 27d ago

Can't vibe with "being good doesn't help".

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u/PainlessDrifter 27d ago

hard to imagine that a person who said that isn't at LEAST one other person's bully

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u/4dseeall 27d ago

It's inherently selfish.

Being good does help... someone else. But it doesn't help ME, so why be good?

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u/Sekmet19 27d ago

Make sure you punish her child too. That's going to earn you good karma. /s

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u/Intelligent_Cut635 27d ago

“Kindness is free, ya know”

“It’s free to be a hater, too”

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u/itsSRSblack ☑️ 27d ago

"Being good doesn't help." This bitch on course to be Lexa Luthor.

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u/HTC864 ☑️ 27d ago

This is sad.

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u/TheBuddhaPalm 27d ago

It is. What's also sad is seeing how many people celebrate hatred and intentional harm to others.

And then they sit around and wonder how we got here. They said and eye for an eye..

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u/CHARLI_SOX 27d ago

"An eye for an eye" is all they heard. They stopped listening after that.

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u/BonJovicus 27d ago edited 27d ago

A child is going to suffer because of something their mother did as a teenager. Wouldn't be an issue if OP would just act like a grown ass woman.

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u/notgamerbutplayer 27d ago

She wants revenge and she wants it ice cold...

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u/orifan1 26d ago

damn maybe they shoulda been a better person first 💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅💅

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u/Anime-Takes 27d ago

I have to be honest. It does pay to be a good person. I’m not saying you have to be best friends with someone who wronged you in the past. But for you and adult to purposefully mess with someone who is trying to take care of their child because of something that happened when y’all were kids… it truly does hurt to see. You can very easily not associate with them, or even just say hey, don’t hire that person. But to set them up for failure especially when there is an innocent child involved, it just seems like you are excited that now you get to be the bully and continue the cycle. Sometimes we are afraid to let go of anger from wrongdoings because we believe it means we are accepting of what happened. Or more than excepting it’s like we agree with it. Truly I say that is not the case, you can accept that it happened but accept that it was wrong. Accept that you want more for your life. Acknowledge the past and accept a better tomorrow for yourself. Holding on to pain keeps your hands full, you gotta go grab your future. Yes you can succeed and be mad about yesterday, but then you are waisting energy on the negative and that takes away from the positive in your life. I know I know I’m being preach but it really hurts me when I see things like this

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u/tantalides 27d ago

i think you're right. there's a limit to this behavior, particularly when there's a child involved and a tweet with her whole face admitting to a future crime.

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u/SadMango3913 27d ago

You know what I feel the same way. I was ruthlessly bullied and at this point I’m not even mad. I’ve only received one apology too. Basically this girl got shot (they were aiming for her friend but got her instead) instantly all her friends disappeared. I started walking with her to the bus. She apologized to me.

I hold no hate towards anyone that bullied me. It’s not my responsibility to make sure everyone gets their karma. Holding onto hate is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. You very well can cut people off and never speak to them. But to “get back” ? Now both y’all wrong.

I’ve recently had a situation with a relative where I switched my behavior and decided to just be the bigger person. Now I’m being praised and the other person is being shamed. You see this is their karma. They’ve been working for years destroying my reputation. I haven’t even seen them for 2 years now yet for some reason my name is still in their mouth. Doing all this yapping that she’s not involved in my kids lives.

I reached out to her and she doesn’t want to fix the relationship. She just wants to sit there bitching about her problem and doesn’t do a damn thing to fix the situation. Her attempt to paint me as a shitty mother failed. She apparently lied to everyone saying she does want to fix things but I’m the problem. I didn’t even know this when I reached out to her.

Now I very well could have just cussed her out like I typically would have. But remaining calm has shown everyone who’s really starting all the shit. She looks stupid asf now.

This was when I learned being the bigger person will go farther. Now no one has a damn thing to say about me. Now they’re saying she needs to learn from me and be more like me. 💁🏻‍♀️😂

You also have to be carful with petty people. Cause yall can have a misunderstanding and they’ll do some foul ass shit over something that woulda been fixed with a conversation.

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u/Anime-Takes 27d ago

Glad it’s working out for you. If you see two people not disagreeing but in a yelling match it doesn’t matter who started it or who is right, they both look wild. Y’all can disagree, but slinging mud just gets everyone dirtier. Let them roll in the mud alone. And if they want a cloth to wipe themselves you can offer it if you want, but that’s up to you.

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u/SadMango3913 27d ago

Completely agree. I know I haven’t been the nicest to others as well. I say be as forgiving as you’d want to be forgiven. Some people don’t deserve it and that’s fine but might as well just stay away.

I’m at a point in my life where I don’t have space for pettiness. We either talk things out or just leave each other alone. If you have a problem with me but refuse to address it you’re beefing with yourself at that point.

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u/AusBoss417 27d ago

You didn't explain how it pays to be a good person

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u/IamJewbaca 27d ago

If she is in the states, hiring someone with the intent to fire them can turn into a legal issue, so that’s a way it could pay to be a good person here.

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u/360Waves617 ☑️ 27d ago

I'll just leave one of the pettiest verses from Chance The Rapper here.......

I hope you get a paper cut on your tongue From a razor in a paper cup I hope every soda you drink already shaken up I hope your dreams dry like raisins in the baking sun I hope your titties all saggy in your early 20's I hope there's always snow in your driveway I hope you never get off Fridays And you work at a Friday's that's always busy on Fridays I hope you win the lottery and lose your ticket I hope it's Ben and Socrates poop all up in your kitchen I hope the zipper on your jacket get stuck And your headphones short, and your charger don't work And you spill shit on your shirt I hope your tears don't hurt, and I can smile in your face Cut my losses, how Delilah changed my locks to a fade I hope you happy, I hope you happy I hope you ruined this shit for a reason, I hope you happy!

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u/InkyLizard 27d ago

Revenge feels great and it is the only thing that really heals permanently. Revenge is the ultimate power trip, but don't get me wrong, I was a complete POS in my youth, and I wouldn't complain if any of the people I have wronged did this to me. Revenge is also healing on the receiving end, getting revenge exacted on you is so much better than the guilt from bad deeds.

The powers that be just want to drive this "forgive everything and let go, never do anything no matter what anyone does to you" to keep the guillotines hidden away, I say let's bring 'em out and avenge the economy and the world they destroyed!

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u/Auscent99 26d ago

So many bully apologists in this thread.

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u/illestrated16 27d ago

"Tooth for a Tooth or eye for an eye and we'd all be mumbling in blind"....get over pettiness, it's not a good look.

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u/ConcretePraxis 27d ago

That’s kinda just giving her unemployment benefits

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u/XLauncher ☑️ 27d ago

I don't approve...but I get it.

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u/Countryb0i2m 27d ago

This ain’t it, we should be better than this

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u/ContemplatingPrison 27d ago

I mean that shit going to come back on her. I never understand why as a grown adult you would go out of your way to make someone else's life worse.

The cycle of that shit will just continue. Which is what Karma really is.

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u/ansufati4prez 27d ago

Because they have nothing better to do in their own lives. Which is actually sad to see. This isn’t the flex they think it is. Any rational, well adjusted, successful adult wouldn’t even give the time of day to such a situation.

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u/ifinallyhavewifi 27d ago

Yeah fr just gives off poorly adjusted loser vibes

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u/WeakDiaphragm ☑️ 27d ago

The "she's a single mother" part should make one act maturely. There's a child's wellbeing at stake FFS.

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u/Formal-Cucumber-1138 27d ago

This year I’ve realised I’m not petty enough or the biggest hater around.

I have some shoes to fill

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u/TimberWolfeMaine 27d ago

Just saw my high school bully at the grocery store the other day and im happy to say that she resembles Jabba the Hutt and looks like trailer trash. Karma sometimes works itself out and saves the trouble. Fuck that twat.

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u/deviltakeyou 27d ago

People can change, but they rarely do. Especially as late as high school.

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u/Dill137 27d ago

Damn, ya'll in here talking about growth and healing.

OP out here like:

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u/psydkay 27d ago

We don't know the extent of the bullying. It could have been severe. It's entirely possible that the bully is unsafe to be around.

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u/Dwangeroo 27d ago

I love this so much! Bullies should never get a break, bully children become bully adults. They never learn and need commupence to remind them who they are.

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u/plasticman1997 27d ago

My high school bully took his life four years after graduation, left his child fatherless

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u/dragonbornette 27d ago

Some girl who was an ass to me for no reason at work eventually applied for a job at my mom’s work, where she would be working for my mom. My mom saw her workplace listed on the resume and asked if I knew her. I was more than happy to tell her how much of a bitch she was and not to hire her. Serves her right. I never felt bad.

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u/Darqnyz7 27d ago

The best "karma" I've ever experienced in my life was when I was in 7th grade. I had just started school in the States, having come from Germany. I had some fireworks in my jacket pocket from the day before fucking around with my friends. I didn't know that these were highly illegal in VA, so when I found them in my jacket pocket at lunch, I didnt realize how big of a deal this was. One of the kids just told me to throw it away, no big deal.

But one kid, huge asshole named Randall. He was one of the "cool' kids. He went to the trashcan, and LOUDLY announced to the whole cafeteria that I had thrown it out. And picked them out of the trash and held them up in the air for all to see, and brought them to the school security guard.

Needless to say, I was long term suspended. 90 days in an alternate school and additionally I had to go to juvenile court for like a "scared straight" kinda bullshit.

While we were being introduced to the cells, guess who I see get walked in in handcuffs... That's right, fuck nigga Randall himself. I never saw him again after that. And after over 20 years later, to this day I hope every day sucked for him. He started a chain reaction in my life that would push me closer and closer to the school to prison pipeline, all because he thought it would be funny to get me in trouble for an innocent mistake. He could have just minded his own business, but he went out of his way to purposefully drag me down... Fuck em. I hope he never finds peace.

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u/Numerous_Cattle_4393 26d ago

The universe is trying to let her get her lick back. Who am I to stand in the way!

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u/BlackManWorking ☑️ 27d ago

Damn Queen Petty of Pettyville….

I’m kinda here for it lol

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u/doodlelol 27d ago

Woaoh Black Petty, Bamalam

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u/UniqueUsername82D 27d ago

"Black Petty took yo' job, bamalam"

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u/fightyfightyfitefite 27d ago

"Black Petty holds a grudge, bamalam"

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u/malufa 27d ago

As someone who was bullied (by tens of people, for years) I would’ve done the same and feel absolutely delighted. The amount of trauma I’m dealing with is so immense and it’s taking me more than 20 years to recover. Who knows if I really will. It fucked me up real good. So it’s not petty, it’s a well deserved payback.

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u/imf4rds ☑️ 27d ago

One thing I’ve learned this year so far, is that when you hate, hate hard.

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u/Sea_Dawgz 27d ago

Being good really doesn’t help it’s so true.

I’ve been teaching my kid to be a good person and I see trump and all his cult and I wonder “am I handicapping my kid?”

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u/NihilisticPollyanna 27d ago

That's kinda sad. I've had a pretty violent and abusive childhood, and there were a few people in my life that I legit wished would just die.

Holding on to pain and nurturing grudges is sooo exhausting and emotionally draining. Hating someone consistently over a long period of time, especially when they've long been removed from your life, is a lot of time and energy wasted.

The best thing I ever did, was "forgive" them. Not in the sense of "Oh, no worries, we're all good", but in the sense that I moved on and stopped dwelling on the past and trying to understand their actions.

I forgave them for my own peace of mind, and I can't overstate how much my mental health improved once I removed that source of stress from my life.

And I'm not talking about some random school bully, I'm talking about immediate family. You gotta cut that fucking cancer out, or it will rot you from the inside.

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u/Ambitious-Pirate-505 27d ago

Her villain story started

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u/fromcradletoglaive 27d ago

"I don't want peace! I want problems!"